Abaningi sebeqaphele kakade ukuthi ezikhathini zamuva ukufunda izincwadi ezihlukahlukene kuyafana kakhulu. Njengoba, ngokuqinisekile, abazali abaningi abaqondi nje? okuyinto okudingekayo ukufunda izinganekwane. Kodwa akudingekile ukukhohlwa ngamasiko ukufunda izindaba zezinganekwane ngokuzwakalayo.
Ngokungangabazeki, kunoma yikuphi ukuqoshwa komculo, kuzodingeka ukhethe ukunyatheliswa okujwayelekile, okujwayelekile kithi. Ngakho-ke yiziphi izizathu zokuthi yini okudingeka ufunde, tshela izindaba ebusuku? Yebo, yilokho okusemandleni abo okuba ngumsizi womama, mhlawumbe, ukukhuliswa kanzima kanzima. Ngempela, ngosizo lwalolu daba noma le ndaba, izingane zakho zizokwazi ukufunda okuthile okuthakazelisayo, okusha, ukufunda ukuhlala ngokukhethekile ngokufanele, nokuqeda ukwesaba kwabo. Kodwa yiziphi izincwadi ezifanele ukuthenga? Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi akusizi ngalutho ukunikeza izintandokazi ezincwadini ezibiza kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze ufunde incwadi ethile, akudingekile ukukhetha, ukuthenga izembozo ezintsha. Uma nje ukhetha, kuzodingeka uqaphele cishe isikhathi esisodwa - kokubopha kwesinye isikhathi, ngoba ikhava elikhukhulayo lizohlala isikhathi eside. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze ingane ikulalele ngokucophelela, izithombe ezikhanyayo zibalulekile.
I-oda endlini nasengqondweni. Esinye sezizathu zokuqala zokufunda ezinganeni noma yiziphi izinkondlo ukuthi ukufunda ngokuzwakalayo ngale ndlela kuzokusiza ukuhlehlisa umhlaba wengane yakho. Emva kwakho konke, i-kid izoqala kangcono futhi iqonde okuhle, noma okubi, futhi liphi umkhawulo phakathi kwabo. Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi, okomama, izimo, ikakhulukazi lezo ezichazwe encwadini, kubonakala sengathi zifakiwe. Ngempela cishe noma yimuphi umntanakho, akunandaba ukuthi indaba iyindaba noma indaba. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi le nkathi yezinganekwane igcwele izenzakalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, inganekwane iyindlela ehle futhi ephelele kwithelevishini. Yebo, futhi ngokusho kwesitatimende sabantwana bezinkinga zezingane eziningi, izingane zanamuhla zinobudlova, uma kuqhathaniswa nezizukulwane zangaphambilini. Isizathu salokhu lokhu kuhlala isikhathi eside, okuqhubekayo ngaphambi kwesikrini se-TV esikhona. Phela, uma izindabakwanekwane zikwazi kakhulu ukuthuthukisa izimfanelo ezinhle ezinganeni, lesi sikrini senza ukungabi nandaba nokuhlukunyezwa.
Imikhuba emihle. Iningi labantu liyazi ukuthi abantu abazalwa ngokuziphatha okuhle. Ngoba bazodinga ukuthuthukisa ingane. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu kuzodingeka ufunde, ubike izinganekwane. Emva kwakho konke, abantu abaningi, izingane kanye nabantu abadala bazozihlanganisa neziqhawe ezithile zezinganekwane. Yebo, futhi izinhlamvu zibeka isibonelo kumntanakho, yini okufanele yenziwe, nokuthi yini engekho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane azifani neze zindaba zobusha bamama nobaba. Kungcono ukukhetha amathekisthi amaningi anamuhla, noma izindaba ezinjengezinhlamvu ezinjalo ezidumile, ezijwayelekile njenge-Harry Potter noPeter Pen, noma uCaptain Jack Sparrow. Indabakwane "Izakhamizi, isakhamuzi kanye nesikhumba esincane" ngumbhali oyedwa: Kim Fuks Okeson, uzokwazi ukuphakamisa inkinga yezingane ezingezona ezijwayelekile. Ngokuyinhloko, emndenini owodwa, balinde kakhulu ingane yabo, kodwa esikhundleni sakhe imonkey yavela ngandlela-thile. Futhi abazali banikezwa ithuba lokushintsha lo mntwana. Nakuba beqonda ukuthi izingane ezingezona ezijwayelekile zibiza kakhulu, kahle, noma zingaba njalo.
Ukufundisa umama. Kungaba isifiso sokufunda izincwadi ezinjalo ezinembile nengane yakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukufunda izindaba zezingane ngeke kube usizo kuphela ezinganeni ngokwazo, kodwa nakubantwana bazo. Phela, izindaba eziningi ezifanayo zemilingo zifundisa omama nabababa abaningi ukuxhumana nomntanakhe othandekayo, nokumfundisa. Enye inganekwane, njenge "Frog" kuJacob Martin Strid ingatshela ngabantu abathile. Futhi ukuphila okulinganiselwe kwalowo mbhangqwana wamacweba kuphelile ngezinye izinto ezibonakala njengengane engenangqondo. Lapha i-scoundrel ihlale igxeka lezi zinhlobo ezilandelayo, njengokuthi ugeza lezi zinsaka ngesepha futhi zibeka ngisho nefoni kuhhavini. Futhi ukuphikisana okuqhubekayo, ukuziphatha kahle kuholele kulo mphumela, ukuthi i-frog inquma ukubalekela ekhaya ngokuphelele. Emva kwakho konke lokhu, emva kokuthola ingane, abazali bakhetha ukuvuma zonke izinkinga zabo.
Lahla ukwesaba. Ngokungangabazeki, izingane, kanye nabantu abadala, bacabanga, besaba ukufa. Futhi amafilimu ahlukahlukene ahlukumezayo angenza kuphela ukwesaba kumntwana. Kodwa empeleni ingqondo yengane ingakaboniswa ngokugcwele, ngakho-ke into nokukhathazeka kungaba yingozi kakhulu kumntwana. Futhi incwadi enjalo nguKim Fuks Okeson ngokuthi "Ukuthi umkhulu waba yindoda" ingasiza kanjani ukunqoba ukwesaba ukufa okunjalo. Lapha umfana u-Esben uthi usolwa ngokubona umkhulu wakhe. Futhi akekho okholwa nguye. Kumele uqaphele ukuthi ezingxoxweni zobusuku ingane yakho ikhumbula izikhathi ezinhle kakhulu zokuphila, futhi izingxoxo ezinjalo ezifanayo nomkhulu zingachazela ingane ukuthi ukudabuka okuthile kusiza ukuhlala kuphela inkumbulo enhle yabantu bakhe abaseduze. Okungakhathazeki empilweni.
Thuthukisa ukucabanga . Akudingekile ukufunda indaba enjalo ngokuphelele. Phela, phakathi noma isiphetho singashiywa kamuva. Lokhu kungukuthi umntwana ngokwakhe ufike naye, noma uzame ukuqamba umphumela othile. Ngakho-ke umcabango uqala, futhi umntwana ufunda ukuveza imicabango yakhe ngokuzwakalayo kangcono. Endabeni uma uvala le ncwadi phakathi, ungakwazi ukunqoba kamuva ingane futhi ukwesaba ukukhuluma ngemicabango yakho. Ngokukhethekile, kuyokwazi ukufaka ingane isifiso sokukhuluma kunoma yimuphi umphakathi.
Thuthukisa umsebenzi wobuchopho. Kumele kuqaphele ukuthi ngenxa yokufunda izingane ngokuzwakalayo ebuchosheni, kuhlanganiswa izigidi ezihlukahlukene ze-neuronal compounds. Kungashiwo ukuthi lokhu kubuye kuthuthukise umsebenzi wobuchopho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukufundwa ngokuzwakalayo kuyanconywa nabantwana abanokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo okulahlekile. Futhi ngaphambi kokulala, kuyoba ngcono ukumisa ezindabeni zezinganekwane nganoma isiphi isici esithulile. Futhi ngaphandle kokufunda ungadlala inganekwane. Ngemuva kokudlala izigcawu ezivela ezinganeni ezithandayo inganekwane kuzomsiza ukuba anqobe futhi abe namahloni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isenzo singadlalwa esiteji, kodwa ngisho nasebhokisini lokudweba. Nakuba ungacabanga ngenye into.
Lahla ama-vagaries. Njengoba sekuyaziwa, ingane engenakuqhathaniswa iba bobabili eneminyaka engu-3-4, futhi ngenxa yemfundo engalungile. Kodwa lezi zindaba zizosiza ukubhekana nezingane ezingenakuqhathaniswa kakhulu. Ngakho uthuthukisa kanjani umqondo wokulalela? Yebo ungamtshela ukuthi emva kwamakhasi amabili wezinhlobo zakudala ngosuku azovunyelwa ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo. Emva kwakho konke, ingane kufanele ihlakulele imingcele ethile yokuziphatha kwayo, ngaphandle kwalokho iyovele ivele ibe yinto engcolile.
Ngokungangabazeki inganekwane iyindlela yokwelapha zonke izifo. Phela, inganekwane isiza izingane ezijwayelekile nezikhethekile ezizinkinga zabo. Futhi umbono wokuthi ukungahloniphi esikhathini esinjalo eminyakeni eyishumi nambili kuyoba isipho - nje nje ukukhohlisa. Ngempela, amandla angenakuphulukiswa kwengane kuyodingeka avinjelwe. Ikakhulukazi, kufanele iqondiswe kwesinye isiqondiso esifanele. Inketho enkulu - ukufunda izincwadi ezahlukene.