Ukuze uthole impendulo yalo mbuzo, sidinga ukuphendukela esikhathini lapho umntwana esesiswini sesisu. Sonke siyazi ukuthi ngaphakathi kwengane uzwa futhi, uzizwa futhi ubone, ngakho-ke ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe uqobo lwakhe ubheka isimo sakhe esimweni esizungezile. Ukuzwa okuyisisekelo kanye nokuqala komntwana kuthinta. Esikhathini samasonto angaba ngu-16-20, isithelo esithi "hovers" ku-amniotic fluid futhi cishe asithinti izindonga zesisu. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umntwana uyakhula, kanti isisu sesivele sincane kuye. Uma ingane ihlezi phezu kwezindonga zayo, inolwazi lokuqala mayelana nomzimba wakhe nesimo sakhe. Kancane kancane ingane ikhula futhi kusukela emavikini angama-34 isebenzisa yonke indawo ye-intrauterine. Ngakho-ke, umntwana uqala ukuzwa okuthintwayo nokuthinta, okwenza ngalo umqondo womhlobo womzimba wakhe. Ekupheleni kokukhulelwa ingane isivele inezinto ezithinta yona kanye nemibono ngaye, njengombhaluni noma, ngokuqondile, ifomu le-ovoid (i-ovoid ifomu).
Kumele uqaphele ukuthi ingane ayizizwa ingahambi kahle ngokunyakaza okulinganiselwe kanye nefomu lomzimba eliphoqelelwe. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ezigabeni zokugcina zokuthuthukiswa komntwana, umkhuba wesikhala esincane nokuhlelwa okuthile kuvela. Waqhekeka wangena e-kalachik, wadlula izibambo esifubeni sakhe futhi waphonsa imilenze yakhe, izinyane lizizwa likhululekile futhi livikelwe.
Okokugcina, kukhona ukubeletha, umntwana uzalwa futhi ubonani? Isimo sonke sashintsha ngokushesha: esikhundleni sokuqina, isikhala esikhulu, futhi ubumnyama bubuyiselwa ukukhanya okukhulu. Konke lokhu kubangelwa ukuqhuma emntwaneni. Phela, uma ucabanga ukuthi uchithe izinyanga ezimbalwa ebhokisini elincane ngaphansi komhlaba, bese uhanjelwa ngaphandle ngosuku olukhanyayo ukuze uhambe ngomgwaqo, ubungabe uzizwa kanjani? Cishe, imizwa ayengeke ibe mnandi: akunakwenzeka ukuqondisa, ukukhanya okuphazamisayo-konke lokhu kungabangela ubuhlungu nokuthuthumela kuphela. Umntwana osanda kuzalwa uzwa cishe okufanayo, ngakho kudingeka ajwayele izinguquko.
Ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi umuzwa wenduduzo awushiyi umntwana, ngakho-ke imizwa emihle kuphela ehlala emayelana nezwe, kubalulekile ukumnika umqondo womumo wakhe womzimba. I-diaper izosiza kulolu daba, njengento engelutho. Lapho umntwana ekhishwa, uzoba nomqondo olahlekile wokulondeka nokuthula. Phela, kwakukulesi sikhundla ukuthi wayehlala ezinyangeni ezimbalwa zokugcina. Ngokungangabazeki, ugogo wethu wayekwazi ngakho konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwezinsana ezisanda kuzalwa, futhi i-diaper yasungulwa njengendlela yokwenza ushintsho oluncane lwezingane kusuka ezweni elilodwa kuya kwelinye.
Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, izinto eziningi ziye zashintsha, kodwa izingane zizalwa futhi, ngakho-ke ama-diapers alandela nokusetshenziswa okuhlosiwe. Lokhu akukhawuli ukuthuthukiswa kwengane nganoma iyiphi indlela, kodwa ngokuphambene kuzosiza ukuthula ngokuzenzekelayo ushintsho esimweni. Okokuqala, ngokushesha nje lapho ingane ishiywe, iyancipha futhi izwa isimo esivamile. Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, izingane zizama ukuphuma bese ziphuza amapeni. Ingane izama ukubuyisela isithombe sonke sokuphila e-utero, okungukuthi isuka evikini lesithupha le-16 ithola isibhamu noma umunwe. Ngakho-ke, umuntu akufanele athathe lesi sifiso njengesifiso sokubuyela emuva kusuka ku-diaper. Emva kwamasonto angaba ngu-2-3, i-kid iqala ukuba nesithakazelo ezweni elizungezile: ukuhlola imvelo ezungezile, abantu nezinye izinto eziye zavela emehlweni. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ingane akufanele isigcine izibambo ezinsikeni.
Ezimweni zokubeletha okunzima, izingane eziningi zithola ukuhlukunyezwa okukhulu. Ngokuvamile isikhathi eside asikwazi ukujwayela umhlaba obazungezile. Izinsana ezinjalo zingase zibe nesifiso sokulala ezinsikeni kanye nezinyanga ezimbili. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuvumela ingane ukuba yamukele ngokuthula izwe elisha futhi lijwayele nalo. Ezimweni ezinjalo kungcono ukuthi ungasheshi izinto, kuzoletha inzuzo enkulu.
Ngakho-ke ungesabi ukukhipha ingane kuze kube yilapho yena ngokwakhe efuna ukuphuma e-diaper. Ngakho-ke kancane kancane futhi ngokuzolile ingane izosetshenziswa ngendlela entsha yokuphila.