Kuyini ukuxhumana okuthintekayo futhi kubaluleke ngani kumama nengane?
Ngenxa yobuzwe besikhumba, usana olusha luqala ukuthola nokucubungula ulwazi oluvela ezweni elingaphandle: okulungile nokubi; okujabulisayo - okungavamile, njll. Ingane ibona, izwa, kodwa ezinyangeni zokuqala iqala ukuqonda umhlaba kuphela ngokuthinta nokuzwela kwesikhumba. Ngisho esemncane kakhulu, uqala ukubona ukuthi yiziphi izinto noma abantu abanobungane kuye, futhi okungekho.
Sekuyisikhathi eside sekuyiqiniso: uma ubambezela ingane, uyamanga, uyisiphuzisa, iyisimbi, ingakhathazeki, iyakhala. Ngokuphambene nalokho, likhula ngokushesha futhi liba ngcono ngokwengeziwe.
Khumbula ukuthi umntwana uvela endaweni efudumala futhi ephephile yomsunguli womama ezweni elingavamile nelingaziwa futhi lidinga ukuba i-caresses. Umama kuleli cala, yedwa kuphela ongasiza kakhulu ingane ukuba ifunde ukuhleleka ngokuvumelana kuyo. Uma ungafuni ukuthi ingane yakho ikhule ibe ivaliwe noma ilaka, zama ukumcindezela kaningi esifubeni, uthathe ngokubamba, ukushaya isisu nokumanga. Ukuxhumana okuluhlaza kuyisiqinisekiso somoya ophilile.
Ngokuqinisekile, omama abaningi baye baqaphela ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi ukunyakaza kwengane kunzima kakhulu futhi kungenalutho, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uthinte, njengoba kancane kancane bezolile futhi bebushelelezi, imisipha ikhululekile.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ukuxhumana okuthinta ingane nengane kumzali?
Kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala emva kokuzalwa umntwana ulele kakhulu, zama ukusebenzisa njalo ngomzuzu wokuvuka kwakhe. Yenza ukusipha okuncane nokusikhipha isisu: ngeke nje kukhulule umfutho we-muscle hypertonia, kodwa kuzokuqeda.
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- Amama kufanele avame ukucindezela ingane enhliziyweni yabo. Lelizwi lijwayelene naye kusukela esibelethweni futhi lifanekisela ukuphepha, ukufudumala.
- Phakamisa izintende ezicindezelweyo, zilandele ngomunwe wakho. I-Curl futhi ungavumeli umunwe ngamunye. Ungesabi ukukhahlela izithende, uzigcobe.
- Ngesikhathi sokugeza, kutuswa ukuba ugeze ingane yakho kaningi kusuka ezandleni zakho. Ukunyakaza kwe-Massage kuyamukelwa futhi.
- Ukugxila ngezandla zomuntu kungenye yezindlela eziphumelelayo kakhulu zokuzola futhi usize omncane alele. Ukunyakaza kwakho akufanele kube okubukhali noma okungafani, zama ukuzamazama ngeso elifanayo. Kuhle uma i-lullaby ihambisana ne-lullaby ethule. Futhi unakekele izinga lokushisa lokunethezeka endlini.
Ukwazi ukuthi uthintana naye uthintana nokuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani ekukhulumisaneni ngeke kukuvumele kuphela ukuthuthukisa ingqondo enempilo yengane, kodwa futhi, njengomzali, ukwazi zonke izinjabulo zokubonisa uthando lwakho.