Uma uhlala nomyeni wakho ngaphezu konyaka owodwa, hlaziya ukuthi umyeni wakho uphuza kangakanani nsuku zonke. Uma ngabe umthamo wezidakwa awunyuki futhi indoda ayiziphathe kabi, ngokwanele, khona-ke umyeni wakho ulungile. Uthando ngobhiya futhi ngenxa yalokho - ukuphuza ngokweqile ubisi.
Kuyini ukuphuza utshwala? Uma umuntu ephuza ubhiya kaningi ngobuningi, khona-ke uthuthukisa utshwala obudakayo. Kusukela ekusebenziseni nsuku zonke ubhiya, amangqamuzana ebuchopho ayafa, okuholela ekuguleni komqondo ngenxa yalokho, ukucindezela komzimba kuphakama.
Umkhuba onjalo webhodlela ukuphuza ubhiya nsuku zonke, eminyakeni embalwa ingathinta impilo yakho. Ukuphuza ubhiya ngobuningi kakhulu kunciphisa ukuzivikela, "kubonakala sengathi ubhiya" ubhekene nokuthinta amandla.
Ukuphuza ngokweqile kotshwala, kufana nokudakwa ngokweqile, lokhu kuphela kokudakwa ngokweqile kuqhubeka isikhathi eside futhi kuhlale kungakapheli isikhathi eside. Indoda ngokwayo iphika ukuthembela ebhiya futhi ikholelwa ukuthi ingayeka ukusebenzisa ubhiya uma ifuna.
Uma umyeni ehlehlisa, ngaleyo ndlela, kudingeka uzame ukuze akhululeke ngaphandle kobhiya. Kungaba massage kusihlwa, ukuhamba, ukugeza, ingxoxo enhle, umoya ojabulisayo emndenini, dinner okumnandi. Udinga ukushintsha isimo sakho sengqondo kumyeni wakho, kungekudala, mhlawumbe, wayengenalo okwanele ukuba aduduze emndenini.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze ngemva kwakho konke?
Kubalulekile ukutshela umyeni wakhe ukuthi yikuphi utshwala obudakayo kanye nemiphumela yaso. Tshela umyeni wakho ukuthi uphelelwa kakhulu yiyo ukusetshenziswa nsuku zonke yobhiya. Futhi bheka ukuthi umyeni wakhe wathini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuwukuhle ukuzizwa unjengoba utshwala obushushu.
Uma umyeni ethanda ubhiya, mema ukuthi akuthengele, ngenxa yalesi samba, uthi amaqebelengwane, into enhle noma amnike imali. Futhi ekupheleni kwenyanga, uma uthola imali ehloniphekile, ungasebenzisa injabulo ngokwakho. Vumela umyeni aqiniseke ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esingakanani inyanga ubhiya kuphela.
Kumelwe sixazulule konke ngokuthula. Uma umyeni elawula, futhi ukuthi udla ubhiya nsuku zonke, akukhathazi okuningi, kungcono ukumshiya wedwa. Masiqaphele ukuthembela kwebhiya futhi ibhizinisi lakho likumxwayisa.
Kodwa uma kukhona utshwala obudakayo, uma umyeni, ekudakwa, eba nolaka futhi ehlala njalo, kufanele uxhumane nodokotela.
Inhlanhla kuwe!
UTatyana Martynova , ikakhulukazi isayithi