Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi impilo yangasese yamantombazane ayifuni nje. Ngomusa wakhe, ingqondo enhle nomqondo ofihlakeleyo wokuhlekisa, amadoda angamnaki. Futhi-ke, lapho bonke abangane sebejabule emshadweni futhi beba nabantwana, futhi bephelelwe yithemba futhi bengathembi ukubusa emphefumulweni wakho, ungazama ukuthola uthando lwakho ngokuzijwayeza ngokusebenzisa izinhlangano zomshado.
Kufanele ngiqale kuphi?
Uma uqala ukufuna ingxenye yesibili, hlola uhlu lwamasevisi wokuphola edolobheni lakho. Ungakhethi ngezikhathi ezithile. Bukeze bonke, thola futhi ukhulume nabameleli babo ukuthola ukuthi ubani okufanele anikezwe ukukhetha ukukuthola.
Ungakhetha kanjani inhlangano yomshado?
Njengoba usuzimisele ukuthola othandekayo ngokusebenzisa umxhumanisi, qaphela futhi uqaphele. Ngeshwa, ama-fraudsters kanye nabakwa-scammers bangatholwa phakathi kwabameli be-data providers.
Kunemithetho eminingana yokukhetha inhlangano yokuphola. Bayokuvikela futhi banikeze imiphumela emihle yokusesha.
Qiniseka ukuthi i-ejensi oyikhethile inehhovisi langempela. Ngempela, ungasebenzisa isevisi yangempela, kepha ungalindeli ukuthi abe nomthwalo wemiphumela. Uma kukhona okungahambi kahle, ama-agent angenacala ayatholakali.
I-ejensi ngayinye ehlanganyela emishadweni yomshado kufanele ibe nokubhaliswa kwezwe, ngakho-ke, kumele ibe nekheli lezomthetho, igama elisemthethweni, ilayisense, i-akhawunti yasebhange, isitembu, njll. Ungabi nobuvila ukubuza abasebenzi bale nkonzo ngemishado ephumelelayo, kumele babe ne-database nalabo. Thola ukuthi kukhona yini ithuba lokuxhumana namakhasimende ale nhlangano, abathola kakade umbhangqwana.
Ekupheleni kokukhethwa kwe-ejenti, funda ngokubuyekezwa ngalunye ku-intanethi - lokhu kuzokusiza wenze isinqumo senhloso.
Sicela uqaphele ukuthi abasebenzi bezinsizakalo ezinjalo kufanele babe besifazane abaneminyaka emaphakathi esesishadile kakade. Amantombazane amancane alawo msebenzi angase abe nesithakazelo ekuhleleni izimpilo zabo futhi angeke anakekele futhi anakekele.
Ungayinaki isiphetho sesivumelwano nenkonzo yokuphola, nokho uzokhokha izinsizakalo zabo. Ukuze ungahlali nekhaleni, ilungiselelo lamaphepha ngeke libe yinto engadingekile.
Ukugcwalisa uhlu lwemibuzo
Isisekelo sokusesha isigamu sakho sesibili sizobe sekuqedile lemibuzo. Ukutshela ngawe, thatha isikhathi sakho, ukhanyise zonke izimfanelo zakho kusuka ohlangothini olungcono kakhulu. Yakha isithombe esithakazelisayo kuwe ukuze ubulili obuhlukile bunesifiso esibalulekile sokukukwazi. Kodwa ungawudluleli, ukhulume ngezici zakho ezinhle, ungakhohlwa ukukhuluma ngeziphutha noma izici. Ubani ngaphandle kwabo? Uma ubhema, ungafihli lokhu ngenhloso, ukuze kamuva kungeke kube nokungaqondi kahle nabasindile bekusasa.
Iphuzu elibalulekile lemibuzo lemibuzo yakho isithombe. Kungcono uma kuneziningana. Izithombe kufanele zibe ngekhwalithi yobuchwepheshe. Ukuzibonakalisa kusuka ema-angles ahlukene, khetha isithombe ezithombeni ezihlukahlukene - isitayela sothando, ibhizinisi, kusihlwa. Lokhu kuzoba yengezwe kuphela lemibuzo yakho yemibuzo.
Ithimba lomshado lithatha kanjani umkhwenyana?
Ukufunda idatha yakho kusuka ohlwini lwemibuzo futhi ukhethe ngokucophelela ukhetho, ama-agent azohlela umhlangano nabafakizicelo abaningi ngesikhathi esifushane. Khona-ke kuzodingeka ukhethe kusuka kumadoda ambalwa owawuthandayo kakhulu. Lokhu kukhethwa kusekelwe ebuchwepheshe bokusesha obusebenzayo, esetshenziselwa ochwepheshe abahola kule nkambu.
Ngesikhathi semihlangano, izidingo zakho nezifiso zabaqashi bangashintsha. Zingashintshwa kulesosimibuzo, uma zikhulumisana nabachwepheshe besikhungo somshado.
Futhi, ngokuvamile izinhlangano zomshado zinikeza inhlangano yemihlangano, imishado nemikhosi engaphambi komshado. Banikeza ukusekelwa kokuziphatha nangokwengqondo, bafundise indlela yokuziphatha kahle emhlanganweni, ukuze benze umphumela wokusesha ube ngempumelelo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ekuphetheni, ngifuna ukuthi kukhona imishado eminingi ephumelelayo ngenxa yokuzijwayeza ejensi lomshado. Namuhla yikhulu lama-21, futhi ekusetshenzisweni kwezinsizakalo lezo zinsizakalo akufanele zibe namahloni. Kule ngqungquthela, izingqinamba eziyinhloko zokuthola isigamu sesibili zihlwiniwe, zisebenzisa izinsizakalo zokuphola. Ukubhekana nabo noma cha kungena kuwe.