Ubuhlobo obuvumelana phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane

Iqembu ngalinye lakha isitayela sabo sokuxhumana, ngokungafani nabanye. Ukuthola zonke izinzuzo nezindleko zakho, zama ukubuka ohlangothini: yiziphi izinhlobo zemidlalo onayo namathimba esoka? Futhi kanjani ukwenza ubuhlobo obuhambelana phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane?
Ukubhukuda okuvumelanisiwe.

Imigomo yokudlala: Cha, cha, hhayi igama mayelana nezigqoko zokugqoka ezingenangqondo zamaphini nezindwangu zenjoloba zekhanda. Uthando ngesitayela sokubhukuda okuvumelanisiwe ubunikazi obuhlanzekile. Uma ufuna othandekayo wakho nxazonke ukuba abe nawe, uma uchitha imali eningi kwi-SMS futhi uphazamiseke ngokujulile, uma enza okufanayo, ukubhukuda ukuthanda ukubambisana kuyisici sakho. Ungenza ubuhlobo obuvumelanayo.

Ikhadi elibomvu: Uyazi, ngaphansi kwamanzi, ngokuvamile akudingeki ukuba uphefumule uma ungesiyena i-mermaid. Kusukela emizamweni yakho yokusondela kumfana, kungase kubonakale sengathi uyamhlupha. Futhi ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane kufanele okungenani kube nenkululeko yesihlobo. Uyakhathazeka emhlabathini wezinga futhi uzama ukubuyela emuva? Ungakhubeki, ungahlezi ukuphenywa futhi ungabheke "izimfihlakalo ezimbi" - yisikhathi nje sokuba yena futhi uvuselele.

Phuma emdlalweni: Ukuze ube ndawonye, ​​udinga inkululeko kanye nobuhlobo obuvumelanayo. Lokhu akuyona into ephazamisayo futhi akusho ushintsho noma into enjalo. Ngamane nje wonke umuntu udinga isikhathi sakhe. Futhi idijithali ye-romance yokujova ngobuciko yenza ubuhlobo bakho bube yisibopho. Thatha isinyathelo emuva. Uzobona, uzokuthakazelisa kakhulu nawe uma ebona ukuthi akalawulwa. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uze uqale ukuphola, uhlale unezinto eziningi ezimnandi okumelwe ukwenze - akudingeki uzinike manje. Uma uchitha impelasonto ngaphandle - uhamba nabangani, futhi unezintombi, i-ayisikhilimu nefilimu ethakazelisayo, lokhu ngeke kubhubhise umhlaba. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uphuthelwa nje.

Ibhokisi.

Imigomo yomdlalo: ungakwazi, futhi ungazi ukuthi amagama athi "hook", "jab" ne "uppercut" asho ukuthini, kodwa usebenzisa lezi zindlela kusuka ebhokisini empilweni, ikakhulukazi ebuhlotsheni. Nguwe kuphela oshaya ama-punches akho, hhayi ngama-fist, kodwa ngamazwi anesizathu. Futhi ngenxa yazo zonke izinhlamba unempendulo eyodwa: "Ngisemncane".

Ikhadi elibomvu: Ukhungathekile ngenxa yezinto ezingenangqondo, nakuba ngingenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi lokhu akusilo lutho futhi kufanele "azi ukuthi ngizonda ama-roses, ngakho cha, ngiwabuyisela futhi ngosuku!" Futhi i-nuzzles eyinkimbinkimbi iyaqala. Futhi abantu abasondelene bayalimala ngokujulile - ngoba nje bayakwazi wonke amaphuzu abuhlungu: "obuthakathaka", uma engeyona i-jerk, "idiot", uma engeyena umdali wegolide ... Uqinisekile ukuthi yilokho okufanele uziphatha nomuntu wakho othandekayo ngakho-ke ukwakha ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane?

Phuma umdlalo: Ikhono lokuqhuba izivikelo zomlomo akuyona into embi, kodwa udinga ukuyisebenzisa kakhulu. Uma umfana engathokozi ngomqondo wakho wokuhlekisa, cabanga, kungaba kuhle ukuthola umzila onjalo kusuka kuye? Ubuhlobo obuvumelanayo bubaluleke kakhulu. Dlulisa intukuthelo esikhwameni sokubhoboza, amabutho - ekuqeqeshweni, kanye nabathandekayo bafunde ukukhuluma. Ngaphandle kwe-allegory.

UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi