Ngabe umsebenzi womntanakho ungakghona ukufika kuphi?
Ngokuvamile lokhu kwenzeka phakathi kwamasonto angu-24 no-28. Futhi ngemuva kwamasonto angu-28 omsebenzi uthola ukuhlala okuphelele okuhlukile. Izikhathi zokuphumula nokuhamba kwengane ziyashintshwa. Ngokuvamile, qaphela njalo ubuntu bomntwana. Ngezinye izikhathi yinto encane kakhulu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ingenasiphelo. Ngokuqinisekile uzozizwa ngokuvame ukubamba isibindi sakho, lapho ebusweni besisu uzobona isifo sofuba esifundeni sesibindi. Ngakho ungesabi ukungahambi kahle kokunyakaza kwengane. Ungase futhi ubale ukuthi zingaki ukunyakaza ngosuku ingane eyenzayo. Udinga ukubala konke, noma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kokuhamba kwengane. Emaminithini angu-10 kufanele ulinganise ukunyakaza okuyishumi ngokwesilinganiso. Uma lokhu kungasebenzi, udinga ukuzola, uphuze ubisi olufudumele nobusi, bese uqala ukubala. Uma ngabe ungakabala, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi unenkinga ye-fetus, kufanele usheshe wazise umjozi wakho wezifo mayelana nayo.
Uma ingane iphoqelelwa ngamandla, ungasabela kanjani?
Kwenzeka ukuthi ingane iqhutshwa kanzima kakhulu, futhi kubonakala sengathi lezi zithundu emlonyeni wesibeletho noma imbambo azizange zenzeke ngaphambili, futhi zikwesabisa. Ungakhathazeki! Ingane ikhula futhi iqina ngokwesikhathi sokukhula sokukhulelwa. Ngakho-ke, umuntu angagcina kuphela ubuhlungu, noma ashintshe isikhundla somzimba. Ngezinye izikhathi, ukugula okuhambayo kuyasiza, njengokugula kokuhamba kwezingane ezisanda kuzalwa. Isithelo silahlekelwa ibhalansi bese siyeka ukukhahlela.
Uma ingane ishaywa kuyo yonke indlela, ingabe amawele?
Hhayi njalo ukunyakaza okunjalo kwe-fetus kukhuluma ngokukhulelwa okuningi. Ngokuqinisekile, ukuxilongwa okuqondile, kungenziwa kuphela yi-gynecologist kuphela. Futhi izinsolo ezinjalo zingase zivele ngenxa yokunyakaza okukhathazayo kwengane enezithende, izingodo namadolo. Ngemva kwamasonto angu-34 ukunyakaza umntwana uzoba ohlelekile ngokwengeziwe, ngoba lesi sibeletho sizokukhawulela ukunyakaza kwakhe ngaphakathi.