Ngashiya umsebenzi wami waba umama wendlu


Umqondo "womama wendlu" uvele wamuva nje eRussia, okwenza inhlonipho phakathi kwabanye, ukunganakwa abanye, nokudideka okwesithathu ... Ngandlela-thile, ngandlela-thile, sonke kufanele sihlale ekhaya okwesikhashana (isimemezelo, sifuna umsebenzi omusha , iholidi elide - kungaba nezizathu eziningi). Futhi-ke ake sibone: ngokuba umama wendlu uhlazisa noma uhloniphekile, umfashini noma udala, ugoqa noma cha?

Ngokwezibalo, noma yikuphi abesifazane abangama-60% abazokujabulela ukuyeka umsebenzi wabo bese beba ngumama wendlu, benza imisebenzi yasekhaya kuphela. Kodwa-ke, njengoba kubonisa imikhonyovu, ingxenye eyodwa kuphela ehamba nezinguquko ezinkulu. Kukhona abesifazane abadalwa ukuba bahlale ekhaya, kukhona nalabo okufanele benze lokhu isikhathi esithile, futhi kukhona labo abaphila ngendlela enjalo ngokungapheli ... Yini okufanele siyenze kulowo nalowo macala?

Umphefumulo uyadala

U -Yulia oneminyaka engu-30 uthi: "Ngangiphupha ngokuba ngumama womkhaya. - Ngihlale ngithanda ukwenza indlu, ukupheka, ukuhlanza, ukuthunga. Kodwa impilo yavela ngendlela yokuthi angizange ngishade ngokushesha, ngakho-ke, ngemva kokuphothula esikoleni, ngaya emsebenzini. Kwakukuhlukunyezwa kwangempela. Angizange ngithande ukuchitha isikhathi sami ekushintsheni okungapheli kwamaphepha nokubhajelwa kwezimali.Ngesikhathi ngigcina ngihlangana nomyeni wami, yena ngokwakhe wanginika ukuba ngihambe ngihlale isikhathi esithile ekhaya. Ngashesha ukuyeka umsebenzi wami futhi ngibe ngumama wendlu. Ukuphila kwami ​​kushintshile kakhulu, ngiye ngathula, ngizibandakanya izinto ezimnandi kimi, futhi lapho sinezingane, kwakungekho isikhathi sokukhulelwa nhlobo. Manje ngiyajabula kakhulu: Ngiya ekhaya, ndodana yami nokudala kwami, nomyeni wami uyazi ukuthi umkakhe uhlale emlindele. "

"Isifiso sokuhlala ekhaya nokunakekela umndeni wakho kuyinto evamile ukuba owesifazane abe semvelo," kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Albert Lifman. - Into yokuthi awukwazi ukuphunyuka ememori yezofuzo. Ekugcineni, kuze kube phakathi nekhulu lama-20, abesifazane babengacabangi ngisho nokuthi bangasebenza futhi benze umsebenzi. Futhi akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho. Uma ungenalo izinhloso zobuholi, uma ukhululekile ekhaya futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, isimo sakho sezezimali sikuvumela ukuba ungasebenzi - phumula futhi ujabule. Akudingeki ube njengomuntu wonke umuntu, akufanele uzame ukufinyelela ezinye izindawo ngendlela efanele ... Umsebenzi wakho oyinhloko kufanele ujabule! Khumbula lokhu! "

ABASEBENZI ABALUNGILE

"Ngosuku lwesithathu ngangifuna ukukhuphuka odongeni!", "Ngesikhathi ngisekhaya, ngangihlale nginezinkinga ezimbi futhi ngilangazelela, ngangizizwa ngingenanzuzo", "Ngaphambili, umsebenzi womnyango wonke wawuncike kimi, futhi manje nje kunambitha ye-borscht! "- Ngakho-ke bhala ezinkundleni zabesifazane abaye baba yindlukazi okwesikhashana. "Kwabaningi, ukuhlolwa ngesinqumo (ngokuvamile ngokuvamile lesi sizathu sisenza simise futhi sikwazi ukuhlala ekhaya) singenakubekezelela," kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Elena Berusheva. - Kuze kube yamuva usicabanga ukuthi umhlaba uzoyeka ukuphela ngaphandle kwakho, ungavumelani neze ukuphumula kweviki futhi ulwandle ulwandle olune-laptop olwamukelekayo, kodwa manje lubonakala lungasebenzi. Izinguquko (ngisho ezihle) zidala ukucindezeleka njalo. Ngisho noma ngabe awuyena u-workaholic futhi ufuna ukuhlala ekhaya, ukushintsha isimiso esivamile sosuku kungakubeka ekupheleni kokufa. Ukuze unciphise ukulahlekelwa kwamangqamuzana omzimba, zama ukuxoxisana nawe. Indlela yakho entsha yokuphila yinto nje yesikhashana nje. Ngokushesha izimo zizoshintsha, futhi uzophinde ubuyele kwisigqi esivamile. Thokozisa njalo ngomzuzu wokuphila kwakho. Iyahamba ngokungenakuqhathaniswa! Okwenzekayo manje, ngeke kwenzeke futhi! "

KUKHULU NGESIKHATHI

" Ngokwethembeka, kwaba nzima kakhulu kimi ukuba ngijwayele indlela yokuphila komama wendlu, " u-Anna, 27 , amasheya. " Ngakho, lapho indodakazi yami ikhula, nganquma ukubuyela emsebenzini." Ngacabanga ukuthi ukuphila okusheshayo kuzodlala ngemibala emisha, kodwa kwakungekho lapho. Kwangathi ukufaka isigqi esisha kunzima nakakhulu. Okokuqala, osebenza nabo abaningi bayeka futhi ngafika eqenjini elisha elisha, futhi okwesibili, kwakungeke kwenzeke ukuba ngifake indima yomama nomphathi ophumelelayo. "

"Isimo sika-Anna sivame kakhulu," kusho isikhulu sengqondo u-Albert Lifman. - Buyela kancane kancane emsebenzini: kuqala wenze okuthile ekhaya, bese uphuma isikhashana futhi ekugcineni, emva konyaka nonyaka noma emibili, ubumbe ngesikhathi esiphelele. Ngakho wena, nomndeni wakho, zivumelane kangcono nesimo esisha nendlela yokuphila. Futhi ulungiselele ukuthi wonke umuntu ukhohliwe ukuthi uyamangalisa futhi uyadingeka kangakanani, futhi kuzodingeka ulibonakalise kumphathi kanye nabanye ozakwabo kabusha. "

5 IZINDLELA NGAMABHAYA

UMTHETHO WOKUPHAKATHI 1: Umama wendlu angabonwa ngokubukeka okunganakekelwa, izingubo ezingenakulungiswa kanye nezimpande ezingaphezulu.

Amantombazane angasebenzi angaba nesikhathi esiningi sokuzinakekela, ukuya ejimini lokuzivocavoca, ubuhle be-salon nokudla ukudla. Awugijimi ukuyosebenza ekuseni njengenxephezelo, ungahlanganyeli ekuthuthweni, ungadli ukudla okudumile okuhweba kwebhizinisi futhi wenze ngothenga ngomzwelo, ngempela, futhi ilungiselelo.

Inkolelo-ze 2: Abesifazana bahlupheka ngenxa yokuntuleka kokuxhumana.

Bavele bayeke ukuxhumana nabantu abaxhumeke nabo emsebenzini kuphela, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi abendlukazi bahlezi ekhaya bevaliwe ngokuphelele. Esikhundleni somsebenzi osebenza nabo kukhona omunye umbuthano wabangani: abangani abahlangana nabo emidlalweni noma bahambe nabantwana.

Inganekwane 3: Amakhosikazi asekhanda ane-gyrus eyodwa, futhi lokho kuqondile.

Kukholelwa ukuthi uma owesifazane ehlezi ekhaya, kungenxa yokuthi ayithathwa ngenxa yimuphi umsebenzi ngenxa yokuntuleka kwemfundo. Kodwa abesifazane baba ngabafelokazi ngokuqaphela ngokuphelele: umuntu oneminyaka embalwa, kuze kube yilapho abantwana bekhula, omunye isikhathi eside. Futhi phakathi kwabo kukhona abesifazane abaningi abanezemfundo ephakeme, futhi ngezinye izikhathi hhayi ngeyodwa. Futhi ungathola umsebenzi ngaphandle kwemfundo, futhi "ne-gyrus eyodwa" -kuyoba nesifiso!

Inkolelo-ze 4: Abesifazane besifazane abanalo ithuba lokuziqaphela: abakwazi ukudalula ngokugcwele amakhono abo, basebenzise ulwazi namakhono.

Ungakwazi ukubona okusemandleni akho, hhayi kuphela ukuba umphathi ophezulu wenkampani enkulu, kodwa futhi uye waphumelela ekudaleni, izinto zokuzilibazisa, ukubeletha. Ukuxhuma okuncane nezingane, impumelelo yabo, ukuphila kwansuku zonke, ikhaya elithobile, ijubane lokuphila eliphansi liletha ukwaneliseka okuncane kunokukhula komsebenzi kanye nebhonasi yesine. Futhi ukugqugquzelwa komsebenzi wabesifazane besifazane kuyacaca kunamandla, ngoba basebenza ukuze kuzuze umndeni wabo, hhayi ngenxa yokukhulisa imali yanoma yikuphi ukubamba. Futhi uma usufuna umsebenzi wobuchwepheshe, ngakho-ke kunomsebenzi odelekile nesikhashana.

Inkolelo-ze 5: Ukuhlala ekhaya kuyamangalisa!

Amantombazane asebenzayo acabanga ukuthi abangasebenzi bangaphansi kokucindezeleka okuphakade nokucindezeleka. Kodwa abesimame abathandana nokucindezeleka nokucindezeleka, njengoba bengenayo imibiko yonyaka kanye nomsebenzi, ababizwa ngokuthi "emgodini" futhi abalahlekelwa yizikhwama. Bona ngokwabo bahlela usuku lwabo, bachitha isikhathi esiningi kubayeni babo, izingane, ezemidlalo, nokuzinakekela.

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3. Zibukele ngokwakho, emva kokunye okudingekile ukubukeka okuhle hhayi ozakwabo kuphela emsebenzini, kodwa futhi ngokwakho.

4. Ungangeni ephusheni nobumpofu, uhlele usuku ngalunye, kodwa uvumeleke ubuthakathaka obuthakathaka ...

5. Ungavumeli ukuthi umuntu acabange noma athi kumuntu, ikakhulukazi wena, ukuthi umama wendlu uyisicefe futhi awunangqondo: abafazi bazo zonke izinhloko zombuso, izinkulungwane zemali kanye nezinhlakanipho zithinta abesifazane.