Ukulinganisela kwengane yakho kuzozizwa ukuphumula akuxhomeke kunani lamahora asetshenziswe emoyeni, "esigabeni sokulala", esiteshini sokuvotela noma esithombeni somculi omkhulu onomsebenzi "onamahloni okungazi." Eqinisweni, ukuphumula akusilo isigaba somzimba, kodwa kunesimo sengqondo. Awukwazi ukufakwa, ngaphandle kwalokho kuzobangela isithukuthezi nokucasula kuphela. Iholide eliphephile yengane encane iyincazelo ebalulekile kuwo wonke umndeni.
Inombolo engalungile inombolo 1
Ukuzilibazisa kwengane kufanele kuhlelwe ngokucacile, ngoba impilo yesikole yezingane eziningi ibhalwe phansi esimweni esicindezelekile.
Iseluleko kubazali. Ngesikhathi samaholide, ingane ifuna "ukudonsa" kancane impilo engenayo ngaphandle kwesimiso. Ungadonseli ingane emnyuziyamu ohleliwe ngokumelene nentando yakhe, uma ngokungazelelwe anqume ukuya e-ice rink. Ungafungi uma ekhathele ukudlala i-snowballs nezinye izingane, wabuyela ekhaya walala phakathi nosuku, nakuba, ngokusho kwepulani lakho, ngabe ukuphefumula umoya oqhakazile eminye imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu.
Inkolelo engalungile inombolo 2
Ngesikhathi samaholide ingane kufanele ibe namakilasi engeziwe - ukuze ungaphumuli.
Iseluleko kubazali. Konke kuncike ezifisweni zengane: umuntu uzothola isikhathi sokuya ezikoleni zokufunda ngesivinini, ulimi lwangaphandle, ukuqeqeshwa ezintabeni zokuhamba ngezintaba kanye ne-snowboarding, futhi omunye ngokuthuthumela uyagxila ngegama elilodwa "izifundo". Akudingekile ukuba ubhale ingane ukufundela ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe.
Ungadangali uma ingane yakho iphoqeleka ukuba ichithe amaholide ebusika edolobheni, ngemuva kokungewona kuphela imicimbi yezemidlalo, ukuvakasha kanye nokuya enkundleni yaseshashalazini. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ungathola isikhathi sokulala. Futhi akubalulekile kakhulu, lapho kuzokwenzeka khona: ku-rink yokudoba, ithrekhi ye-ski, emnyuziyamu, futhi mhlawumbe ngemuva komdlalo wekhompiyutha ohlangene. Ukulalela nokuzwela kwabazali kungumngane weholide ephephile ingane encane.
Imfundiso # 3
Iholide - isikhathi lapho ungaphula ngokuphelele imodi esethiwe kanye nokunikezwa kwamandla. Ingane inelungelo lokuphumula.
Iseluleko kubazali. Ungakwazi ukuphumula, kodwa ngaphandle kokushintsha impilo yakho ku-180C. Iningi libhekene nokulala nokudla. Ngezinye izikhathi ungakwazi ukuguqula umzimba wakho: ulale uma ubuka i-movie ephuzile bese uvuka cishe emini, uye e-cafe udle ama-cheeseburgers. Kodwa akudingekile ukwenza lo mthetho kuwo wonke amaholidi. Uma i-biorhythm ejwayelekile elahlekile, esikoleni kuzodingeka "azihlangane ezingxenyeni".
Imfundiso # 4
Phakathi namaholide, iziphathimandla zedolobheni azikwazi "ukufeza" noma yiziphi izenzakalo zezingane ezithakazelisayo. Zama ukungavumeli ingane ukuba ingene emgwaqeni ngaphandle kokuqondiswa kwabantu abadala - iholide ephephile ingane encane - okokuqala.
Iseluleko kubazali. Kunoma yikuphi uhulumeni, kanye nesikole, kunesibopho (futhi siyamangalisa kakhulu!) Hlelo lwemisebenzi ebanjelwe izingane zesikole ngesikhathi sokuphumula. Ukuze uthole ulwazi, ungaxhumana nomnyango wezenhlalo yakho.
Ukungalungi 5
Ngesikhathi samaholide, udinga ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka nengane.
Iseluleko kubazali. Konke kuncike eminyakeni kanye nemvelo yenzalo yakho. Izingane ezingakafiki eminyakeni eyishumi nambili zijabulela ukuchitha isikhathi sabo sokuphumula nabazali bazo. Kulula kakhulu ukuheha ezithakazelweni zikaMama nobaba kunabesilisa abazama ukuhlukumeza imicimbi ehlangene. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, ungakhathazeki: ingane ilungile, kule nkathi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ikhulume neontanga.
Inkolelo engalungile inombolo 6
Emaholide ingane ayikwazi
Iseluleko kubazali. Okhulile ingane, iqinisa isifiso sakhe sokunganamatheli "ngenxa yomama wakhe". Ayikho into engalungile ngokuvumela ingxoxo eneminyaka engu-13 nengane nabangani, kuphela ngesimo esibalulekile: ukuthi ubekuwe "endaweni yokufinyelela" noma okungenani uxhumane nesikhathi esithile. Kubalulekile ukumfundisa izimiso ezithile zokuphepha ezindaweni zomphakathi.
Imithetho elula yokuphepha
Ngomntwana kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi abe nolwazi ngaye (igama, ubulili, iminyaka, ukwelashwa kwemithi - ukubhekana nokugula, izifo ezingapheli), ifoni yomuntu omdala omthumayo.
Uma ingane ilahlekile ngesikhathi seholide noma ibone ingozi kumuntu ovela ezihlotsheni zakhe noma kubantu abangabazi, kufanele ikhulume nomuntu onomfaniswano (amasosha, amaphoyisa, njll), noma kubasebenzi bezinhlangano eziseduze (esitolo, ebhange) kubika ukuthi kwenzekani.
Uma izingane zihambahamba ngenkampani, zikhumbuze ukuba ziphinde zibuyele "emakhanda abo" kaningi.