Ngeke ukholwe, kodwa abesifazane abaningi banesipiliyoni esihle "sokubuyela" emsebenzini ngemuva kwekhefu lokubeletha. Banezingane zabo siqu, umsebenzi wabo ozithandayo, futhi kuhle. Kodwa idinga ngempela ukuhlela - izinkinga eziningi zinganqotshwa uma zilungele kahle ukuzixazulula.
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Ukukhathazeka yisona isizathu esiyisisekelo sokuvimbela owesifazane ukuba angene emsebenzini, esebenzisa amandla akhe. Abesifazane abazi ukuthi yini okufanele balindele, ikakhulukazi uma kungumntwana wabo wokuqala, futhi, ngokufanele, ukuphuma kokuqala ngemva komthetho. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi owesifazane kwabayisishiyagalolunye kwaba-3 unenkinga no-boss wabo ngemuva nje kokuthi "ukubuya" okunjalo. Kodwa izinkinga eziningi zingagwenywa ngokuqonda izimfihlo eziyisisekelo zokuxhumana nokuhlela. Wake wacabanga ukuthi umphathi angase abe nokukhathazeka? Ngokungazelelwe wayengakaze ahlulele owesifazane okhulelwe noma umama omncane? Mfundise lokho! Kodwa yenzeni ngokuthobeka nangenobuntu, njengowesifazane. Yiba yingcweti enhle ensimini yakho. Hlela konke okwenziwayo ngosuku lokusebenza - ngakho kuyoba lula ukuthola inhlangano elahlekile. Into esemqoka ukuthula. Futhi qiniseka ukuthi uxhumane nozakwabo kanye no-boss. Vele ukhulume, kodwa ungatholi smart, ugule, cindezela isihawu. Yazi amalungelo akho, kodwa ungangeni emotweni ethi: "Ngifuna ukuhlonipha amalungelo ami." Xoxa nabantu ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi uthole ukwesekwa uma uzudinga ngokuzumayo.
Abesifazane abaningi baphikisana kanje: "Inkampani yami inkulu kakhulu (encane) futhi ngikhathazeka ngokuthi ngeke ngithole ukwesekwa okudingekayo." Kodwa kholwa kimi, kunezinzuzo zokuthatha ikhefu lokubeletha ezinkampanini ezinkulu nezincane. Enhlanganweni encane, konke "kunomuntu siqu". Uyazi umphathi wakho uqonde kahle futhi awuqonde kalula umsebenzi. Kungenzeka kube lula kuwe ukuthi ukhulume ngekhefu lakho lokubeletha. Kodwa inhlangano enkulu izothola "isipiliyoni" esikhulu kulokho okuhlobene nekhefu lokubeletha. Zonke izinqubo nezakhiwo zikhona ngokucacile zisungulwe futhi zingasheshi kahle ekusebenzeni. Ukuxhumana nomphathi wakho enhlanganweni enjalo, yebo, okude kakhulu, kepha lokhu kwezinye izimo wena kuphela.
Izinkinga ekukhulumisaneni nabalingani - enye "isikhubekiso" kulolu daba olubucayi. Kufanele uqonde: bangase bakhathazeke ngokuthi bazokwandisa kakhulu umsebenzi wabo ngemuva kokuhamba. Futhi, ngokufanele, izokwehla ngokubuya kwakho. Zibeke endaweni yazo. Ungahluleli futhi ungacasuli. Zama ukuxhumana nozakwabo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kudingekile. Bazise ukuthi usengumuntu ofanayo, uzinikezela emsebenzini wakho. Yenza kanjalo ukuthi bancike kuwe.
Abesifazane abaningi bacabanga ukuthi baphathwa ngokungemthetho. Kukholelwa ukuthi kuleso simo kukhona ukucwaswa. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngempela, kokubili ngaphambi kokuhamba kokubeletha futhi ngemuva kwalokho owesifazane uyingozi kakhulu. Futhi ngempela abanye abaqashi "basebenzise" lokhu ukukhombisa amandla abo, "ukuhlupheka" noma nje ngenxa yokulinganiselwa kwengqondo yabo kanye namasiko angaphakathi. Icala ngalinye kufanele lilashwe ngokuqondile, uma kungenzeka, ngokungakhethi. Khumbula: umthetho uhlangothini lwakho, kodwa awudingi "ukuguqula amalungelo akho" ngakwesokudla nangakwesobunxele. Usadingeka usebenze lapha.
Nakhu amanye amathiphu kulokho okudingayo ukunquma ngaphambi kokuthi uhambe ngekhefu lokubeletha:
- Isikhathi somsebenzi we-Flexible. Khuluma ngalokhu nabaphathi bakho. Mhlawumbe ungafeza imisebenzi yakho ngokukhulisa ingane. Isibonelo, amahora amaningana ngosuku. Noma ngisho ekhaya. Phela, kukhona imisebenzi evumela. Xoxa nomphathi wakho. Mhlawumbe ungathola inketho evumelana nawe kokubili.
- Thola ukusekela okulungile. Khuluma nomphathi, futhi qinisekisa ukuthi awukho "overboard". Ungakhohlwa ngozakwethu. Siyakuhalalisela ngamaholidi akho, ungashiyi leli bhande unomphela.
- Njalo xhumana nozakwabo kanye nabaphathi bakho. Ngisho kusuka ekhaya. Yiba nesithakazelo ezindabeni ze-firm, ungavumeli "uzilahle eceleni." Kuphela uma ungakhathazeki ngomsebenzi, uzokwazi ukunaka ingane yakho ngokugcwele.
- Hlela umhlangano no-boss wakho ngemuva kwamasonto amabili kuya kwengu-4 emuva kokubuya ukuhlola ukuthi izinto zihamba kanjani. Qiniseka ukuthi konke kuhle, ukuthi uqhubeka ukuxhumana.