Indlela yokuthola injabulo ekuphileni kwakho komuntu siqu
1. Umomotheka omuhle ungaguqula umuntu. Yeka ukuthi kumnandi kanjani indoda ukubona umkakhe ejabule futhi ehleka. Uvame ukunikeza umuntu ukumomotheka kwakhe.
2. Yiba yisekelo kumyeni wakho ukuze angangabazi ubuqotho bakho nokuzinikela kuye. Ukusekela phakathi kwezimo ezinzima, ngoba ungomunye, ungumndeni.
3. Owesifazane kufanele abe buthakathaka kunomyeni wakhe, ungalweli amandla endlini. Nika umyeni wakho, uhlakaniphe, bese umlingani wakho uzomuzwa njengenkosi endlini kanye nendoda yangempela. Uzozuza kuphela kulokhu.
4. Ungathathi ilineni elingcolile ngaphandle kwendlu. Funda ukuxazulula izinkinga nezinkinga zomndeni wakho nomndeni wakho. Ekuxabaneni kokuqala, ungagijimi nama-suitcase kubazali bakho, nje unakekele izinzwa zakho zomzali. Wena ngokwakho, unqume unomphela, uma i-suitcase iqoqiwe, khona-ke lesi yisinqumo sokugcina. Ungaphakamiseli izwi lakho kumyeni wakho, ikakhulukazi phambi kwezingane, ungavumeli umyeni wakho akhamuluke. Uma unenkinga, cindezela phansi, cabanga futhi ukhulume. Lokhu kuzoba yisisombululo esihle kakhulu emndenini. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngokuvamile iseluleko senjazana engashadile kaNatasha noma umakhelwane uKlavdia Petrovna izokukwenza kuphela "ukuhlukunyezwa". Gcina izindinganiso zomndeni wakho nezimfihlo.
5. Ungazami ukushintsha oshade naye. Thola kuwo izici ezinhle kuphela, futhi ngezici ezingalungile zomlingisi zama ukuvumelanisa noma ufunde ukuthi ungazikhokheli.
6. Ungagcini ngaso sonke isikhathi umyeni wakho, ungavusi izingxabano, ngisho noma uqinisile. Kungcono ukushiya eceleni bese uvumela, bese uxoxa naye ngesimo ngokuthula. Akungabazeki ukuthi uzofezeka ngokuhlambalaza kwakho nokukhala. Futhi uma uhaqa lo muntu nge-caress no-tenderness, uzothola i-asterisk evela ezulwini.
7. Ungalokothi uqhathanise umlingani wakho namanye amadoda, ungabeki muntu njengomzekelo. Ungumuntu wakho, oyimangalisa kakhulu, ekahle futhi engcono kakhulu. Vumela abantu ababili bazi ngalokhu, wena naye.
8. Umndeni wakho injabulo kufanele isekelwe ekuthembeni. Lapho kukhona ukwethenjwa, akukho mhawu ophikisayo. Ngezinye izikhathi ungabonisa umhawu omncane, ukuze umuntu abe nomuzwa wokuthi awunandaba nhlobo ukuthi ukukhulumisana kwenzeka kuphi nokuthi ubani oxhumana naye. Ungagcini ama-hysteric uma umyeni wakho ebona ubuhle obuhle.
9. Yigcine ithoni. Ukuze uphumelele, kufanele ukhumbule njalo ukuthi ungowesifazane futhi kufanele ube nesimo esihle. Vumela umyeni akubone njalo enhle, enhle, ephunga elimnandi, enembethe kahle. Mayelana nomoya omuhle kanye nokumomotheka esikushilo kakade.
10. Bonga futhi udumise indoda yakho. Khona-ke uzofuna ukwenza okuningi kuwe. Ungakholwa, kepha ukubonga ngezinye izikhathi kusebenza izimangaliso. Indumiso iyophakamisa indlela yakhe yokuziphatha futhi iyokwenza lo muntu ngokukhuthazayo.
11. Ekuphileni kubalulekile ukubuka ngendlela eyodwa, hhayi ngokumelene nomunye. Uma ushada, kufanele uhlole ukuthi ufanelane yini? Kumele ube nezindikimba ezivamile zengxoxo nezithakazelo. Yiba nesithakazelo kulokho okuthandayo nalokho umuntu akuthandayo. Omunye wesifazane washada, kubonakala sengathi wayejabula kakhulu, kodwa umyeni wakhe wayenombono ohlukile empilweni. Wayefuna ukuya kuma-movie futhi ahambe kakhulu, naye wayekuthanda ukudlala imidlalo yekhompyutha futhi wayehlezi ekhaya. Manje uhamba kakhulu emhlabeni, ngokuvamile uya e-cinema, kuphela omunye wesifazane ohamba naye. Futhi kunezindaba eziningi ezinjalo.
12. Uma umyeni wakho ekucasula ngezwi, manje hhayi emoyeni, zama ukumqonda. Mhlawumbe usekhathele nje, unezinkinga zempilo noma unezinkinga emsebenzini. Okubi kakhulu kumuntu kuthinta isimo esibi sezimali emndenini. Futhi uma lesi simo emndenini, udinga ukuqonda nokusekela oshade naye ngazo zonke izindlela. Ukubekezela kwakho kuzobuyisela emuva kaningi.
13. Ujabulele ukuhlangana nomyeni wakho emsebenzini ukuze azi ukuthi bamlindele futhi bamkhumbula. Ikakhulukazi uma kufanele avame ukuhlala emsebenzini nokuhamba ngezinkampani zebhizinisi.
14. Owesifazane naye ungumuntu. Ngaphezu kokuphila komndeni nokuphila kwansuku zonke, udinga ukuthola umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa nomsebenzi ozithandayo, uphumelele. Futhi oshade naye uzojabula ngawe, futhi akusekele.
Emandleni akho ukwenza uthando lwakho phezu kweminyaka luvele lwavuthwa futhi landa. Gcina ubuhlobo bakho, ugcwalise imizwelo emihle kanye nobubele. Vumela indlu yakho ingashiyi uthando lomhlangano wokuqala ngisho naseminyakeni engu-20 yokuphila kwakho ndawonye. Hlela omunye umunye izinkathazo zothando, uhambe njalo ndawonye, hambelana nemvelo, uye ku-cinema. Izikhathi ezinjalo zinikeza amandla amaningi enhle ukuze uthole impumelelo enkulu, susa ukuphikisana kwansuku zonke nokucindezeleka.
Yini okudingeka uyenze ukuze uthole injabulo ekuphileni kwakho komuntu siqu? Zama ukusebenzisa lezi zeluleko ngokuzikhandla, futhi mhlawumbe zizosiza ukuthola injabulo futhi zenze ukuthula nokuthula emndenini. Sifisa wena, ukuthi emndenini wakho njalo ngobuningi kwakukhona uthando, ukuqonda okufanayo, inhlonipho. Injabulo kuwe empilweni yakho siqu!