I-Phobias yinto engathandeki kakhulu. Kodwa akuyona into engavamile. Bangashintsha umuntu ngaphandle kokuqashelwa, benze ukuba bathande noma bazonde futhi baze bazibulale. Ama-phobias ayisisekelo ayaziwa kuwo wonke umuntu - ukwesaba kwezicabucabu, ubumnyama, izinja, amanzi nokunye. Kodwa kukhona okungajwayelekile futhi okumangalisa ukuthi awuzange ukwazi ngisho nangokwakho ...
Yini efika engqondweni uma ukhuluma ngokubi-ukwesaba, ukwesaba, ukwesaba, ukwesaba? Konke lokho kuyiqiniso ngempela. Cishe wezwa izwi eliyaziwayo lika-Einstein: "Izinto ezimbili kuphela ezingapheli - indawo yonke nobuwula bomuntu." Ngingathanda ukwengeza enye-nokwesaba kwabantu. Ayikho imingcele yeziphobias zabantu kuleli zwe elikhulu neli-motley. Ezinye zazo zibonakala zingavamile futhi zihlekisa, kodwa empeleni akuyona into ehlekisayo. Phela, ama-phobias cishe awavumeli ekwelapheni, ikakhulukazi uma ekhula esemncane.
I-Phobia 1. I-Catophobia - uma umuntu esaba ukuhlala
Yebo, kukhona. Ngokujwayelekile inhlanzi enjalo isenzeka eminyakeni yobudala. Isibonelo, lapho ingane ihlala entweni ebukhali noma iwa phansi ngengozi. Ngakho-ke, i-prank yesikole yomuntu ofunda nabo ekilasini ingaba imbangela yokuthuthukiswa kwe-phobia othile oontanga. Abantu ababhekene nalesi sifo bangathuthukisa imivimbo ye-varicose, ngakho-ke bahlale behamba ngezinyawo. Laba bantu abakwazi ukuthola umsebenzi. Hhayi, mhlawumbe, uma lo msebenzi "umi". Ngicabanga ukuthi laba bantu balala kanjani? Ngemuva kwalokho, ngaphambi kokuba balale, kufanele bahlale embhedeni?
Phobia 2. Hadonophobia - ukwesaba injabulo
I-phobia ecindezela kakhulu, ikakhulukazi engathandeki kubantu abadala. Kunzima ukusho kahle ukuthi kubonakala kanjani, kodwa into eyodwa iqinisekile: uma bazizwa behle, babi kakhulu. Isiphetho somuntu obhekene nesimo esinjalo sinovalo, ukwesaba, ukwesaba, ukwesaba ngaphambi kokuba nethuba lokujabula nokuqukethwe. Akunakwenzeka ukucabanga ukujula kwabantu abanjalo.
Phobia 3. I-Europhobia - ukwesaba izitho zangasese zobulili
Lokhu kwesaba, cishe kuncike ekuhlangenwe nakho okuhlobene nokuzalwa kwengane. Izikhathi zokuqala zokubukeka kuleli zwe zikhulu kakhulu kangangokuthi ingane ngokungazi kahle iqala le phobia impilo yakhe yonke. Amadoda nabesifazane bahlupheka ngalokhu ngendlela efanayo. Abakwazi ukudala umndeni futhi bahole impilo evamile yobulili. Kulokhu, amadoda amaningi aqala ukukhombisa ukuthambekela kobulili obufanayo. Ngabesifazane, konke kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Bayesaba ngokwabo, noma kunalokho, bezingxenye zabo siqu. Omunye umcabango wokuthi unayo i-IT ubaholela ekwesabekeni, kubangele ukwesaba. Futhi singaphila kanjani nalokhu? Ngisho ucabange kabi.
Phobia 4. I-Gipopotomomonstrosessrosophobia - ukwesaba ukusho amagama amade
Ukuzizwa nje kwekusasa! Yilo phobia elibizwa ngokuthi igama elide kunayo yonke uhlu lwabantu abaphobias. Eqinisweni, lokhu kwesaba kuvamile futhi kuletha abanikazi babo ukuhlupheka okuningi. Kunzima ukutshela ukuthi leli phobia livelaphi, kodwa ngokuqinisekile liguqula ukuphila komuntu kube yinkinga enkulu. Yize, ukuyibeka ezinxenyeni ezingapheliyo, ungaphinda ufeze impumelelo ethile empilweni. Mhlawumbe ...
Phobia 5. I-Metaphobia - ukwesaba utshwala
Ngenhliziyo enjalo, ukuphela kokucabanga ngotshwala kuyadabukisa, ukwesaba nokwesaba. Ungathethi ukugcina ibhodlela ngotshwala esandleni noma ukunambitha okuqukethwe kwayo. Akukho lutho lokucabanga ngakho! Abantu abaningi abahlukumezekayo bacabanga ngotshwala ngezimpawu ezilandelayo: isicashu, umlomo owomile, ukubandayo nokumanzi izandla, ubuthakathaka emilenzeni, ukwanda kwenhliziyo. Lezi zimpawu cishe zifana nalabo abaphuza utshwala ngokweqile. Umngcele ophakathi kokuphoqeleka kotshwala nokwesaba kwawo akucaci. Yingakho lokhu kunzima kakhulu ukwelapha.
I-Phobia 6. I-Ozmophobia - ukwesaba iphunga nama-flavour
Amazwi anjalo avamile "kungcolile ngendlela enhle" angenza umuntu ahlaziye ngalesi simo. Abantu abanjalo baphoqeleka ukuba badle ukudla okusha konke ukuphila kwabo, ukugwema iphunga elimnandi (futhi ngokujwayelekile iphunga lento). Akudingeki ukuthi, lokhu akuphumelelanga kakhulu. Uma, eqinisweni, ungagqoki umaski okhethekile ogcina iphunga. Ngokuvamile, abantu abanjalo ngokucacile abafisi.
Kunezinye eziningi ze-phobias ezingavamile, ezifana nokwesaba isibhakabhaka, ukwesaba amaShayina, izintshevu, abantu abathandekayo, uthando ngisho nomama wabo ... I-Phobias ingacindezeli, kodwa ochwepheshe basakhuthaza ukuthi bangalahli futhi bazame ukulwa nalesi sifo.
Kunezinhlobo eziningi zokwelapha. Uma uphikelela, unethuba langempela lokuqeda ukwesaba okukhulu. Okokuqala, ungazama ukumisa massage, shiatsu njengesibonelo. Umgomo ukunikeza umuzwa wenkululeko yangaphakathi. Ngalesi massage, ukusakazwa kwegazi, isimiso sezinzwa sishukumisa futhi ukusatshalaliswa kwamandla nokuvumelana komphefumulo nomzimba kufezwa.
I-Psychotherapy nokuzindla kungasiza. Ezinye izazi zincoma futhi zithinteka ukuze zithole umthombo wokwesaba. Ngenkathi yokwelapha, abantu "bazophoqwa" ubuso nobuso nama-phobias akhe. Kulindeleke ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi uzoqala ukunqoba ukwesaba kwakhe.