Yini okufanele ngiyenze?
Okokuqala, izingane zibangelwa ukuhlola okulula: lapha ngine spout, nansi umlomo, kodwa lapha? Okwesibili, ngalesi sikhathi kungaba yisikhathi sokuphumula - ezinganeni ngokushesha kakhulu kukhona ukulungiswa ngezikhathi ezimnandi nezimbi. Kwanele ukuphonsa ingane embizeni ebandayo kanye, ukuze ingane ingayi embhodini. Kwenzeka okufanayo lapho ingane ithinta izitho zangasese futhi lokhu kuthinteka kuyahambisana neqiniso lokuthi ngenxa yalokhu ukhululekile. Ngokwesibonelo, waba nomuzwa omuhle, wajabula, ikakhulukazi lapho ecasukile. Ngokushesha nje lapho kunenjabulo kulesi senzo, ingane kwezinye izimo ihlola - futhi enye ingasebenza? Ingane ine-reflex condition, okuthiwa umkhuba.
Ukubhekana nomkhuba, ezinye izinyathelo zokuvimbela azanele. Kulula kakhulu futhi okusemandleni ukushintsha umkhuba owodwa nomunye, ohloniphekile. Uma abazali noma othisha beqaphele ukuthi ingane ithinta izitho zangasese, udinga ukushintsha ingane ukuba idlale, kwezinye amakilasi. Kunoma yikuphi, lapho useneminyaka eyishumi nambili, ungasho ukuthi "Ungathinti! ". Futhi kufanele uthi, isibonelo, "Lalela, ake sihambe nawe futhi sizopenda" (ugogo wocingo, usule uthuli, ugobe ingubo yamadoli, njll).
Sidinga ukuhlukanisa isimo. Ngokuvamile, izingane zishaya izidakamizwa uma zicasuliwe, zithukuthele noma zikhathele kakhulu, ngaphambi kokulala. Sidinga ukubheka ukuthi ukulala kwengane kuhlelwe kanjani nokuthi isikhathi esilandelayo sokujeziswa sidlula kanjani. Isibonelo, umama ujezisa ingane, imyisa ekhoneni, futhi lapha uzenza umvuzo onjalo - ngangihlushwa, kumelwe sikhohlwe ngalokhu, siduduzwe. Qaphela ukuthi lokhu kwenzeka kanjani, nini futhi ngaphansi kweziphi izimo. Lapha indaba iyasebenza nasemsebenzini. Uma umama ebeka ingane amathoyizi amabili noma amathathu, bese ekhuluma efonini ihora nengxenye, ingane ifunda ithoyizi bese iphendukela othandekayo.
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Ngokuqondene nesimo sekhonsathi, kukhona nokuntuleka komsebenzi. Ingane ayilali emini, futhi kufanele azinake ngokwenza okuthile. Ungazama ukunciphisa ukulala kwehora ngehora, uthi, ngaphambi kokuvusa ekuseni, ingane izothatha ngokushesha futhi ijwayele ukulala phakathi nosuku. Uma lokhu kungasebenzi futhi kunethuba lokuthatha ingane ukuba ilale, yithathe, okungenani okwesikhashana (thatha iholidi, udwebe ugogo). Uma kungenjalo ithuba, kuhle uma uthisha evuma ukuthi angabeki ingane eyodwa ukulala, kodwa ukuze amnike ithuba lokudlala imidlalo ethule. Kunezinketho ezimbili lapha: noma ukuhlela isimiso esifanele nsuku zonke, noma ukukhipha ukulala kwansuku zonke phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Njengomthetho, ama-nannies e-kindergartens angaqiniseki ukuqinisa lesi simo ngokuheha. Konke kuhanjiswa kubazali ngendlela yokuthi besaba, baqala ukulandela usuku nosuku lwezingane.
Futhi emva kwakho konke, ngokusho kokubona kwezazi zengqondo, le nkathi yilabo bonke abantwana. Kulula nje ukuthi kukhona izingane eziqonda ukuthi ngenxa yalokhu kungenzeka ukuba uthole uhlobo oluthile lokuzijabulisa, ukuphumuza futhi okwesikhashana lokhu kusetshenziselwa kuze kungabi khona indawo. Okusho ukuthi, ngokushesha nje umdlalo, ukuxhumana nabangane, ukukhulumisana okukhulumayo nabazali, ekuthinteni kwezitho zocansi akusekho isidingo. Futhi lo mkhuba uyanyamalala ngokushesha.
Inketho ekahle ukubonisana nengqondo yezingane zengqondo. Ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kubonakaliswa kwezinto eziphilayo (kwakunezinye izifo zokukhulelwa, ukubeletha). Ngokuvamile, ukushaya indlwabu kubuntwana kwenzeka ezinganeni ezinezimpawu ezihlukahlukene zokulimala komqondo ebuchosheni. Lokhu kungathathwa kuphela yi-psychoneurologist ene-encephalograms yobuchopho nezinye izifundo. Futhi ngisho nakulezi zimo, ingane ingakwazi futhi kufanele ishintshwe, ifundiswe, indlela yokuphumula, ukudlala, indlela yokuzijabulisa. Manje uyazi ukuthi yini okufanele ukwenze uma ingane ithinta izitho zangasese.