Abantu abathandekayo nabathandekayo
Kukholelwa ukuthi ulimi olukhulunywe ngumama wengane, futhi kungenxa yakhe yokuzalwa (ngakho-ke, kuthiwa umama). Ixhunywe ngobisi lomama futhi iba "ikhodi" - kuyo esikhathini esizayo umuntu, njengoba besho, uzocabanga. Uma umama nobaba bekhuluma ulimi olufanayo, kulungisa isimo kuphela. Uma ubaba ephethe olunye ulimi, ingane ingena emkhathini wezinhlamvu ezimbili (noma izilimi ezimbili). Futhi lokhu kuyamangalisa futhi. Ngoba uma ulandela imithetho ethile, umntwana uzofunda zombili izilimi kusukela esemncane. Isimo esikhulu salokhu: Abazali kumele balandele ulimi oluthile, okungukuthi, umama ukhuluma nomntwana ngesiRussia, nobaba - ngesi-Ukrainian (isiNgisi, isiFulentshi, isiGerman, njll). Lokhu kuqinisekisa ingane ukuthi ivela ekhanda lakho, futhi ungaqiniseka ukuthi ngokushesha nje lapho ekhuluma, uzokhipha "amaparele" kuzo zombili izilimi, angazidideli. Kodwa-ke, lungele u-nuance olandelayo: izazi ze-psychologists zithi izingane ezikhulayo emindenini emibili kamuva ziqala ukukhuluma - imvuthuluka idinga isikhathi esiningi ukuze ufunde inani "lezintathu" lwazi, inqubo, ihlaziye, igule yona. ukwesaba, kanye nokungahlehlisi ukutadisha ulimi lwesibili kamuva, ngoba kuphela ekusaneni kwengqondo yengqondo yengane ipulasitiki (kuze kube unyaka ubuchopho buqala ngo-70%, ama-20 asele aneminyaka engaba ngu-4, kanti kuphela i-10% kuphela ukuphila!) Noma yikuphi ukuqeqeshwa kunikezwa i Kuze kube unyaka onomzamo omncane.
Ulimi noma i-mova?
Imindeni yanamuhla yase-Ukraine ivame ukubhekana nesinye isigameko: ekhaya umndeni ukhuluma isiRashiya, futhi ingane ikhulume ngolwimi lwasekhaya, futhi ngokushesha nje lapho ekhula futhi engena endaweni yokuhlala (inkulisa, esikoleni), kudingeke ukuba azi kabanzi kanye nolimi lwesi-Ukraine. Inkinga yukuthi, njengoba esejwayele ukucabanga "ngesiRashiya", ingane ingakwazi ukuvumelanisa nesimo esikhuluma isi-Ukraine, esingasithinta kakhulu izici ezifana nokusebenza kwesikole, ukungabi nokuqonda, okulandelwa ukungabi nokuqiniseka, ubunzima nokuqina Indlela yokugwema Okokuqala, thatha kalula ukuthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uvikela kanjani ingane ngolimi lwesibili, kumele futhi abhekane nolimi lwesi-Ukraine, futhi lokhu kuyiqiniso futhi kunempilo. - siphila e-Ukraine, kusho, kufanele azi ulimi kanye nomlando wezwe. Ngokuyinhloko, uma ingane evela emkhunjini izokuzwa inkulumo yase-Ukraine, ngeke ibe ne-psychological block phambi kwayo, ngeke imbonise ngokuthi "ohlukile", ulimi olulunye ulimi, nokufakelwa emphakathini ngeke kube nzima . Futhi okwesithathu, njengoba sesishilo kakade, lapho ingane ifunda okwengeziwe, i-horizons egcwele futhi ebanzi kuyoba khona. Kungani ukulinganisela? Ukwazi ulimi olulodwa kuphela, uyohlale ebhekana nenkinga yokuzikhethela, futhi ngeke akwenze ngokuthanda kwakhe, kodwa ukulalela izimo. Lokhu kusebenza ekukhethweni kwesikole, nemfundo ephakeme, esikhathini esizayo - nomsebenzi. Sasiqiniseka ukuthi sasidinga izilimi zombili? Ake siqale ukufunda. Lokho nje ukukwenza ngokufanele futhi ngokwezifiso.
Kufanele ngikhulume kanjani?
Isimo silula uma omunye wabadala ekhuluma kahle ne-Ukraine. Ngendlela, ingaba ugogo. Into esemqoka ukuthi ingane imbone njalo. Khona-ke angeke nje akwazi ukunamathela, kodwa futhi uzobona ulimi alukhulumayo njengelakhe. Uma unquma ukumema umntanakho kumntwana, khetha u-okhulumela u-Ukraine, lokhu kuzophinde kube nemiphumela emihle. Ngcono nakakhulu ukhetho, lapho omunye wabazali azokhuluma khona ngesi-Ukraine. Yiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi kunzima, ngoba lapha kakade umuntu omdala kuzodingeka avuselele kabusha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, yonke i-microclimate yokuxhumana emndenini izoshintsha. Kodwa izimvume zangaphakathi zingezesikhashana, uzothola ngokushesha ukulungiswa kwamandla emndenini, futhi umphumela uzoba mnandi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kwenzeka ukuthi abazali bayojabula, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukunamathela ekusatshalweni okuhlala njalo ngolimi. Yini okufanele uyenze kulesi simo? Khuluma nengane kokubili isiRussia ne-Ukraine. Mane ukhumbule i-nuance ebalulekile: i-kid lolu shintsho lwezilimi kuzodingeka luchazwe njalo. Ngakho, tshela ingane mayelana nezilwane, usho igama lesilo ngesiRashiya, bese ucacisa: "Futhi manje ngizokutshela lokho okubizwa nge-Ukrainian" - bese uyibiza ngokuthi. Ngakho-ke, uzoqinisekisa ingane ukuthi ingaxubani izilimi ekhanda lakhe elincane, kusukela njalo ngaphambi kokushintshela e-Ukrainian, uyomxwayisa ngakho. Futhi ingane izofunda ukuthi kukhona umehluko phakathi kwabo.
Futhi uhlabele ingane ingane lullabies Ukraine. Funda amabhuku ngesi-Ukrainian, tshela izindaba. Kubonakala kuwe ukuthi ingane ayiqondi lutho, kodwa akunjalo. Konke kubhalwe phansi kwi-subcortex, futhi konke kufanele kusetshenziswe ngesikhathi esifanele. Uma ungazi u-Ukraine nhlobo, ungaphelelwa ithemba kuleli cala. Manje kukhona inani elikhulu lokuqoshwa komsindo ngezinganekwane kanye nezingoma ngolimi lwesi-Ukraine. Bright and melodic, mhlawumbe bathanda ingane yakho. Hlela izikhathi zokucwiliswa okunjalo enkulumweni yase-Ukraine, ngeke kucebise kuphela imithwalo yolwazi lomntwana, kodwa futhi iyoba umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu wokuthuthukiswa kuye - izokukujwayela ngesiko lase-Ukraine, engqondweni kanye nomlando. Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuthi endaweni yakho kukhona izikhulumi zenkulumo yase-Ukraine. Mhlawumbe, laba bangabangane bomndeni, ozakwabo, omama, ohlangana nabo ekuhambeni. Izinzuzo ziyoba yilawo wonke umuntu: ingane yakho izojoyina inkulumo enhle yase-Ukraine, futhi ingane evela kulowo mndeni iyoya ku-Russian, abathwali bayo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izingane zethu zinethuba eliyingqayizivele lokuba ngama polyglot wangempela kusukela ekuzalweni. Khona-ke ukufunda kanye nezinye (izilimi zangaphandle) kuzonikezwa kalula.
Ngokucophelela, inkulumo engalungile!
Ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukuthula ngaphandle kokusho into engalungile. Okuyingozi kakhulu ekufundeni olunye ulimi ukubhekana nesimo sengqondo sokungakhathaleli. Kubalulekile ukuthi inkulumo yase-Ukraine ingane yakho izakuzwa ifundela nokubhala. Futhi kwakungeyona ingxube ye "isiFulentshi neNizhny Novgorod." Ukufunda okungafundiwe kwezilimi ezimbili ezinhle kunazo zonke, ngaphandle kokubhubhisa ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kusuka enkambeni efanele, kuyingozi futhi, ngoba kunzima kakhulu ukuqeda ulwazi olungenakuqondakala ebusheni bakho.