Kunezinhlobo eziningana zabathandi abashadile:
- washada ngokoqobo;
- mncane kakhulu;
- omdala kakhulu;
- uthando
Ushadile okwangempela.
Ngomuntu onjalo kungcono ukuthi ungadonseli ubuhlobo, nje nje nge-adventure encane. Indoda enjalo ifanele abesifazane abathandekayo.
Izinzuzo zobuhlobo obunjalo:
- uma owesifazane engenakho ukhululekile futhi, kuyoba usizo kubo bobabili ukugcina lezi zingxoxo zibe yimfihlo,
- ukusesha ukuhlukahluka kokubili ubudlelwane nobulili kubantu, kuqinisekisa ukuthi kuzoba nobulili obuthakazelisayo. Kuyoba, njengophahla lwendlu, nasezikhunjini,
- Lo muntu akadingi ukufundisa ucansi, usevele wazi konke futhi angakwazi ukuphumula.
Ama-minus of the relationship:
- bonke ubudlelwane babo bobulili nomkakhe bazobe besetshenziselwa inkosikazi yabo,
- Lo mthandi uzohlambalaza umkakhe, kodwa futhi mtshele ukuthi akasoze amshiya.
- Umthandi onjalo uzoba enkosikazi ukuyoyifuna, into engayikulala nayo. Futhi lokhu kuyodinga enkosikazi yakhe,
- owesifazane uzodinga ukulungiswa kumthandi, ngoba unomndeni.
Kuncane kakhulu.
Uma umthandi osemncane futhi uneminyaka engama-20-25, usengumuntu ophezulu wezocansi. Futhi uma owesifazane ekhulile kuneminyaka engama-5-10, khona-ke ngendlela yocansi bayojabula. Futhi lapha ebuhlotsheni phakathi kobambisene bakhohlise kokubili izinhlangothi ezimbi nezinhle.
Izinzuzo zobuhlobo:
- Uma insizwa iseduze, owesifazane uqala ukuzikhathalela kangcono. Uqala ukudlala ezemidlalo futhi ngenxa yalokho uqala ukubheka omncane,
- Umthandi omncane ulungiswa ngokuya ocansini, owesifazane akayikuzwa kuye ukuthi ukhathele, kuyinjini engunaphakade.
Ama-minus of the relationship:
- uma owesifazane oseduze nomuntu okhangayo, osemusha, obonakalayo, uhlakulela ubunzima besifazane,
- Ezinye izinsizwa ziqala ukuphoqa owesifazane ngendima yomama, njalo zikhononda, kanti abanye besifazane baqala ukubhekana nezinkinga "zendodana".
Endala kakhulu.
Uma umthandi omdala okwanele, unezinto eziningi, angakhulula noma yimuphi owesifazane.
Izinzuzo zobuhlobo.
- unolwazi oluthe xaxa futhi uzokwazi ukufundisa owesifazane konke angakwenza,
- Uma indoda inenkosikazi encane, iyamkhathaza, uzama futhi yenza konke ukugcina owesifazane eduze kwakhe. Uyamnakekela kakhulu, uhlanganise izipho.
Ama-minus of relations.
- ngokwayo, akunakwenzeka ukuyibuyisela,
- Iminyaka yobudala, iqala ukuziveza. Yiqiniso, uzozama ukufinyelela ezindaweni eziphakeme, kodwa usekude nomzimba omncane.
Uthando.
Lo mthandi uhloselwe labo abathanda ukuhamba ngothando, izinkondlo namazwi amahle abhekiswe kuye.
Izinzuzo zobuhlobo.
- umuntu onjalo uyokufundisa ukuthi ngandlela-thile asiqapheli lokhu empilweni yethu yanamuhla, ubuke imvula yasehlobo, ubuhle bamafu, ukushona kwelanga nokunye,
- Yona kanye inqubo yokuthandana inhle kakhulu, ihola le nkosikazi ezindaweni ezinhle kakhulu.
Ama-minus of relations.
- okwamanje, ukuthandana ngumuntu omkhulu kakhulu,
- lo muntu usekuqaleni kobudlelwane, futhi kakade ngemuva kwakhe ubulili. Uma owesifazane evumelana nalokhu, khona-ke uzojabula nomthandi wakhe.
Ukwazi ukuthi umthandi oshadile unjani - amaminithi akhe nama-pluses, umuntu angakwazi ukuthi yini engayilindela kumthandi ozayo, bese owesifazane angakhetha ngokuzayo ikusasa lakhe.