Ngokungangabazeki, ngifuna ukunakekela abathandekayo bami. Kodwa ungayithola kanjani lolo cala, lapho umuntu onothando ephenduka ngokungazelelwe abe ngumgcini wezokuphepha kanye ne-gigolo?
Kuze kube manje, inamba yocwaningi eyaziwa ngezindlela zaleli cala ikhula ngokuzenzekelayo. Bayazi kahle ingqondo yabesifazane futhi benza konke okusemandleni abo futhi abakwazi ukunqoba. Umsebenzi oyinhloko, okwenziwa ngumuntu wesilisa u-alfonso, ukudala umqondo wokuthi umgomo wesifazane kufanele ulahlekelwe ikhanda lakhe.
Indlela yokukhuluma ngesaga esisodwa esiyaziwayo - izingubo zihlangene, ngakho-ke gigolo ubuke konke. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kuyikhanda lezinwele, i-perfume enhle isitayela esihle sokugqoka. Konke lokhu, ukugcoba kokuncoma, isimo sengqondo esingenakuqondakala, ukunambitheka okuhle kanye nobuhle obuhle, okuba abesifazane bathanda ukuphuza kakhulu.
Ekuqaleni, u-Alfonso udideka lo wesifazane. Uqala ukunikeza izipho ze-posh, izimbali zezimbali zezimbali, uchitha okuningi kangangokuthi angabonisa, njengokungathi akakuhawukeli. Kodwa kudabukisayo njengoba kubalulekile ukubona - izindleko zokuzijabulisa sezivele sezifakwe kwisabelomali sakho esizayo, oyokujabulela ukukuchitha. Konke lokhu kwenziwa ukuze kudukiswe, qaphela futhi ungathembela. Kodwa thina besifazane akulula, futhi asikwazi nje ukuthathwa!
Ake sibone ukuthi singabala kanjani i-alfonso enengqondo. Ngakho-ke, kufanele uhlomile ngokuphelele, uma ukuziphatha komuntu wakho okhethiwe ubona lezi zimpawu ezilandelayo.
Ngokuvamile ukhohlwa isikhwama sasekhaya
Uma sekufika ukukhokhela ukuthenga esitolo, ngokuzumayo ubiza indaba ebalulekile, lapho indawo yokudlela ifika ukukhokhwa ibhilikhithi, ugijima ngokuzumayo endlini yangasese. Ngokuvamile ukhokhela imali bese ukhohlwa ukuyibuyisela. Futhi ufuna ukubolekisa igama lakho, usebenzisa amacebo ahlukene.
Yiqiniso, kunamacala ahlukene, kodwa uma uqaphela ukuthi lokhu kuziphatha kuphindaphindiwe ngaso sonke isikhathi - udwebe iziphetho.
Uhlale ephazamisa njalo
U-Alphonse uzokuthi ungowesifazane wamaphupho akhe, ngeke abuze izandla zakho nezinhliziyo futhi uma uvuma isipho esilindele, uzosho ukuthi unezinkinga ngemali kanye nenkinga emsebenzini. Mhlawumbe uzokucela ukuba ukhokhe lomshado. Mhlawumbe uzosho ukuthi imali yakho ayivumelani, kodwa emva kwamasonto ambalwa, uzovuma. Ngokuvamile, i-alfonsoy "ingabaculi bamahhala", abantu abaningi kakhulu abazibiza ngokuthi. Bathi bazobuya imali ngemuva kokubhala incwadi noma isithombe. Futhi kuze kube yileso sikhathi bazokubuka ngamehlo aphikisayo, naphezu kokuthi usebenza emisebenzini emithathu ukuze uzilungiselele.
Ixazulula izinkinga zakho ngosizo lwakho
Ngemoto, imvume yokuhlala yendawo, eminye imibhalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukhuluma ngezinkinga zakhe njengendlela yokukhuluma, ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi uqala ukukhala. Zama ngesikhathi sakho ukusitshela ngezinkinga zakho. Uma engathathi isinyathelo sokuxazulula, ungangabazi, unegigolo.
Kuletha kuwe imizwa yecala
Kulungile ukuthi ujabulele ukuthi wakunaka futhi wavuma ukuhlala nawe. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, owesifazane uqala ukucabanga ukuthi akekho omuhle njengoba azicabangela yena, futhi lokho kwenzeka kuye, lapho ehlangene. Emva kwalokhu kuqala ukuphakamisa okhethiweyo wakhe, ukumenzele konke okucatshangwayo nokungaqondakali.
Ngokuvamile unesithakazelo esimweni sakho sezinto ezibonakalayo
U-Alfonso unesithakazelo kukho konke: uyini impahla yakho, umsebenzi, yimuphi imoto imoto. Kodwa-ke, uma umcela, akakwazi ukutshela okuthile ngokuphila kwakhe, nakuba amathuba angase abe mhlophe. Mcele ukuthi akutshele abangane bakhe. Bayosiza futhi ukwenza umqondo ngaye.
Uchitha okuningi kulo kunokuba ukwenze kuwe
Ngemuva kwenyanga, bala izindleko. Kungakanani okusetshenzisiwe kuwe, futhi kungakanani kulo? Ukuchitha imali obani?
Enye indlela yokukhomba ukuthi ungumqambimanga ukuthi umqashi wakho ubambezele umholo wakhe futhi kuzodingeka aphile ngemali yakhe izinyanga ezimbalwa. Bheka ukuthi uhlabela kanjani.
Uhlale efuna umsebenzi omusha
Ukufuna umsebenzi njalo, ubiza abaqashi, uxoxisana nomhlangano, kodwa ubuya ngaphandle kwemiphumela. Mhlawumbe, umgomo kuphela owenzayo ukukhwela imali esikhwameni sakho.
Futhi khumbula - u-Alfonso uzizwa ehlushwa. Ngokuvamile lo wesifazane ungumhlengikazi wethambile. Kwenzeka futhi ukuthi owesifazane ukhululekile ngalesi simo. U-Oney ubusha, uyisisombululo sezinkinga. Kodwa-ke, uma ungewona wesigaba, ubalekele kuye, njengokusuka emlilweni.