Abantu bakithi banomqondo ongokomfanekiso wokuqala: owesifazane okhululekile - okungukuthi, owesifazane ongenamuntu. Futhi akekho owaziyo ukuthi owesifazane angazizwa futhi ajabulele inkululeko ngenkathi eshada.
Uma isehlukaniso, owesifazane ezikhathini eziningi ubalekela kumyeni wakhe, usandalekela esikhungweni somshado osungulwe ezweni lethu.
Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi isahlukaniso sowesifazane asenzeki. Njengoba owesifazane eqala ukudonsa ngesehlukaniso, ezama ukuvumelanisa nezimo ezinzima futhi ngezinye izikhathi eziyisigqila zokuphila komndeni, futhi ngeke ashiye umyeni wakhe ngoba engakwazi ukuzinikela ngemva komshado. Owesifazane uzohlukaniswa kuphela lapho ephonsa umyeni wakhe ngaphansi kwesithende - futhi esikhathini esizayo ngeke kube nesithakazelo sokuphila, ngeke kube khona ukuhlukahluka empilweni. Khona-ke lona wesifazane uzofakela isahlukaniso, ngandlela-thile azongena impilo yakhe enhle kakhulu.
Owesifazane onesimo sengqondo esibi kakhulu ngaye uzokhipha isahlukaniso, ngakho-ke uzoqhubeka kuze kube yilapho eqoqa, konke kuya endaweni ebucayi.
Ukuze kungenzeki, owesifazane ovela kumyeni onjalo ngeke ashiye, kodwa abaleke. Futhi esikhathini esizayo ngeke azizwe ecindezelekile, kodwa isimo sengqondo esijabulisayo nesimo esikhululekile, ngezinye izikhathi asizi lutho.
Owesifazane ohlukanisile, ngeke aqaphele ukwakha umndeni omusha isikhathi eside. Kodwa njengoba edinga umvikeli, abanye babelethe abathandi ababahlinzeka ngokugcwele. Kanye nokuvikela, futhi. Futhi ungafuni inkululeko yabo.
Kodwa abanye, abahlala emshadweni womphakathi ngemuva kokuhlukanisa, bawela esicupheni. Ngokuhlala ndawonye isikhathi eside, indoda esele isilungele ukushada idinga owesifazane ukuba abhalise ngokomthetho ubuhlobo babo, kodwa uthola impendulo engalungile. Le ndoda iyancipha futhi ihlala ngokuthula ngokujwayele konke. Kodwa uma owesifazane ekhathele yendima enjalo futhi enquma ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokushada kakade, kodwa umusho wesibili awulinde. Kusukela okokuqala kunqatshiwe, lo muntu uzofuna omunye owesifazane. Kodwa kwakudingeka ukubeka konke endaweni yayo, ngokukhululekile ngaphezulu.
Empeleni, owesifazane ohlukanisayo uvumelane nakho konke okusha ngokushesha kunomuntu.
Uma efuna umsebenzi, uma engenayo, angakwazi ukusebenza njalo njengomthumeli, umdayisi, nohlanzekile. Futhi futhi phambi kobuhlakani nolwazi lwezilimi zakwamanye amazwe ukuthola futhi umsebenzi okhokhelwa kakhulu ehhovisi.
Elena Romanova , ikakhulukazi indawo