Kubalulekile ukuxazulula imisebenzi eminingi nezinkinga zenhlangano: awukwazi ukukhohlwa noma yini, ulahlekelwa amehlo, udinga ukuhlangabezana ncamashi ngesikhathi.
Eminye imibhangqwana ithatha isinqumo esisodwa sokufaka isicelo kwi-ejensi ekhethekile, lapho banikela khona ukulungiselela umshado, obizwa ngokuthi "turnkey". Okusho ukuthi, abantu abalungile bayonquma konke okwenzela wena futhi benze konke, bacabangele izifiso ezingavamile kakhulu futhi basebenzise imibono emihle kakhulu, izimo ezinhle kakhulu. Lapha ungakwenza, ungakhathazeki ngokuthi umcimbi wakho womndeni wokuqala uzoba ohlukile futhi okhethekile.
Iningi lamabhangqwana lithinteka enhlanganweni ehlangene yomkhosi: bayethemba into ethile kuma-ejenti, futhi benze okuthile ngokwabo.
Futhi-ke, kukhona abantu abanesibindi abahlela ukuhlela umshado ngokwabo, besebenzisa izinsiza zabo siqu futhi ngosizo lwabangani kanye nabangane be-comrades-izihlobo. Isinyathelo sinesibindi futhi asilungile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kodwa lokhu kuyindaba eyimfihlo kuwo wonke umuntu. Manje sizokhuluma ngenye into.
Noma yikuphi okungafani nokulungiselela abashade abasha abaye bakhetha, kusobala, into eyodwa: into yokuqala ukuzimela ngokuzimela uhlu lwamakhamuzi lomshado. Abazali bayokujabulela ukujoyina le nqubo, kodwa njengemikhonzo yokubonisa, umsebenzi awutholakali kulokhu, kodwa ngisho nokuphambene nalokho, kuyinkimbinkimbi isimo. Phela, umqondo wohlu oluhle kakhulu lunamandla. Futhi uma usondela ngalolu daba kuzo zonke ukuqonda kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo, kamuva uzokwazi ukugwema ukungaqondi kahle nezinkinga eziningi.
Ngakho, sihlanganisa uhlu oluhle lwezivakashi zomshado.
Okokuqala, noma yimuphi umshado unabhajethi. Ukuze uhlale ungaphansi kwemikhawulo yawo, kuyadingeka ukuba usondele kule nkinga ngokuzenzekelayo, ungahambisani nenye ingxenye yokuhlakanipha okubandayo. Kubalulekile ukuphawula lapha ukuthi umsebenzi awugcini nje ukubhala uhlu lwabangani, abajwayele, abangane kanye nezitha, zonke izinhlobo zezihlobo, omakhelwane nabalingani. Sidinga ukwenza uhlu oluhle kakhulu lwezihambeli zomshado, lapho igama elithi "elungile" liyizwi elibalulekile. Ngendlela, isabelomali esamukelwe ngaphambilini siyosiza ukugwema izinyembezi ezingadingekile, izingxabano kanye nezisulu.
Okwesibili, cishe yonke imibhangqwana esanda kushada, ngakolunye uhlangothi noma enye, inomunye u-Aunt uMotya, noma udla ukudla okunomsoco futhi ngaphansi kwethonya labo, isihlobo esihlaselayo, u-Ivan Solomonovich. Ngaphambi kokukhetha ukukhetha omunye noma omunye umvakashi, abantu abasha kufanele bacabange ngokucophelela: kufanelekile ukukwenza nokuthi yini eqinisweni isengozini? Ingabe abantu abashadile bayohlala "nomthwalo osindayo" wecala likaMnuz Moti noma balalele isifufula esinamandla sokulwa okudakiwe kuka-Ivan Solomonovich emaholidi omndeni? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwakunjani, konke lokhu kuzokwenzeka kamuva, i-postscript, hhayi ngosuku lokugubha, lapho kungekho lutho okufanele lufake iholide elikhanyayo. Akukho ndawo yokungaboni kahle, amahlazo, ukulwa nanoma yikuphi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokujwayelekile. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokwenza uhlu lwamenywa, kubalulekile ukucabanga ngokucophelela ngazo zonke izinketho nemiphumela engenzeka.
Iphuzu elilodwa elibaluleke kakhulu. Kubalulekile, isikhathi eside ngaphambi kosuku olulindelekile, ukubala ngokuzithoba zonke izivakashi ezingahle zihlelwe ukumenywa emshadweni. Bese, ngaphansi kwalolu hlu usebenzise ikhophi elukhuni. Ngakho-ke, uma kudingeka, yenza izinguquko nezinguquko zesimo. Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukulibazisa leli cala: futhi, isabelomali asiyona inhlamba, futhi zonke izinguquko kufanele zenziwe kuqala, ukuze zingagudluli izinhlalakahle zomndeni wesikhathi esizayo. Futhi, ukulawulwa kwethembo elihle ukuthumela amakhadi wokumema (noma ukumemela ngamazwi: konke kuxhomeke ekukhuliseni, emasiko nasemindeni yomndeni) okungenani amasonto amabili ngaphambi kosuku olubalulekile, ngisho nangaphambili. Ngemuva kwalokho, umakoti nomkhwenyana balungiselela umshado, kodwa nabamemezeli besikhathi esizayo. Kudingeka banikezwe isikhathi sokuqonda, balungiselele umcimbi ozayo, futhi, ukuze bakwazi ukutshela ukuthi bangakuhlonipha yini nokuba khona kwabo. Lona umbuzo obalulekile ongeke usawunakwa.
Esinye iphuzu elibalulekile. Uma uhlu lwezimenywa zomshado lwenziwa, ludlulile, zonke izinhlelo ezikhona futhi zivunyelwe, ukuze kugweme izigameko ezingathandeki kanye nomunye "umzuzu omangalisa", kungaba kuhle ukuthi labo abasanda kushada bavuselele inkumbulo yabo futhi bakhumbule bonke labo bantu abangabonakala emcimbini ngaphandle kokumema nokuxwayiswa. Uma isimangalo esinjalo singaba mnandi - kuyadingeka ukuthi unikeze imali eyengeziwe. Yebo, uma ukuvakashelwa emkhosini wakho ngobuntu obuningi akuyona into efiselekayo - udinga ukuthatha izinyathelo ezifanele.
Mhlawumbe lokhu kuyilungiselelo lokuqala lomndeni elihlangene, okukhethwa ngokuzikhethela okuyobathinta yonke inkambo yomkhosi ozayo womshado. Kule ndaba ebalulekile njengokudweba uhlu lwezivakashi zomshado ngaphandle kokwehlisa, awukwazi ukukwenza. Lokhu kuyoba ukuqeqeshwa okuhle ekukwazi ukuhlonipha imibono yomunye nomunye, ikhono lokulalela nokuzwa, ukunikela nokunikela. Ngaphambili umcimbi omkhulu ozoshintsha indlela yokuphila yonke yokuphila, isinyathelo esikhulu phambili. Esikhathini esizayo esisha, nomunye nomunye.