Esikhathini sethu sekuye kwaba nemfashini yokugxeka amadoda. Bonke ndawonye futhi ngamunye ngabanye: abameleli ngabanye futhi "njengezinhlobo eziphilayo." Bathi bangabantu abavilaphayo, futhi abangeyona isinyathelo. Kanti futhi izidakamizwa, izidakamizwa, ama-inepts, abakwazi ukupheka ukudla ngisho nokudla kwemikhiqizo engapheli, izidalwa ezinamandla nezinezimo ezinomdlavuza kuphela. Lapha akulona uhlu oluphelele lokuhlolwa okungalungile.
Ngokwehluleka, kufanele kuphawulwe leli phuzu - ngokuvamile abagxeki abanobudlova nabangenakuqhathaniswa yilabo abajwayele amadoda, ngokushoyo, ngokwemfundiso nje, kodwa ngokuqinisekile akusebenzi, okungukuthi, izintombi ezindala.
Ake sibone ukuthi yiqiniso, futhi yini engamanga, sizohlukanisa, okushoyo, ukusika izimpukane.
Uvila . Okumangalisa, kepha ngokuvamile lokhu kukhishwa abantu abasebenza ngokuzikhandla, njengokusebenza esakhiweni noma ukuthulula izimoto: abashayeli besikhathi eside, abavukuzi, abasebenza ngensimbi ... Akukho lutho olungakusho ngabadlali. Abasebenzi bezandla zomqondo kuthiwa abavilapha, njengoba bethi, uNkulunkulu ngokwakhe ngokwakhe wayala. Noma kunjalo, umsebenzi wengqondo ngezinye izikhathi uphelela kakhulu kunokwenyama. Akulula kakhulu ukusula i-group of documents, ukudlula entabeni yolwazi, futhi konke ukuze kuthathe isinqumo esisodwa sokuphatha, okwamanje, ngezinye izikhathi, sinquma isiphetho senkampani yonke. Ungangikholelwa yini, anginalo uzwelo oluncane kulabo abathintekayo, kepha ngilungele ukuvuma - laba bantu bahlama njengalabo abalahliwe. Akusiyo njalo ephumelelayo, eqinisweni, kodwa ukulima.
Ukuhleka kukahle kakhulu kuqala lapho labo abathobekile bebagxeka ngokuthula: abendlukazi, abafundi, abahola impesheni. Ngibona intaba yokugxeka. Kanjani? Owesifazane kufanele adle futhi apheke, ahlambe, ahlanze endlini, futhi athenge, futhi akha futhi azinwele. Ngenkathi umyeni wakhe ephelele usuku lonke epaki yemoto (emayini, ehhovisi, esitolo, endaweni yokwakhiwa - kufanelekile ukugcizelela). Awu, hhayi ngempela, njengokungathi, futhi epholile. Amadoda amaningi aletha umholo endlini, njengoba wazi, akekho umqashi okhokhela imali "njengaleyo," kahle, akukho muntu ongathandeki phakathi kwabo. Ngakho-ke, lo muntu uya ekhaya ukuze aphumule, okungukuthi, ukubuyisela amandla. "Futhi kuthiwani? - mhlawumbe umama okhungathekile uzokubuza - ingabe kunzima kakhulu ukugoba isibani (ukushayela isikhumba, ukukhipha udoti, ukulungisa isibhamu, ukuthatha ingane enkulisa)?
Yebo, ngikulungele ukuvumelana, phakathi kwamadoda, kanye naphakathi kwabesifazane, kukhona izidalwa ezivilaphayo. Kodwa konke lokho? Cha, angikwenzi. Ake sibheke lesi simo kancane kancane ngakolunye uhlangothi. Umsizi wonke usuku wasebenza kanzima. Ngafika ekhaya, umkami wacela usizo. Kulungile, imisebenzi yendlu elula efana nokugeza izitsha noma ukuya esitolo, kodwa ukulungiswa okufanayo kwamapayipi? Okokuqala, kukhona i-plumber kulokhu. Okwesibili, uma kunesidingo esinjalo, ngakho-ke, ngombono wami, kulula kakhulu futhi kuphumelele kakhulu ukunikeza imali kumuntu oqeqeshiwe, umplumberhi ofanayo futhi angakhulisi ubuchopho bakho ngokungazi lutho. Nokho, abesifazane abaningi bacabanga ngendlela ehlukile. "Indoda yangempela kufanele ikwazi ukwenza konke!" Futhi isisulu esinjalo sasikhumbula bani? Into eyinhloko ukuthi akukho mqondo kulokhu. Esikhathini sethu, noma kunjalo. Mhlawumbe umama akufanele akhokhe imali yokufundisa amadodana abo esikoleni esiphakeme? Bayeke esikoleni sokufundela umsebenzi, bafunde ukusebenza ngesando, isisel, i-soldering iron, ama-knit nuts, ifenisha yokulungisa?
Umfana ugwaza ngezinsuku, kodwa uletha izinkulungwane ezimbalwa zamaRandi ngenyanga, ngakho cha, njalo ngempelasonto, ukuzingela indawo yokuhlala ehlobo. Kungani? Uma kungenjalo, uninazala ngeke akwazi ukuzola. Okunye okuphendulela ukuthengiswa kwezigidi, kepha ukuze kubhekwe njengomuntu ogcwele, udinga ukuphuthumayo ngokusebenzisa inkambo yokuqeqeshwa emfushane ngeplumberhi yendawo kaMalume Vasya, onamakilasi amathathu kanye nomgudu ngemuva kwakhe. Ngendlela, abesifazane ngokwabo baya kubachwepheshe uma kunesidingo. Ababheki bezinwele, i-cosmetologists, izazi zengqondo, odokotela, abameli. Izembatho, njengomthetho, zithengele ngomumo, kodwa ungabhondi ngokukhanya kwesibani se-diesel, njengoba kwenza nogogowabo. Ngakho-ke, madodakazi othandekayo, masenze iziphetho ezifanele ndawonye.
Akuyona isinyathelo . Yebo, kukhona. Amadoda amaningi, empeleni, akwazi ukwenza izinqumo, futhi alungele ukuya kunoma ubani. Kodwa ingabe kunjalo ukubeka icala ngalowo, ikakhulukazi uthathwe umuntu? Njengomthetho, abantu abangeyona isinyathelo esikhuliswe emindenini, lapho isinqumo senziwa ngumama, owesifazane onzima futhi onamandla. Iziqondiso zalo zigcina futhi zingekho ngaphansi kwesinqumo, njengoba imiyalo yomlawuli wamabutho empi. Uma omunye wamalungu omndeni engavumelani nalokhu, uzokwaziswa ngokushesha. Khona-ke uyamangala. Kwenzekani, kungani uvumele umalokazana wakho ahlale ekhanda lakho? Futhi ingabe angafunda kuphi ukuthatha isinyathelo? Yileyo ndlela izizukulwane ze-henpeckers zikhula, ezingenakuqeda isinyathelo ngaphandle kwesivumelwano nomkakho (umama, umkhwekazi-kubalulekile ukugcizelela).
Ngokuvamile uzwa lokhu: "Yebo, ngenza izinqumo kumyeni wami. Kodwa, uma ngihlangana nomuntu ongangenza izinqumo, ngizomlandela. " Ngempela? Futhi uma lo weserman esinqume ukuthi akufanelekile, isibonelo, ukuthenga ingubo entsha kumkayo, ebusika angase adlule esembatho sezimvu. Esikhundleni salokho, kungcono ukuthenga imoto noma ukuyilungisa endaweni yokuhlala.
"Le mpelasonto asiya endlini yezwe. Wena, ungaya ukuyothenga kancane, kodwa ngo-19-00 ngisekhaya, futhi ngizoba nobhiya nabangani bami. " - "Kanjani, kodwa mina ..." - "Nganquma kanjalo. Iphuzu ยป. Indoda engumngcwabo? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyini. Samodour. Isiqhwaga. Isizinda sekhaya.
Ekuphileni kwangempela - umndeni ngamunye unesibonelo sakhe sobuhlobo. Kwenzeka, umyeni uhlakaniphile, uthola amakhokotshi, futhi umfazi uyindoda yebhizinisi, ohlala ehlala engowesifazane wangempela. Kuyenzeka, umshayeli wendoda nomfazi - i-Cinderella enhle. Noma kunjalo, yilokho izihlobo zakhe ezicabangayo. Ngezinye izikhathi umyeni uhola ngempumelelo inkampani (uyala lo mkhakha, udala ubuciko bokubhala, wenza ukutholakala okunye emva kwalokho), futhi umfazi uhola ngempumelelo umyeni, eqondisa amandla akhe "ngendlela efanele." Ngokuvamile, kuphezu kwakho, madodakazikazi othandekayo, ingabe udinga ngempela isenzo somuntu esidumile?
Izidakwa . Ngenxa yobulungiswa, kumele sivume ukuthi phakathi kwabesilisa baseSlavic kukhona iningi labantu abancike ngokweqile. Kwamanye, lokhu kuncike ekutheni kungokwengqondo kuphela. Kanjani ukuphuza nabangani uma wonke umuntu ephuza? Ngendlela, emphakathini we-proletarian ikhono lokuphuza "elide nelide" lihlonishwa kakhulu, umuntu uyaphakamisa - okusho ukuthi angakwazi ukukukhokhela, ngoba uthola imali enhle. Imisebenzi yesinkwa nebhotela kanye nokubanjwa kancane. Ukukhangisa kwasekhaya nakho kwenza umnikelo wayo. Kusukela ebuntwaneni, abantu bayathinteka kakhulu - bephuza ngokweqile. Futhi ngenxa yezempilo kuyasiza, kukhona uNikolai Valuev oqeda i-vodka ngokungenalutho, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uhlala omunye wabhasiki bezinhlamvu eziqine kakhulu, isisindo esikhulu. Klitschko. I-Shevchenko ... Lezi, nokho, okuningi ngokubheja ubhiya.
Kukhona ukuthembela nokuphila ngokomzimba, lapho umuntu engakwazi ukusiza kodwa ukuphuza. Mhlawumbe, lokhu kubangelwa uhlobo oluthile lokukhubazeka kwengqondo. "Kungenzeka yini ukuphuza umuntu onenkinga nge-psyche?" - Ngabuza umhlengikazi. Udokotela waphendula wathi, "Empeleni, kodwa kunezimo eziningi lapho utshwala linciphisa lezi zinkinga." Lawa "avki" ekhanda futhi aphuze utshwala. Waphuza futhi wazizwa engcono.
Kodwa-ke, akubona bonke abameleli besigamu esiphezulu sabantu abaphuzayo. Ngokulula, labo abaphuza bayabonakala. Umsindo, i-buzz, nganoma yisiphi isizathu ukuveza ukunganeliseki. Yiqiniso, i-Hanurik ayibukeli kakhulu, kepha abafana banomsindo, bajabule, bayatshela okuningi ngezenzo zabo ezijabulisayo. Yebo, yilokho, abakushoyo. Uma kukhona izidakwa ezimbili noma ngaphezulu, isihloko esiyintandokazi yengxoxo ubulili. Benza kahle ngokuzenzela izinto zabo ezibucayi, ukuthi ngokuzibandakanya uqala ukucabanga, futhi ngempela, lokhu kungenzeka ngempela? Ungase uhleke, noma mhlawumbe ngizowela esihlalweni sami bese ngishaya kanzima. Uma umuntu ephuza yonke into enesakhiwo sokushisa - ubulili obuya ekhondweni yesibili nakweyesithathu. Ngokuvamile, umane nje awunawo amandla. Yingakho kufanele sicabange kanzima ukufihla lokhu okushiwo kulabo abaseduze nathi.
Lovelace . Abanye besifazane bayaqiniseka - banike indoda intando yakhe, futhi uzoshada naye noma ubani, okungenani noBaba Baba. Ngempela, uCasanova uhlangana, kodwa hhayi njalo njengoba abesifazane becabanga. Akuwona wonke umuntu onamandla okuba abathandi besifazane. Amadoda amaningi anamahloni ngokwemvelo. Abazami ngisho nokujwayelana nabesifazane, ngenxa yokwesaba ukulahlwa. Futhi uma beshada, bazama ukujabulisa umkakhe kukho konke, ukuze bangabi endizeni yamahhala futhi. Cishe uyazi isimiso ongasithola ukuthi umuntu ungubani ngempela emshadweni? Ngizokhumbuza labo abakhohliwe. Lapha konke kulula: bakhuluma nje, abanye bayakwenza kuphela. Ingxenye yesithathu ayinikezwa. Ngakho-ke lalela abantu abancane abakhuluma kahle futhi bakhohlwe kancane amadayimane wangempela obuhlobo bobulili - ukuthula.
I-Soulless . Yiqiniso, awukwazi ukubona umuntu ehleka phezu kwesinye isopha opera. Kungenye indaba, indoda enesibindi sokubhekana nomdlalo webhola noma umdlalo webhokisi. Khona-ke kwenzeka, sizwakalisa imizwelo. Kufika kubo bonke, kanye nokuhlaselwa-inept, kanye nezinhlangano zamabutho, ezivimbela amathalenta wendawo ukuthi aziveze wona, kanye nomqeqeshi we-idiot, kanye nejaji le-scoundrel. Bonke abantu bangahle bahlukaniswe ngokomzimba babe ngamaqembu amabili - izimiso zokuziphatha, imizwa ephilayo nokucabanga, ukuhlala engqondweni. Futhi, isethwe kusukela ekuzalweni. Amadoda amaningi ayingxenye enengqondo, iningi labesifazane besimiso sokuziphatha. Ukuphathelene nomqondo onengqondo akusho neze ubulukhuni obungokomoya. Amadoda futhi ahlangenwe nakho, zama nje ukungabonisi imizwelo yabo. Lapho owesifazane eyokhala khona futhi athole ukuthi ubani oyisiqalo esikhulu, lo muntu uzozama ukuhlaziya isimo futhi athole indlela yokuphuma. Ngendlela, lokhu kuyadingeka ukuba avele emicabangweni. Ukusola lo muntu ngokuba nethonya lokuphila ngokubangela kunemizwa kufana nokumangalela i-rock of croaking. Kulula ukusika ikhanda kunokuphinda ufundise.