Abaningi bezwa umqondo onjengobuntu, kodwa kude wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi leli gama lisho ukuthini. Ngakho, yikuphi okubili, futhi kubonakala kanjani ebuhlotsheni bomuntu nowesifazane?
I-Duality yiyona inhlanganisela ephelele yezingxenye ezimbili. Iphuzu eliphelele ukuthi lezi zakhi ezimbili zomhlaba ofanayo zihlukile. Okumnyama nomhlophe, okushisayo nokubandayo, okuhle nokubi, uthando luyizondo. Konke okuza engqondweni, kanye nanoma yisiphi isichazamazwi - lokhu kuyiqiniso. Kodwa-ke, sinesithakazelo ekubumbeni ebuhlotsheni, ngakho cabanga ngalolu daba ngokuningiliziwe ngesibonelo esithile.
Yena : ukuphukuthela, ngezinye izikhathi eziqinile, ubhedu, engesabi ubunzima, ukulungele ukuhamba phezu kwezidumbu (hhayi ukuthatha ngokoqobo) ngenxa yemigomo yakhe, umfana ongeke angene esikhwameni sakhe, angakwazi ukushaya futhi azizwe eqenjini elikhulu, njengenhlanzi emanzini, ukukhuluma kahle nabantu abahlukene abantu. Akayikuma emcimbini futhi uzomane athumele indoda engathandeki esihogweni, ngaphandle kokuzama ukuzenzisa. Akaqondi imizwa nothando nhlobo, akakwazi ukwakha uthando, kodwa umqondo owodwa uthuthukiswe ngokuphelele - umqondo wobunikazi.
Yena : intombazane ethandana naye, othanda ukufunda izincwadi, ukuhlala esihlalweni sobukhosi esinezihlalo ezihlelekile, ukudweba izithombe ezinhle, ukungaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngezinye izikhathi ukuhoxiswa. Akathandi ukuxhumana okuphoqelekile nabantu abangabazi, ngokushesha uyakhathala futhi avela ezihlotsheni; uthanda wedwa futhi akanakubekezelela izingxabano, ngoba ngokuvamile akakwazi ukuzimela. Iphupho, elingenalutho futhi elingathandekayo, intombazane ingabonisa uhlamvu lwakhe kuphela kubantu "bayo". Ukuyeka ukuphikisana kulungele ukunikeza labo abangathandi nhlobo. I-seamstress evamile.
Bathi : Kubonakala sengathi kukhona okuvamile phakathi kwalaba ababili. I-Strange njengoba ingase ibonakale, kodwa abantu abanjalo, abahluke ngokuphelele ekuqaleni, bafanelane kahle.
a) Ubuwula obuqotho bendoda, ukungakwazi ukuveza imizwa yethando nokuntuleka kokuthandana kubhalwa ngamakhono amantombazane okwakhiwa kobudlelwane bobuhlobo.
b) Imvelo engaphenduliyo futhi evaliwe yentombazane yenzelwe isigamu sakhe sesibili: wonke umuntu uyaqonda ukuthi amahloni ayenzeka kanjani, bobabili abantu bathule, kanti uma intombazane engakwazi ukuthi yisho ukuthini, amagama azohlale etholakala kumfana.
c) Yini abantu ababili ababuthakathaka abazoyenza esangweni elimnyama lapho kuhlasela kweGopnik? Bazoshaywa, bazosusa zonke izinto futhi bazozihlisa. Nokho, uma umuntu ekwazi ukuzimela yena kanye nabathandekayo bakhe, i-Gopnik ngeke ihlale imanzi. Ngaphandle kwesiphephelo esinjalo, insizwa encane, engazijwayele izohlala izwa njengodonga lwamatshe.
d) Njengoba le ntombazane ingahambi ngezinkampani futhi ingayisebenzisi yonke iminithi yamahhala nabangani bayo, umfana akadingeki abe nesibindi futhi abuye athukuthele ngenxa yomhawu (khumbula ukuthengiswa kwempahla okuthuthukisiwe, yebo?), ngoba ezimweni eziningi umthandi wakhe uzoba ekhaya, naye, nomthandekayo wakho.
e) Umfana onjalo uyohlale ehlisa umoya wokuqeda intombazane oqale, futhi ngeke angene esicongweni eside nesicasulayo. Yebo, naphezu kwemikhuba yakhe enobudlova, angeke amnike kuye ngokufunga, kodwa uzokwazi ukuvula othandekayo wakhe njalo, ngenkathi enika kokubili injabulo.
e) ... Ngaphandle kwalokho-uma ukuhlazeka kuqala emphakathini, lapho umfana ehlanganyela khona, intombazane izokwazi ukucima umlilo ovuthayo ovuthayo, ukukhathazeka nokuyeka izinsikazi zomthandi wakhe, ukugwema inhlebo engadingekile eceleni komfana.
Izibonelo zinganikezwa okuningi, ezihlobene kokubili othandweni nobungane, futhi zonke ziphephezela ukuthi abantu ababili, ngokuphambene ngokuphelele, bahambisana kangcono kunabantu ababili abanezimfanelo ezivamile zengqondo. Kusobala ukuthi lapha akubhekwa njengothando lweqembu lomculo noma uhlobo lwe-cinema, ubumbano lubhekisela ngokuqondile ekuqondeni, kwengqondo kanye nemizwa. Konke empeleni kuqaphele ukuthi kusibonelo esingenhla bekungekho izwi mayelana nokuncintisana komculo noma ukunambitheka?
Ngakho-ke, uma sicabanga konke okushiwo ngenhla: ungasheshi ukuphuka nomuntu, ngezimfanelo zengqondo, ohluke kakhulu kuwe. Umahluko obuningi obunakho kumlingiswa wakho, ukuziphatha kanye nezinye izinto zomuntu, uma uphelele ngokwengeziwe komunye nomunye, ukuqonda lokhu ngokushesha akunakwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi.