Kuyadabukisa ukuzwa kusukela kumfana noma intombazane: "Angizobe nomndeni, ngoba konke kuhle ekuqaleni, kodwa abantu bafunga ngokushesha futhi bahlukanise, futhi akukho nje isiqiniseko sokuthi kuzohluka kimi." Ubuhlobo bobuhlobo bomzali buyakha umgomo wokubona izingane imizwa, ikakhulukazi yothando. Uma indlu ivame ukukhulunywa ngamathoni aphakeme, noma imemeza, uma ingane izwa njalo izwi elicasulayo ngezwi lakhe, khona-ke iyoyibheka lesi sitayela esamukelekayo ngokuphelele lapho ukhuluma nabantu abathandanayo. Labo abakhulela esimweni esinjalo, khona-ke kuyoba nzima ukwakha ubudlelwane obuvamile emndenini wabo. Omunye uphinde aphindiselele isimo somzali: uhlale ephikisana. Abanye - nje abakwazi ukuma nokuhlukanisa, noma kunjalo, ukudala umndeni omusha, wenze amaphutha afanayo. Kanti abanye bakhetha ukuhlala bodwa, besaba ukudabuka nokucasuka, abazi ukuthi bangabuyisa kanjani injabulo yomndeni.
Sonke sifuna ukuthanda nokuthandwa, siphila enzalweni ethokozisayo, sinemuva esithembekile. Noma kunjalo, kuvela kuphela kulabo abangakhohlwa imithetho esemqoka yothando futhi bazi ukuthi bangabuyisa kanjani injabulo yomndeni.
Umthetho wokwethemba.
Ngokwesibonelo, uVika wayekhathazekile lapho umyeni wakhe ehlala isikhathi eside emsebenzini. Wacabanga ukuthi isizathu singase sibe ngowesifazane. Ngakho-ke, uVika wayehlale elalela izingxoxo zocingo zomyeni wakhe, ngezikhathi ezithile wahlela ukuphenywa. U-Igor naye wabheka ngomona kakhulu imizamo yomkakhe ukuba aye e-cosmetologist noma e-aerobics. Ngafunda ngasese idayari yakhe, ngezinye izikhathi ngafunda okuqukethwe kwesikhwama sami.
Emndenini onjalo, i-credit of trust isiphelile isikhathi eside. Ukuze ubuhlobo bomshado bothando ngempela, ukwethembela kubalulekile. Uma engekho, umuntu oyedwa uqala ukusolisa, ukuphumula, kanti omunye uvele abe esicupheni esingokomzwelo: kubonakala sengathi inkululeko yakhe ilahlekile. Kulokhu, ukubuyisela injabulo yomndeni kunzima. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukufunda ukuthembela othandekayo bakho, kanye nobuhlobo ngokwabo.
Umthetho wokuxhumana okuvulekile.
U-Oleg no-Christina sebeshadile iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-3. Ekuqaleni kwakukhona kokubili uthando nokuthanda. Kodwa-ke, unyaka owodwa kuphela odlulile, futhi ubuhlobo baba ngcono nakakhulu: UChristina wayevame ukuthukuthela umyeni wakhe kuphela ngoba wayengacabangi izifiso zakhe (wayebathanda ama-roses, hhayi ama-carnations); Wathukuthela ukuthi u-Oleg flirts naye uma enokuningi okumelwe akwenze. Kodwa-ke, ngakho konke lokhu, u-Christina akazange amtshele umyeni wakhe, futhi wayengenakuqonda izimbangela zangempela zokuhlambalaza kukaKristin.
Iphutha elivamile phakathi kwabashadayo: bakholelwa ukuthi ukuze kube nokuphila okujabulisayo emndenini, uthando kuphela luyoba ngokwanele. Noma kunjalo, uthando aluyona i-rose yokufakelwa, engadingi ukunakekelwa. Kufana nesitshalo sangempela sokuphila - singaluqhakaza, kodwa singabuna. Konke kuncike ekutheni unakekelwa kanjani. Vula ukukhulumisana ngothando, njengamanzi ahlanzekile esitshalo - ngaphandle kwalo, awukwazi ukusinda. Batshela njalo ngezinkanuko nemizwa yomuntu siqu, akudingeki ukuba uchithe injabulo yomndeni, ngoba i-potto iyabuyisa ngeke kube lula. Qiniseka ukuthi ukhuluma ngendlela oyithandayo futhi uyayithanda ngayo umyeni wakhe - ungesabi ukumdumisa. Futhi ungaboni kalula isimo sengqondo esihle. Ngiyakwazi ukubonga!
Umthetho wesipho.
U-Lyudmila, njengoba ekhumbula, wayelokhu efuna amadoda. Wayefuna njalo umyeni onakekelayo, onothando, othandekayo, ngefulethini, imoto, ethandekayo, njll, njll. ULyudmila akazange aze eze engqondweni: yini angayinika okhethiweyo. Wacabanga: "Uma engithanda, ngizomnakekela." Kodwa uLududmila usenesizungu, usanda kuba ngu-35.
Ukuze uhlangabezane nothando lweqiniso, kufanele uqale uthande uqobo futhi ungathandeki. Uma kwenzeka ufuna ukuthola uthando, udinga ukukunikeza. Futhi uma unikeza ngokwengeziwe, uzothola ngokwengeziwe. Uthando, njenge-boomerang, luzobuyela noma yikuphi. Nakuba kungenjalo njalo kusuka kumuntu owawunikezile. Noma kunjalo, izobuya ngokuphindwe kabili! Futhi ungakhohlwa: isitoko sothando asiphelelanga sonke. Futhi indlela kuphela yokulahlekelwa uthando lwangempela akukona ukupha abanye. Injabulo yomndeni isekelwe ekuthembekeni.
Noma kunjalo, inkinga ukuthi abanye abantu abafuni ukunikeza kuqala, bathanda ngokubhuka okuthile: "Ngizokuthanda kuphela uma ungithanda." Linda kuze kube yilapho umuntu ethatha isinyathelo sokuqala, ngakho abakwazi ukuthola injabulo yomndeni. Kufana nomculi uzothi: "Ngizoyidlala, emva kokuba izivakashi zami ziqale ukudansa." Uthando lweqiniso aludingi lutho ngokubuyisela.
Umthetho wokuthinta.
ULarissa noDima bahlukanisa ngokucacile imisebenzi phakathi kwabo. ULarissa kwakuwukugeza, ukulungiselela, ukuhlanza. UDima wathola imali. Babekhuluma omunye nomunye kuphela ngokuphila kwansuku zonke. Ubulili bubekwe ohlelweni kuphela - akukho othintekayo ongathintwa futhi wamukele. Ukuze atshele iqiniso, ekuqaleni uDima wazama ukudlala ama-pranks nomkakhe ngamahora angakaze abe khona, kepha wayelokhu ewayeka. Njengoba kwenzeka kamuva, uLarissa akazange adlale nabazali bakhe lapho esemncane; Ukwamukelwa komndeni wakhe nakho akumukelwa.
Noma yikuphi ukuthinta kungenye yezibonakaliso zethando kakhulu zothando othandekayo emndenini. Iqinisa ubuhlobo futhi ihlukanise izivimbelo. Ukuze kuqalwe isimo esivamile emndenini, ukuziphatha kwengqondo kuncoma ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile: kaningi ukukhumbuza umlingani onjalo, ngaphandle kwesisusa sobulili; Kumele ube nofana nabantwana; wonke umuntu kufanele abambe izandla njengabathandi abasha. Ngendlela, "abafundi" bathi lokhu kuwumsebenzi wesikole kunzima kakhulu ekuphileni kwabo.
Ngesinye isikhathi, komunye wemitholampilo eLondon, ukuhlolwa kwenziwa. Kusihlwa, ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa, udokotela ohlinzayo, njengombuso, wavakashela isiguli sakhe, ngokujwayelekile, akhuluma ngomcimbi ozayo futhi uphendule imibuzo enentshisekelo isiguli. Futhi phakathi nokuhlolwa, udokotela ngesikhathi yengxoxo ebambe isandla sesiguli. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi leso siguli sathola ngokushesha kathathu kunabanye.
Uma uthinta ngokucophelela umuntu, umzimba wakho uphinde ushintshe: isimo somzwelo siyathuthuka, isimiso sezinzwa siyaqeda, izinga le-hormone yokucindezeleka linciphisa, futhi ukuzivikela komzimba kuqinisa. Abantu abahlakaniphile bathi: Uma ungatholi ngobumnene abantu abangamatshumi ayisishiyagalombili emini, usuke ulahlwa ukugula. Ungabuyisela injabulo yomndeni ngokumthinta nje.
Umthetho wenkululeko.
U-Vitaly noNatasha basanda kutshata. Konke kwakungcono. Kodwa, emva kwesikhashana, uNatasha wayezwa ukuthi umyeni wakhe uzama ukuyilawula: wabeka umbono wakhe, wathatha izinqumo. Uma enza ngendlela yakhe, ukhululekile kakhulu futhi uyamgxeka amahora njengomntwana. Nokho, uNatasha ucabanga ukuthi usemdala futhi uyakwazi ukwenza izinqumo eziningi ngokwayo.
Uma uthanda umuntu, khona-ke umnike inkululeko ephelele. Inkululeko ngokukhetha, inkululeko yokuphila ngokuvumelana nalokho akufunayo. Yiqiniso, lokhu kunzima kakhulu. Nokho, akekho enye indlela yokuphuma. Ukubuyisela injabulo yomndeni - vele unikeze inkululeko. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze ungazizwa ungenelele, wonke umuntu udinga isikhala sakhe siqu .