Ukuba nobulili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa

Izingane zizalwa ngoba umama nobaba balala ngocansi. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi impilo esondelene nayo ingaphansi kokuvinjelwa - lokhu kuyimfuneko edingekayo yokuzalwa kwengane enempilo. Thola ukuthi kuhle ukuthatha ucansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa noma cha.

Ukuhlela ukukhulelwa

Ukuyeka okwesikhashana ocansini, abazali bangathinta ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa, kuxhomeke ku-chromosome - X noma Y - abadade baphatha i-spermatozoa. "Owesifazane" X uyashesha, kodwa aphile isikhathi eside kunokuthi "u-boyish" Y-spermatozoa. Futhi labo, nabo, basengozini, kodwa ama-nestlers - agijimela eqanda ngokushesha. Kukholelwa ukuthi imibhangqwana efuna ukuthola indlalifa kumele njalo, ngesonto ngesonto, ibe nobulili njalo ngenyanga, bese uthatha ikhefu amaviki angu-1.5-2 ngaphambi nje kokuba u-ovulation. Ngalesi sikhathi, i-spermatozoa "yamadoda" izokhula. Uma kuyadingeka ukuthi i-heiress ifunwe, kuzodingeka ukuthi uhlale okungenani inyanga - isimiso se-hormonal yomuntu sizovuselelwa, i-Y-spermatozoa izoba encane, futhi i-X - ngaphezulu. Lesi simo sachazwa njengasekupheleni kakhulu ngawo-1950: izinduna zokudoba olwandle olujulile noma izazi ze-geologists ezabhubha ngezinkambo zazinamantombazane amabili abafana lapho bebuya. Ukuhlukaniswa yi-in vitro fertilization. Ubaba wesikhathi esizayo kuzodingeka enze i-spermogram ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingu-3-7 zokuziyeka. Khona-ke, ngaphambi kwenqubo yokuqoqwa kwamaqanda kanye ne-ECO ngokwalo, ukuphuka kokuphila ngokocansi kuyodingeka kuphindwe - lokhu kuzokwandisa umsebenzi we-spermatozoa.

Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa

Mayelana nobulili kuzodingeka ukhohliwe uma kukhona usongo lokuqeda ukukhulelwa: umama ozayo uzobona, evuza amniotic fluid, ukubeka phansi okuphansi. Mhlawumbe, udokotela uzobe ebeka ukuphumula ngokocansi futhi uma kunjalo uma owesifazane esesencane kakade anesisu noma uma ngaphakathi kwamabili. Yiqiniso, ukuphikisana nokuya ocansini kuyisifo. Kuzo zonke ezinye izimo, odokotela banamuhla abavumeli kuphela, kodwa ngisho batusa ubudlelwano bobulili: bayathokozisa abashade futhi baqinise umndeni. Ukuba izindleko ezivikelwe noma ukuma phakathi nezikhathi ezibucayi - izinsuku, ku "dobirennoj" ukuphila okuhambisana nokuya esikhathini. Izinkinga zomsebenzi, isibonelo ukuphuka noma ukuqubuka kwe-perineum nge-suturing elandelayo, kungandisa isikhathi sokuziyeka. Kubalulekile ukuthi amanxeba aphiliswe ngokugcwele, futhi isikhathi esithatha ukuthatha - amasonto amabili noma izinyanga ezingu-2-3, kuxhomeke ekuziphatheni komzimba wesifazane nasemibhalweni yokuvuselelwa. Ngisho nangemva kokululama ngokuphelele, abesifazane abaningi babika ukuzwela okukhulu noma ngisho nokukhathazeka ezindaweni ezihlukumezekile ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi kokuqala. Kule ndawo yethenda kuneziphetho eziningi zokulimala ezonakaliswe ngesikhathi sokubeletha futhi "ziboshwe" emigodini. Ukuhlelwa kwegciwane kungashintsha futhi (ikakhulu ekuqaleni) ukuqina kwayo. Ngakho-ke, ngisho nezimo ezijwayelekile zingabangela ukungakhululeki. Umuthi lapha kukhona into eyodwa - ububele nobumnandi bendoda, ukucinga izikhundla ezintsha ezihambisana nabalingani bobabili. Usizo kanye nokuzivocavoca okukhethekile uKegel for imisipha obuseduze. Yiqiniso, lona wesifazane angase angafuni ukulala naye, ikakhulukazi ku-trimester yokuqala. Kukholelwa ukuthi amasonto ayisithupha edlule ngaphambi kokubeletha akusona isikhathi esihle kakhulu socansi.

Ngesikhathi sokubeletha

Incwadi ka-15 yekhulu le-19 "E-Russian National Obstetrics" ichaza amasiko okusho ukuthi umyeni wesifazane okhulelwe ngaphambi kokuzalwa noma ekuqaleni kokulwa alala nomkakhe, "ekhombisa indlela eya kumntwana". Khona-ke odokotela bakholelwa ukuthi ukuthintana ngokocansi kwenza kube lula ukubeletha. Ngandlela-thile, okhokho bethu babelungile, isibonelo, uma owesifazane "amaphoyinti" ekhulelwe amaviki angaphezu kwamashumi amane, ungasebenzisa ubulili obungavimbelwe njengento yokukhulelwa, owesilisa wesilisa uqukethe i-prostaglandin yemvelo elungiselela umlomo wesibeletho ukuvula. Kodwa-ke, esibhedlela sesimanje sokubeletha, indoda nomfazi, ngisho "nokubeletha" ndawonye, ​​akunakwenzeka ukuba babe nobulili phambi kwabasebenzi bezokwelapha. Indoda ingabonisa ububele ngokuhlukile: yenza umsizi ukusikhipha, kumsize aphefumule ngesigqi esifanele, ahlale ethule futhi akhuthaze. Kodwa omunye wezidakamizwa eziyingqayizivele-izifo zezinkinga zokubeletha uMichel Auden wayekholelwa ukuthi uketshezi kocansi ngesikhathi sokubeletha akuyona ndawo: phambi komuntu othandekayo, lona wesifazane "uyabambelela", abe namahloni futhi umsebenzi awunqandekile.

Ngemuva kokubeletha

Ukubuyiselwa kwezitho zangasese kubesifazane kuthatha cishe amasonto ayisithupha. Isibeletho kanye nentambo yokuzalwa kufanele kunciphise, i-mucosa kufanele ikhule. Isibonakaliso sokuthi ubulili bukhanyisa ukukhanya okuluhlaza, - ukuphela kokukhishwa. Ukuvuselela umsebenzi wezocansi kufanele nje emva kokubonisana nodokotela wezifo zamasosha. Isitatimende sokuthi abesifazane abaningi ngemva nje kokubeletha baqala ukuzwa i-orgasm akuyona intokwane kuphela. Ngempela, ukuzalwa kuyashintsha kokubili i-physiology kanye ne-psychology yowesifazane. Kodwa akuzona i-panacea ye-anorgasmia. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ngenxa yokwehlukaniswa kwezindonga zesifazane kanye nokulahlekelwa ukuzwela kwabo, ukwaneliseka okuphelele kungaba nzima ukufeza izinhlangothi zombili zesenzo. Ngenhlanhla, lokhu kuyinto yesikhashana.