1. "Ngiyabonga, othandekayo, ukuthi ufuna ukungisiza ngihlanze, kodwa ngizokwenza ngokushesha kunani ..."
Owesifazane osebenza efektri noma esikhungweni kunzima ukuhlanza indlu. Leli bhizinisi eliyinkimbinkimbi, elwela ukwenza konke ngokushesha, akusilo ukuhlakanipha ukusebenzisa amandla alo. Akudingekile ukuba unqabe usizo lomuntu lapho efuna ukukusiza ngandlela-thile, futhi ikakhulukazi ungangabazi ukuthi uyakwazi ukukwenza ngokushesha. UDkt. Casey uthi lolo suku lwalulindeleke kokubili. Kodwa umuntu angacabanga ukuthi akakuhambisani nawe ngandlela-thile, futhi ukwenqaba kwakho akutsheli lokho. Kungcono ukumnika okuthile okuvela emadodeni akho omatasa, ungama emphefumulweni wakhe, futhi usebenzise isikhathi samahhala sokulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa. Kodwa qiniseka ukubonga indoda yakho ngalesi sifiso ukukusiza.
2. "Ngiyinto elula, ukuthi ukwazi ukulungisa isibhamu esigijimayo."
Ngandlela-thile ungabonakali ukuphazamiseka kwakho lapho ekwazi ukwenza okuthile ngendlu ngaphandle kosizo lochwepheshe obemenyiwe. UDkt. Casey uthi ukumangala kwakho kuyothatha intukuthelo ebonakalayo ekuthandeni kwakhe. Abesilisa abafuni abafazi babo ukuba bangabaza ukuthi abesilisa babo "bayathandana." Bazokujabulela ukuzwa: "Unomuntu ohlakaniphile futhi ohlakaniphile, futhi u-jack wazo zonke izinto. Ngiyabona ukuthi ngishade kakhulu. "Ukuncoma kwakho kobuningi bakhe obunemisebenzi eminingi kuzokubonisa ukuthi akayena nje embhedeni wakho.
3. "Nguwe kuphela umuntu engingakhuluma ngaye."
Indoda ayifuni ukuba ngumuntu oyedwa umngane wakho, umama istra. Ungamcindezeli ngemithwalo yemfanelo enamandla kunazo zonke: "Ukuba yisisodwa uhlelo lokusekela wena umcindezeli omkhulu kuye," kusho isazi somshado esinelayisensi kanye nodokotela womndeni uKarinGoldstein. Ukuze uthole umthelela onamandla, akwanele ukusho ukuthi ungumuntu ozithandayo. Zama ukumqinisekisa ukuthi nakuba unethuba lokukhuluma nomama nabangane nganoma isiphi isikhathi, nguye olalele kakhulu. Kuyinto enhle ukukhuluma naye. Isifiso sakhe sokusiza ukudlala kanye namazwi akho, ukuthi uyakwazisa ngempela umbono wakhe.
4. "Lesi sipho asikho ekuthandeni kwami, kodwa ngizokuthola isicelo."
Siyabonga ngokukhathalela. Kodwa ungazami ngisho nokumtshela ngisho nomama wakhe isipho sakhe sokugcina - umgexo awukhethile kuDyusyasvyatogo Valentine. Indoda izomane iqhume futhi ithi ayikwazi ukuxhuma. "Kuzoba yisibindi ebusweni," kusho uGoldstein. "Ngeke azame ukukunika noma nini esikhathini esizayo." Yamukela ukuphana komuntu wakho futhi ngezinye izikhathi ugqoke isipho sakhe. Ngaphambi kwecala elikhethekile elilandelayo, ungatshele ukuthi ungathanda ukuthola esitolo.
5. "Ngithanda isisu sakho ne-vyalyemuskuly."
Kodwa uma indoda izolo izozwa intshiseko yakho yezinhlamvu zamaphephandaba kaRyan Gosling, uvele nje ehlangana ngemizwa futhi ngeke azi, ukuqinisekisa. UDkt. Brochet ukumema ukuba utshele oshade naye ukuthi ungumlingani omuhle ngawe nobaba onakekelayo, nokuthi lokho akunakho ukuqhathaniswa "kokugxila" ngemisipha emikhulu, egxila kuye ngokwakhe. Lokhu kuzomvumela ukuba aqonde okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ukuthi uhambelana nokuthanda kwakho.
6. "Wena ungcono kakhulu ..."
Indoda inhle nawe embhedeni, kodwa akafuni ukwazi ngabalingani bakho bangaphambilini. Uyakhumbula ngokuzumayo wonke lawa madoda futhi uqale ukuqhathanisa. Ukuzibonakalisa ngokuzikhandla embhede, uhambelane nesipiliyoni esithile socansi, esiqashiwe naye. UDkt Broch uncoma ukuthi uyajabula lapho ezwa kahle. Ukugxila ebuhlotsheni kwenziwa kumlingani, hhayi ngokuqhathanisa okujwayelekile.