Siya esikoleni ngesiFilipino .
Masiqale ngeqiniso lokuthi abazali abaningi bahlushwa yiyinkinga: kusukela ngakanani iminyaka engcono kakhulu ukunikeza ingane esikoleni - kusukela kulesithupha noma okufanayo kusukela eminyakeni eyisikhombisa? Kule ndaba, uma ingane yakho ineminyaka yobudala ehlukile yepasipoti eyodwa, ochwepheshe batusa ukusebenzisa ukubizwa okuthiwa i-Philippine. Okushiwo yilokho okushiwo ukuthi ingane idinga ukuzama ekhanda lakhe ukuthinta amathiphu eminwe yesandla sayo sokunxele kuya endlebeni yakhe yangakwesokudla. Uma ingane ingakwazi ukuyenza - kusengaphambili kakhulu ukuba aye esikoleni. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukunikeza ingane ukuqeqeshwa emva kwakho konke kusukela eminyakeni eyisikhombisa. Kule minyaka yobudala, futhi ukujwayela komuntu oqala kuqala esikoleni ngokwayo kuyashesha.
Ukulungiselela "ukuhlomile ngokugcwele"
Ngezinye izikhathi kunesimo esinzima kangangokuthi ingane ayisho umsindo noma izinhlamvu zomuntu ngamunye. Kulesi simo, kufanele nakanjani uthintane nodokotela wezinkulumo, okufanele aphakamise inkambo yezivivinyo ezikhethekile ezenzelwe ukuthuthukisa inkulumo yengane. Konke lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abaqashi bokuqala esikoleni, babhale amagama ngendlela efanayo njengoba besho. Yingakho ukulungiswa kwenkulumo kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuqhubekela phambili komfundi.
Izinkinga zokuqala ekuphileni
Kukhona amacala uma ingane ihamba esikoleni, njengokuthi "ekusebenzeni kanzima", ngaphandle kokuthokozisa kancane emehlweni akhe, ngokwesaba lokho okulindele khona lapho. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, lokhu kuyiphutha labazali ngokwabo ngaphambili ukuthi "babala" isikole kumntwana, njengokuthile okujabulisayo nokujabulisayo noma, njengendawo lapho eqinisekile ukuthi "uyayithatha." Lapha, into esemqoka ukubeka kahle emashalofini bese uchazela ingane yonke "pluses" kanye "minuses" kokuhlala kwakhe esikoleni nokuthi kungani edinga khona nhlobo.
Ngendlela, isihloko esiyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kwengane yile ncwadi. Ngakho-ke, kusukela eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, abazali kudingeka bahlakulele isandla somntwana ngokubhala izincwadi kanye namanye amagama kubo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyoba kuhle uma umntwana eqala ukukhasa noma ukuqoqa amaphethini ahlukene noma izibalo ezivela kumklami okhethekile. Kodwa kungcono ukuqala ukufunda ingane kusukela eminyakeni emine kuya kwemihlanu.
Ubani ovuka ekuseni ...
Ukujwayela kokuqala kwengane empilweni entsha, okokuqala, kuhlobene nokukwazi ukuvuka ekuseni. Kubantwana abangazange baye enkulisa kusengaphambili, kunzima kakhulu ukujwayela umbuso omusha. Ngokujwayelekile basebenzisa ukuhlala bephuzile futhi bavele bavuke. Kulokhu, ukukhathaza ingane njalo ekuseni ngokumemeza: "Vuka, yisikhathi esikoleni! ", - akufanele neze. Zama ukuthenga iwashi ekhethiwe le-alamu yomntwana wakho futhi umfundise ukuthi angayisebenzisa kanjani. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuzosiza ingane ukuba ivumelane nesigqi esisha sokuphila.
Ngendlela, zama konke okusemandleni ukufundisa ingane yakho umqondo wemfanelo. Ngenxa yalokhu, mnike izabelo ezikhethekile "zabadala". Isibonelo, phuma ekamelweni lakho, uye esitolo ukuze uthole isinkwa. Ngokwenza lokhu, ingane kufanele iqaphele ngempela ukuthi esikhundleni salokhu othile ngeke akwenze. Uma ingane yakho ithatha isimo sengqondo sokuzibona ngalezi zinto, khona-ke iyophinde iphathe inqubo yokufunda yesikole.
Ukwenza izifundo ndawonye
Ukuze ingane ijwayele ukufundiswa ukuze ikwenze ngokushesha kakhulu, qiniseka ukuthi uyomsiza enze umsebenzi wakhe wesikole. Nakuba kulesi simo kukhona "kodwa". Yenza lokhu ukuze ingane ingaqali ukuvakashela umbono wokuthi uzosizwa impilo yakhe yonke.
Uma umqashi wakho wokuqala eletha i- "deuce" yokuqala, akufanele umjezise futhi uyisole. Vele ukhulume naye futhi uchaze ukuthi into esemqoka akuyona ukuhlola ngokwayo, kodwa ukukhuthazela kwayo. Ama-scandal engeziwe mayelana nomaka omubi angamshaya kalula ingane ngokulinganisela kwengqondo futhi amenze abe nexhala. Into esemqoka kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuthuthukisa ingane isifiso sokwazi nokuya esikoleni. Ngempela, kule ndaba, into esemqoka ayikho ukuphoqelela, kodwa nesifiso somfundi sokufunda.
Ukushintshwa kokuqala kokuqala kokuphila esikoleni kulula uma abazali be:
- ngokucophelela uphathe ilungelo lomntwana siqu lokwenza iphutha. Kulesi simo, ingane idinga ukuchaza ukuthi sonke "sifunda emaphutheni ethu" ngakho-ke akukho muntu ovikelekile kulokhu;
- bonisa umqambi wokuqala othembekile ekusebenzeni kwawo namakhono akhe. Lapha into eyinhloko ukuthi ingane iyazi isenzo ukuthi kunoma yisiphi isikhathi esinzima uzoyisekela. Ngomntwana oye waba noshintsho empilweni yakhe (waba ngumfana wesikole) lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane kufanele futhi ibale ngamakhono akhe namandla;
- ukufundisa ingane ukuba isinike isikhathi sayo ngokulinganisa futhi isebenzise amandla. Ukwenza lokhu, kuyadingeka ukuthi umqashi wokuqala enze isikhathi esikhethekile somsebenzi wesikole futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo abe nehora lamahhala lokuphumula nokuxhumana nabangani;
- Ungaphoqeleli umqambi wokuqala ngeendlela "ze-batoga" ukutadisha kahle noma ukuziphatha okuhle esikoleni. Khumbula ukuthi lokhu kufanele kwenzeke ngokuqaphela futhi kungaphazanyisi isigqi saso sokuphila nokuthula;
- yiba nesineke njalo, uphikelela futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo unomusa kumntanakho. Sibonga kahle isimo sakho sengqondo ngokuqondene nomuntu wokuqala, ukujwayela kwakhe esikoleni kuyoba ngokushesha kakhulu. Abazali kuphela abangasiza ingane yabo ukuba isinde noma yiziphi izinguquko nezinkinga empilweni yakhe.