Kungani wenze isimangalo? Okokuqala, ingane isimanga esingalindelekile - ingqikithi "eyengeziwe" yamathekisthi kanye nezinganekwane; umcabango wengane ucwaninga futhi uthola konke okungavamile empilweni, imfucumfucu kanye nokuzijabulisa ezihlekisayo kusiza ingane ukuba ihlakulele ingqondo, ibe nethonya elihle ekufuneni kwezingane, futhi ekugcineni, liphinde libonise ingane ukuthi umhlaba ugcwele okuhle nokukhanya. Futhi okwesibili, ukumangala "okuzenzela" kuzokukwenza usondelane nengane, kukusize ukwazi umhlaba wangaphakathi wengane. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngeshwa, abazali banamuhla bachitha isikhathi esincane nezingane zabo, ngakho-ke ninganikeli amahora ambalwa wenjabulo "ekumangala".
Yiqiniso, akusona imfihlo ukuthi ukumangala okungcono kakhulu kwengane kuyisipho. Ungakwazi nje ukufaka ithoyizi elisha - khona-ke ingane yakho iyojabula, kodwa ungathuthukisa injabulo yakhe (neyakho futhi) uma usondela ekunikisweni kwesipho ngokuhlakanipha. Kodwa lokhu kakade kumangala kwangempela.
"Izindaba zobuciko." Uma ingane yakho isakholelwa ekudalweni kwezilwane, ama-fairies no-Santa Claus, ukuzijabulisa okunjalo kuzomfanelana naye. Dala usuku lwezinganekwane ingane yakho: hlela izipho ezincane-izikhumbuzo, ama-candies ozithandayo wengane yakho, futhi usho ngokumangalisayo ukuthi lezi zipho zalethwa inganekwane. Ungase futhi uvele nemisebenzi elula ukuthi inganekwane ishiye ingane: ukwenza imisebenzi enjalo kumntanakho kuyothokoza, ngoba konke lokhu kwenzeka encwadini yezinganekwane! Into esemqoka lapha ukudala isimo sezinganekwane.
Kubantwana abadala, umdlalo wezingcingo zokuzingela. Lapho uhamba ehlathini noma epaki "ngengozi" thola ibalazwe lempahla. Kule mephu kungabelwa izabelo nemigqa eyokusiza ukuthi uthole umcebo. Imisebenzi ingahluka: zama ukusebenzisa izifundo zesikole. Izibonelo ezilula zezibalo (isibonelo, ukwengeza izinombolo nokuthola ukuthi zingaki izinyathelo ezivela emthini okufanele zenziwe ngaphambi komgwaqo onqwenelayo ebalazweni) noma ulwazi lokuqala lomlando wemvelo (sinquma ukuthi ukuphikisa lokhu kusenyakatho - lokhu kusengaphambili kuqaphele ukuthi umsila uvela eceleni "kwesokudla" somuthi). Ungabuye utshele ingane indaba emangalisayo mayelana nokuthi ubani futhi kungani angafihla le ngcebo. Noma ucabange ngomlando onjalo nengane: ngokushesha nje lapho uqala ukufuna ingcebo, ingane izojoyina ngokushesha umdlalo, futhi ukucabanga kwakhe ngeke kume.
Enye indlela yokwenza isipho ibe yinto ejabulisayo - isimangalo, ukudlala ku "Ibhokisi Elimnyama". Vumela ingane ukuqagela ukuthi uzokwenzani: isibonelo, ngokuvumelana nemibandela yomdlalo, i-kid izobuza imibuzo engaphendulwa kuphela "yebo" noma "cha." Noma ulungiselele kusengaphambili lezimfumbo, izimpendulo ezichaza isipho: umbala, ubukhulu, njll.
Indlela endala futhi efakazelwe ukuthi idlala "eshisayo nebandayo": ufihla isipho, futhi ingane iyayibheka "ekuphakamiseni" kwakho. Ukuze wenze kube mnandi ngokwengeziwe, ungafihla izipho ezincane ezimbalwa kuzo zonke izindlu, ngakho-ke umdlalo uzohlala isikhathi eside, okusho ukuthi kuyoba mnandi kakhulu kwengane nabazali.
Ukuzijabulisa okunjalo - izimangalo zihle kakhulu ngamaholidi abantwana, khona-ke ekufuneni isipho ingane yakho izosizwa yizingane zakhe - izingane ze-adventure enjalo ngeke zikhohlwe.
Kodwa akudingekile ukulinda "usuku olukhethekile" lokuhlela ukumangalelwa kwengane. Zama ukumane uhlehlise yonke ibhizinisi lakho usuku futhi uvuselele isikhathi somntwana, futhi uzoqonda ukuthi ingane ayikho injabulo enkulu kunokuba idlale nabazali bakho abathandekayo. Eqinisweni, into efanayo ingashiwo ngabazali ngokwabo!