Umama noma ubaba?
Uthathe umntwana esibhedlela. Lapho ukushaqeka kokuqala kudlulile, izinto zidilizwa futhi izinzwa azisekeli indima - abazali baqala ukujabulela impilo entsha ngamandla kanye nokuyinhloko. Into yokuqala evame ukubathandayo - ngubani obonakalayo kumntwana? Ubani amehlo? Umama nobaba ngokuvamile badonsa ingubo phezu kwabo. Ngempela, ngezinye izikhathi amehlo omntwana anesimo esihlukile somunye wabazali - kodwa akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi iso lomntwana kanye nomuntu omdala banokuhlukile. Uma kungenjalo ekubukeni, bese kusebenza - lokho kuyiqiniso!
Ungasheshi ukucacisa umbala wamehlo omntanakho - ungashintsha iminyaka emibili yokuqala yokuphila. Nakuba kwenzeka ukuthi ingane izalwe ngamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, umbala wayo uhlala ofanayo kulo lonke ukuphila kwakhe. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ungabona ukuthi ekuseni umthunzi weso usuhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, futhi kusihlwa ubonakala ubumnyama. Ungakhathazeki - lokhu kuyinto evamile, nakakhulu, izakhi zofuzo ezibhekene nombala omnyama wamehlo, zingabangela umzabalazo omude okhungathekile. Into eyinhloko - qaphela umfundi wezingane: umbala wayo kufanele ube ojulile, omnyama. Futhi i-eyelashes kufanele iqonde, ingeneke ngaphakathi. Uma ubona ukwehlukana kulezi zimiso - kungcono ukubona udokotela. Ngeke kube kubi nakakhulu.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane ibona okubi kunawe. Phela, usengabuthakathaka, umzimba wakhe uyaqhubeka uthuthuka, izitho zokuzwa nombono ziphuthukiswa isikhathi esithile. I-retina yeso ayijwayele imibala ekhanyayo yezwe elisha - kwakukhona njalo ukukhanya okujabulisayo esiswini ... Ngakho-ke amehlo omntwana kufanele "avuthiwe", ajwayele. Ngokuvamile i-retina ibhekwa ngokugcwele ngonyaka.
Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi zonke izingane zihlukile, ngabanye. Futhi ukwakheka kwezitho ezibukwayo kuzo kwenzeka ngezindlela ezahlukene. Othile osezinyangeni ezimbili uyakwazi ukubuka isikhathi eside ku-isibani esivuthayo, futhi umuntu unamandla okulungisa umbono kulezi zinyanga ezine kuphela. Kodwa-ke, odokotela bathi inqubo yokuthuthukiswa kwamehlo yengane igcwaliswe kuphela eneminyaka engu-15.
Lapho uneminyaka engama-6-10 amasonto ubudala ubudala, ungabheka i-strabismus encane enganeni yakho. Ukubukeka kwakhe kudlulela ezifundweni, kungaqiniseki, njengokungathi kuphazamisekile. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kuyinto evamile - kodwa kufanele ubukele ingane. Uma i-strabismus ingapheli emva kwesikhathi esishiwo ngenhla - njalo uthintane nochwepheshe. Uma ushiya leli bhizinisi ize - ingane yakho ingaba nezinkinga zemibono ngempela. Futhi emva kwakho konke kusiza ingane ukuba ikwazi umhlaba owuzungezile.
Izwe ngamehlo wengane esanda kuzalwa
Kodwa-ke, endaweni ethile emavikini angu-2-5 umntwana angase abe nesithakazelo ekukhanyeni okukhanyayo kwesibani - bese mhlawumbe, uzogcina umbono kule nto. Kubonakala sengathi ilungisa isibani emkhakheni wombono wawo, amehlo ayo azobukeka ehamba kancane.
Izinyanga ezimbili zizobonakala ngamakhono amasha wengane. Uzoqaphela ukuthi usengakwazi ukulandela ithoyizi elikhanyayo, ohamba kancane kancane ukusuka kolunye uhlangothi, futhi ibanga eliya ekutheni livele lihle kakhulu.
Ezinyangeni ezintathu umntwana wakho uzokwazi ukuma futhi alungise umbono wakhe ngento ethile emthandayo.
Lokho, umbono wangempela, njengabantu abadala, umntwana uqala ukuvela futhi athuthukise indawo ethile kusuka ezinyangeni ezimbili. Futhi okokuqala ukuthuthukiswa kuyashesha kakhulu: kubonakala sengathi isonto noma amabili edlule angafunda kuphela "izicucu" zezwe elizungezile: isibonelo, esifubeni somama esifudumele noma ubuso obunobungane bezihlobo, futhi manje uyakubona, uyamomotheka umlomo ongenamandla. Futhi yeka indlela enhle ukubona lokhu kuyinjabulo yakhe!
Ngendlela, i-oculists yezingane ithi zonke izingane ezivela ekuzalweni zibheke phambili. Kodwa-ke, omdala umntwana uba, "ukubona okude kakhulu" kukhishwa ".
Ukubukwa komzimba kufana nokuthuthukiswa kombono wengane yomntwana: uma ngaphambilini ebona yonke into emnyama neyomhlophe, kancane kancane impilo yakhe ihlotshiswe yizo zonke izinhlobo ze-rainbow. Iqiniso eliyaziwayo: ingane iqala ukuhlukanisa imibala phakathi kwezinyanga ezimbili no-6 - futhi lokhu kuyinhlangano evamile eyaziwayo. Umbala wokuqala ingane ubona ubomvu: kukhanya kakhulu futhi kuyahluka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, "abamukeli" be-eye bemibala ebomvu benziwa kuqala. Ngemva kwesikhashana ingane izokhetha imibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nohlaza kusuka ebomvu obomvu-omnyama-lokhu kwenzeka cishe cishe kwesigamu ngonyaka.
Iminyaka emithathu yisikhathi lapho umntwana kufanele akwazi ukuhlukanisa imibala eyisisekelo kuphela, kodwa futhi nezimpawu zabo eziyisisekelo. Nokho, lokhu akusho ukuthi umbono wakhe awusathuthuki. Ekugcineni iyoba "ustakanitsya" kuphela eminyakeni engu-15.
Ngokuqondene nokuma esikhaleni - ingane inzima kakhulu kunikezwa le sayensi, ikakhulukazi izinyanga ezingu-4. Futhi kuphela ukwakheka kwezinto okuthiwa "ukubamba" ukucabanga kwayo ukuthi yikuphi lapho kuvela khona nokuthi kude kangakanani. Okungukuthi, ubona ukuthi ingane inesithakazelo ekunciphiseni, idonsela isandla sayo into ekhanyayo nayo yonke amandla akhe, kodwa ulahlekelwa njalo. Yiqiniso, ngoba akanakulinganisa ibanga "ngeso"! Kodwa manje uzoba nethuba lokuzijwayeza. Okubaluleke kakhulu lapha kuyinkathi yokukhwabanisa kwengane - ngakho angakwazi ukufunda ukukala ibanga lesithakazelo ngokushesha kakhulu.
Ukuze amehlo omntwana anakekele futhi aqaphele ngokucophelela, hlambulula ngamanzi abilayo, usebenzisa i-tampon ehlukile kweso ngalinye. Futhi, yiqiniso, unakekele kusukela ku-TV!