IV trimester yokukhulelwa
Izinyanga ezintathu zokuqala komntwana ozelwe usana kuthiwa yi-trimester yesine yokukhulelwa. Ingane evela esibelethweni esincane futhi esiphuthumayo iwela ezweni elikhulu. Futhi udinga isikhathi sokuzijwayeza. Kukhona inkolelo yokuthi i-colic ezinganeni ziwuphawu lokushintshashintsha kwengqondo zabo ezimweni ezintsha. Kuyesabeka kancane ukuba uhlale yedwa futhi ungaboni ukushisa komdabu! Akasazi ukuthi angabonisa kanjani imizwa yakhe ngaphandle kokuthi angakhala kanjani ngokungahlali kahle ... Ngakho-ke, i-trimester yesine iqala ukuxhumana njalo nomntwana nomzimba womama. Futhi leli gama: "Musa ukufundisa ingane ezandleni" kulo mongo uzwakala ngisho nonya. Ungamnciphisa kanjani ingane ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe impilo yakhe yonke? Wayesetshenziselwa izinyathelo zikaMama, ukunyakaza kwakhe, iphunga lakhe ... Futhi nokuzamazama okuvamile. Isibeletho singumntwana wokuqala wokubeletha. Yingakho engathandi ukulala ngaphandle kokuba umama avume. Owesifazane osemncane ekunceliseni ibele angalala ngaphandle kokukhulula ingono emlonyeni wakhe. Yebo, umfana osebenzayo kufanele athuthe kancane, ukuze azizwe ephephile. Ukuphumelela, njengokugqoka ingane ezandleni zakhe, kusho ukungazikhohlisi izifiso zakhe, kodwa ukwanelisa esinye sezidingo eziyisisekelo zengane encane ezinyangeni ezintathu zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ekukhulumisaneni komama nengane kufanele kube nezikhathi lapho bezwa izinzwa ezifanayo. Khona-ke isisulu somama siqiniswa. Ngesikhathi sokuncelisa, umama nomntwana bahlobene nomzwelo owodwa. Lokhu akukwenzeki uma umntwana ephuza ingxube ebhodleleni. Futhi-ke ukugula okuhambayo okubangela ukuba umama nomntanami babe sezingeni elifanayo lokubambazela ... Ngendlela, izingane eziningi ekunceliseni ibele ziba nezikhathi lapho zilala kuphela ngesikhathi sokugqoka. Imvelo! Kodwa umbuzo uwukuthi, noma ngabe i-crumb ngeke isetshenziselwe ukunyakaza ukugula, ihlala. Umkhuba ubonisa ukuthi izingane ngokwazo zilahla umkhuba wabo ozithandayo njengoba uhlelo lwabo lwezinzwa lukhula. Ngokuvamile kaningi ngonyaka. Yebo, ngaphambi kokuqala kwesikhathi esinjalo, ukugula kwesisindo kuyasiza ngisho nalesi simiso sezinzwa kakhulu ukuba sikhule futhi sikhule.
• Umzimba wethu uphila ngokuvumelana nemithetho yesigqi. Ngezinye izikhathi, inhliziyo ishaya, ishintshe isigaba esisodwa sokulala. Futhi yisifo sokunyakaza esisiza ingane ukuba ishintshe isigqi, ukuvumelanisa ama-biorhythms obuchopho nomsebenzi wezitho zangaphakathi. Umntwana okhukhumezekile angavuka ngemva kwemizuzu engu-20, futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi akafinyelelanga isigaba sokulala okujulile. Futhi ukugula okuhambayo kuyathinta imisele yamagciwane ebuchosheni, kusiza i-crumb ukuba ilale kahle.
• Ukulinganisa ukuthungatha izitimela ukuxhumanisa isikhala futhi kukhulise amadivayisi we-vestibular wezingane. Ngokwezinga elithile, lize lilungiselele umntwana ukuhamba okuzimele.
• Ezandleni zomuntu omdala, ingane izwa ivikelwe ezweni elingesilo kuye. Futhi ngaphandle kokuhlangabezana nesidingo sokuphepha, ingane ibuhlungu kakhulu.
Ugogo ngokumelene ...
Imfundiso yeSoviet ifundeka: kuyadingeka ukondla izingane ngesimiso, ukuthatha izandla ngezandla kancane, ukubafundisa ukuba balele ebhodini, hhayi ukuzamazama ... Inhloso yale miyalelo yayikukhululwa kwesikhathi sikamama. Ikhefu lokubeletha lahlala ezinyangeni ezingu-4, bese umama kudingeka ukuba asebenze ... Futhi ngakho izingane zafundiswa "ukuzimela." Ngenhlanhla, izikhathi zishintshile ... kodwa izinkolelo zesidala esikhulile ziye zahlala. Ungaphikisani nogogo, vele uqonde ukuthi imibono emisiwe ngokuphila kunzima ukushintsha. Kungcono uchaze ukuthi kungani ingane ishaya futhi kungani ibaluleke kangaka. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi izingane eziningi zanamuhla azikwaziswa ukuthi zipompi. Iyini isizathu salokhu? Odokotela baqaphe ukuphepha kwezinsana. Kukhona amacala lapho abantwana bekhala ngenxa yobuhlungu obungokwenyama, futhi babethukunyiswa futhi bezamazama ... Ngakho-ke, bonke abazali kufanele bazi ukuthi ngaphansi kweziphi izimo i-carapace ayikwazi ukugubha. Lena akuyona indlela yokubeka umntwana ukuba alale, nakanjani. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi izinsana zingabali "ngaphandle kokulimala". Futhi uma i-crumb ingalali ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa ngemuva kokuba umama emgqoke, akafuni ukulala noma ukuguqula. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokumondla noma ukuguqula i-diaper yakhe ... Noma yimuphi umama owazi ukuthi angayithola kanjani izidingo zomntanakhe ngokuziqhenya, uyazi ukuthi kusukela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, umntwana ungumuntu onesifiso nesimo esiyingqayizivele. Futhi ukumiswa kwakhe umbuso kuye, ukukhuliswa ngesitayela "ingane kufanele ikhululeke" ngandlela-thile udlame olubhekiswe kumuntu. Ngakho thatha njengomthetho: awudingi ukufaka injini, kodwa ukuzamazama, okungukuthi, ukumsiza ukuba aqine, futhi angathuli. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ukugula okuhambayo kuyoletha umonakalo.
Kuphela ngokuthula!
Omncani akadingi ukuba agwedezeke, kodwa uzizwe sengathi unesisu somama. Futhi izinyanga ezingu-9, umama akazange ashukuthele kakhulu kangangokuthi i-carapace yakha umqondo wokuzamazama. Awukwazi ukuzamazama kakhulu ingane, ucabange ukuthi ukulala kuxhomeke emandleni nasezimpini. Yebo, umntwana angakwazi ukulala ngokushesha. Kodwa leli phupho lifana nokulahlekelwa kokuqonda. Ungasithwali umntwana esihlalweni sabakhubazekile emigwaqeni emincane noma emfucumfucu. Ukugula okunjalo akusizi ukuthi izixhobo zokugqoka zithuthuke, kodwa ziwuthulula kakhulu. Hamba izingoma noma izingoma zomculo, lapho uhlabelela ingane. Ungathembeli kuphela ukugula okuhambayo njengenxusa epholile. Ngaphandle kokuzwa okuthinta inhliziyo, ufuna ukuzwa izwi lakho lentandokazi neluthando. Ngakho uxhumana naye, msize athuthukise inkulumo nokucabanga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imibhalo ye-folk lullabies iqukethe umlayezo izingane ezifunde ngokungazi: "Uyakuthanda futhi ulungile, impilo inhle ..." Yingakho lesi siko ngaphambi kokulala kungenakulinganiswa nomntwana.