Owesifazane othandweni uyaqiniseka ukuthi imizwa yakhe ngeke idlule. Ukuthi uthanda ngempela indoda enhle kakhulu.
Kodwa, njengokudabukisayo, uthando alukwazi ukuhlala kuze kube phakade. Uthando lwesifazane lubuye lube nezinsuku ezahlukene zokuphela kwesikhathi.
Uthando lwabesifazane lusheshe kangakanani? Uthando lungase lube uthando lwangempela. Lokhu kwenzeka uma abantu ababili abanothando bebambisana kakhulu futhi behlukana ngempela komunye nomunye. Kodwa, njengomthetho, ukuwa othandweni kuphela ngokunyamalala okuphelele kwayo yonke imizwa emihle.
Ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi ubude besikhathi sothando luyiminyaka emibili. Kulokho, uthando lomuntu ludlula ngokushesha. Abesifazane bathandana futhi bazwa lo mzwa isikhathi eside.
Uthando lwabesifazane nobude balo buxhomeke ezimeni ezihlukahlukene. Isibonelo, uma intombazane isithandana nendoda ayinakuyifinyelela, isibonelo, kumuntu oshadile. Ukuthi imizwa yakhe ingahlala isikhathi eside kakhulu, kuze kube yilapho ama-glasses agcwele ama-rose awela phansi, futhi angagxili eqinisweni, noma kuze kube yilapho uthando lwakhe luba nomuzwa wokuthembela kulo muntu.
Uthando lwabesifazane aluphelelanga noma yikuphi ukuhlaziywa nokuzama. Umuntu angathembela emgqeni owodwa kuphela: "Indalo engavamile kunazo zonke uNkulunkulu owesifazane". Kulandela ukuthi uthando lwethu nobude balo luyimfihlakalo. Intombazane ingahle ithandane usuku lonke, ivuke ekuseni bese ucabanga ukuthi yonke imizwa yakhe imphupha nje. Futhi, angathola umuzwa wokuthandana konke ukuphila. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka lapho into yokudumisa ingatholakali intombazane. Uthandana nesithombe asungile.
Lapho uthando lwabesifazane ludlula. Futhi kwenzeka njengokungathi uhlaselwe kanzima ekhanda futhi, kuwe, ikhono lokubuka umhlaba nomuntu wakho ngamehlo angempela abuyisiwe. Ngokushesha uqala ukubona zonke izinkinga zomuntu wakho, ngezinye izikhathi, uqala ukumzonda ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho nomphefumulo wakho. Futhi ubani omele lokhu? Zonke izinsolo zilele kuphela intombazane. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, angizange ngisuse izibuko ezinemibala, futhi manje kufanele ngicabange futhi nginqume ukuthi ngingaphila. Lokhu kusebenza ezimweni lapho intombazane ethandanayo ishada khona futhi ibeletha ingane evela kulowo muntu engayithandi ngempela.
Uthando oludlulayo luletha umuzwa wokudumala. Othandanayo, lapho abantu bebodwa, bazonda omunye nomunye.
Uma okwamanje uthanda, ungacabangi ngeqiniso lokuthi ngokushesha imizwa yakho iyophela njengenqaba yesikhwama. Mhlawumbe, unethuba lokuhlangabezana nokuthanda kwakho kweqiniso. Uthando lunikeza ulwandle olunemizwa emihle, akufanele ulahlekelwe yi-nirvana nabathandekayo bakho kusengaphambili.
Uthando lwabesifazane lusheshe kangakanani? Akekho ozomnika imithetho eqondile. Uthando ngumdlalo wokuzikhohlisa, uma ungathandi umuntu wangempela, kodwa kuphela isithombe esiye sabheka emcabangweni wakho. Uma kufika isikhathi lapho amehlo akho evula khona, futhi ubheka umuntu wakho bese umyisa ukuthi ungubani ngempela, akekho ozokutshela. Kodwa, ungadikibali futhi ungapholi izithombe zekusasa elibi. Ngiyaphinda, kungenzeka ukuthi ukubuka umuntu kakade ngaphandle kwesihenqo sothando emehlweni akhe, uzomthanda ngaleyo ndlela. Kuyini empeleni.