Inkinga enkulu kubazali yinkathi yokujwayela ingane ibe nemibandela emisha. Ochwepheshe bahlukanisa izingane zibe ngamaqembu amathathu ukuze zilungiswe enkulisa. Izingane ezinezinkinga ze-neuropsychic kanye nezikhuhlane eziningi esikhathini sokuzivumelanisa ziphakathi kweqembu lokuqala. Izingane ezivame ukugula, kodwa azibonisi izimpawu ezibonakalayo zokukhathazeka ngokweqile, zifakwe eqenjini lesibili, futhi iqembu lesithathu liqukethe izingane ezivumelanisa ne-kindergarten ngaphandle kwezinkinga.
In the enkulisa baqala ukuthatha izingane eminyakeni eyodwa nengxenye, kodwa iminyaka efanele kakhulu eminyakeni 3. Nakuba kule nkathi yokuguqula isimo se-enkulisa akuyona esheshayo. Ubude bayo buphakathi nenyanga. Lapho ingane isanda kuqala ukuya enkulisa, ukungafuni ukuhamba, ukwesaba nokunye-okuqondakalayo. Yiqiniso, izimo zokuhlala esikhungweni semfundo esandulela isikole zihlukile ekhaya. Enkulisa engane engasekho phakathi kokunakekelwa, njengasekhaya, uthisha nomhlengikazi basakaza ngokulinganayo zonke izingane. Ingane ikwesaba isimo esisha, inqwaba yabantu abangajwayelekile futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukungabi khona komama othandekayo, eduze kwalokho ingane izwa ivikelwe khona. Lezi zimbangela zidala ukucindezeleka kwengqondo, okuvezwa ngokukhala.
Ukwenza isikhathi sokuguquguquka sibe buhlungu kakhulu futhi ngokushesha, ingane idinga ukulungiswa kusengaphambili. Ingane kufanele ijwayele ukuba khona enkulisa. Kungakanani ingane ezokwazi kangcono ukuthi yini okumele ilungiselelwe, okumele ilindele, kuxhomeke ekuzimeni kwengane ukuhlangana neqembu elisha, ngezimo ezintsha.
Ekuqaleni, uma kunokwenzeka, umama kufanele anciphise isikhathi esichitha nengane yakhe. Isibonelo, ukuhamba kuvumela ubaba kuphela ukuba ahambe, kaningi ukushiya ingane kanye nonogogo bese uhamba ngebhizinisi labo.
Kubuye kubalulekile ukutshela ingane nge-enkulisa njalo kaningi, ukunciphisa lapho, ukuze abe nomqondo ngakho.
Umbuso wosuku lomntwana, zama ukukusondeza kulokho, njengenkulisa, izinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokungeniswa kuwo.
Ukuze ingane isetshenziselwe ukuxhumana nabanye abantwana kanye nabantu abadala, khetha amapaki wezingane nezindawo zokudlala, zifana nezikhungo zezingane zokuthuthukisa imisebenzi. Zama ukuvakashela kaningi, ngamaholide, izinsuku zokuzalwa zabahlobo.
Zama ukujwayelana nomfundisi weqembu kusengaphambili bese utshela izimfanelo zomuntu wakho.
Awukwazi ukumnika ingane engadini ngemva kokudluliselwa, ngisho nokugula okungenabungozi. Kumele athole amandla, kungenjalo umthwalo omkhulu wokuguqula ungadala emiphumeleni enzima kakhulu ngokwempilo nangokwengqondo.
Ngemuva kokuthi ulethe ingane enkulisa futhi ushiye eyodwa, qiniseka ukuthi uyomnciphisa phansi, ethi uzobuya ngemuva kwesikhathi.
Ezinsukwini zakudala udinga ukuletha ingane ekuseni amahora angu-1,5-2, ngakho ezinyangeni zokuqala awuhambanga ngqo emsebenzini. Khona-ke ungashiya ukudla kwasekuseni nezinye izingane, emasontweni ambalwa ungazama ukuhamba ukuze uphumule. Imodi enjalo kancane kancane yokulutha umlutha ngokuvamile ayibangeli ingane ukuthi ibe yinto ecindezelayo.
Zama ukushiya ingane kalula futhi ngokushesha. Kungenjalo ukukhathazeka kwakho kungadluliselwa kwengane. Uma ingane ihluleka ukuhlukana nonina, uyise kufanele amthathe. Ukuvimbela ngokwengeziwe emadodeni kuningi, futhi ukuzwela kungaphansi kwalabo besifazane.
Ungakhetha kanye nomntwana ithoyizi yakho oyintandokazi, ezohamba naye nsuku zonke enkulisa futhi ujwayele lapho namanye amathoyizi. Futhi emva kwekhanda lokufundela, buza ithoyizi ukuthi kwenzekani kuye enkulisa, ohlangane naye futhi engumngane, owamcasula, ngabe wayenesizungu yini endlini. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuba ufunde ukuthi ingane ikwazi kanjani ukujwayela enkulisa.
Umphumela omuhle unganikezwa ukudlala enkulisa, lapho enye yezinto zokudlala izoba ingane. Bheka ukuthi lo mdlalo uzokwenzani futhi usho, ufundise kanye nengane ukwenza abangane nokuxazulula izinkinga zomntwana ngazo.
Kungase kuphakame isimo lapho ingane engafuni ukuya kumfundisi othile. Uma lokhu kuphindiwe nsuku zonke, zama ukuqonda ukuthi izimali zomntwana zilungile kangakanani-uthisha uyaphatha kahle ingane, ememeza futhi eqalekisa izingane. Uma kungenjalo, khuluma nomfundisi ngalokhu. Uthisha omuhle futhi ofanele kufanele azame ukuthola indlela yengane yakho. Uma emva kwesikhathi isimo singashintshi futhi ingane ingasafuni ukuya kulo mfundisi noma amagama omntwana aqinisekisiwe, bese uzama ukudlulisela ingane kwelinye iqembu. Ungavumeli ingane yakho ihlupheke futhi ikhulume nabantu abangathandeki, ngoba engadini ingane izochitha isikhathi esiningi.
Uma ngabe ingane iya enkulisa isikhathi eside, bese ngokuzumayo kungenjalo, hhayi ngokuthi yenqaba, bese uzama ukuthola isizathu salokhu. Mhlawumbe ingane ithukuthele noma ikhathele ukuvuka ekuseni kakhulu. Uma isizathu singathí sina, emva kwesikhathi esithile aphinde afune inkulisa.
Uma "ukungathandi" kwakhe engadini kwakhula isikhathi futhi waba yisifo esingapheli, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ensimini iyathukuthele, imisebenzi yakhe ayithandeki, noma izingane ngokuvamile azibandakanyi. Kulokhu, zama ukushintsha isimo ensimini, lapho ukhulume nenhloko ye-enkulisa, noma ufundise ingane ukuba izithokozise, makabe nayo imidlalo yakhe ayithandayo namathoyizi.
Kunoma yikuphi, ukushiya inkulisa kuyadingeka, uma:
- Ingane ivakashela insimu amaviki angaphezu kwama-4-6, kepha ayijwayele ukumelana ngenkuthalo ukuya khona;
- ukuziphatha kwengane kwaba yintukuthelo;
- Ukucindezeleka kwemizwa emntwaneni, ehambisana ne-enuresis, ukwesaba ebusuku, njll.
Ukubuka impilo yengane yakho, ukuziphatha kwayo kanye nemizwelo, ungaziphendulela umbuzo othi "Ingabe udinga ingadi", ngoba wazi ukuthi yini okufanele ukwenze uma ingane ingafuni ukuya enkulisa!