Uma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi ayikho indlela yokuphuma ekucindezelekeni, futhi izinkinga zengezwa futhi zengezwe, ngaphandle kokunikeza ukuphefumula mahhala, yisikhathi sokuthatha isinyathelo. UDeveli akasabeki kakhulu njengoba eqoshiwe, ukukhathazeka kwakho kwansuku zonke kanye nobunzima akusibi kakhulu futhi kungenasifo, njengoba ucabanga. Mhlawumbe, usanda nje ukhathele yibo.
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze, i-oddly enough, ukuhlela usuku lwakho ngendlela efanele. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kulula ukukwenza zonke izinto okudingeka uyenze okwesikhathi esithile, bhala ephepheni elibonisa isikhathi sokugcina saso sokubulawa. Khona-ke zonke lezi zimo zingahlukaniswa zibe yizinsuku zeviki, futhi ishidi lingaphoswa endaweni evelele - ngakho ngeke ukhohlwe nguyedwa wabo. Ukususwa kwezindaba ezenziwe ohlwini luthuthukisa isimo sengqondo futhi kunika i-vivacity. Phela, ukuphuma kwamacala kuyiloluhlu lwezinqola zakho!
Yile nhlangano yezindaba zakho nemisebenzi yakho engakusiza ekungabuthongeni, okuyinto engumngane ovamile we-blues nokucindezeleka. Ukungabi nesikhathi sokwenza lokhu noma lolo daba olubalulekile, sigijimela futhi siphenduke emicabangweni ebuhlungu. Silala ekuseni, esinomthelela omubi emzimbeni wethu wonke. Ukuvuka ngemva kobusuku obungenalo ubuthongo, asizizwa siphumule, sonke sihamba sisindo sonke usuku. Kanjani lapha ukungena ekucindezelekeni. Uma ukulala kungaphumeleli, kubalulekile ukulwa nalo ngezindlela ezinamandla kakhulu. Nansi iresiphi enkulu: umoya umoya ekamelweni lokulala, shaya umcamelo, cisha ukukhanya. Ebusuku kuyasiza ukuphuza ingilazi yobisi olufudumele nobusi, lesi sidlo sibeka ubuthongo obulile futhi obuqinile. Ungathatha futhi ukugeza okuphumuzayo ngaphambi kokulala kwakho ngamafutha abalulekile, ulalele umculo ophuthumayo, uphumule futhi uhlale uphansi.
Ngokuvamile siwela ekucindezelekeni okujulile, lapho into engasebenzi kithi. Sizama, sizama, kodwa akekho oyazisa imizamo yethu, akudingeki. Yiqiniso, indlela elula ukuphonsa izandla zakho futhi uziphendulele. Lapha kuwe nokucindezeleka. Kodwa isiphetho sabantu abaqinile ukulwa kuze kube sekugcineni, ukwenza konke okusemandleni futhi okungenakwenzeka, ukuze imizamo yabo ibonakale futhi ihlonishwe. Ungayeki, qhubeka uqhubeka phambili, khona-ke ukucindezeleka ngeke kube kubi kuwe. Ukuhluleka ukuthatha igazi elibandayo. Ukuhluleka kwakho kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi unamandla okuningi.
Funda ukusebenzisa ngokugcwele "izikhathi ezinokuthula", noma amaqembu amhlophe, njengoba kuzoba lula ukubiza le nkathi ejabulisayo, lapho zonke izinkinga zixazululwa futhi impilo ihle. Zinike isikhathi esithile kuwe nakubathandekayo bakho. Uma ukhathele, ekugcineni "ungenzi lutho", lokhu kuzoba ukuphumula okungcono kuwe. Gcoba ngokuthula nenjabulo ngaphambi kwezithiyo zokuphila ezilandelayo. Zitshele: Ngiyajabula ngalolu suku oluhle. Angazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngokulandelayo, kodwa injabulo yanamuhla izonginika amandla okuqhubeka nokuhlolwa okuqhubekayo ukuze ngibuye ngijabule ngokufanayo! "
Ungakhohlwa ngomqondo wamahlaya! Izinkinga eziningi zanyamalala ngaphandle kokulandelela, noma aziphazamisi amapulani akho uma uzibheka ngamahlaya, futhi njengokungathi ukuzihlaziya kuzixazulula. Ungaxhunywanga ebhizinisini nasezinkingeni, izwe elizungezile likhulu kunabo.
Ungakhumbuli isipiliyoni sakho esidlule esibuhlungu noma amaphutha adlule. Izazi zengqondo zihlale zeluleka abantu abacindezeleka ukuhlala namuhla futhi bazama ukuthatha kusukela manje konke okudingekayo ngenjabulo. Ungakhohlwa izinkinga zakho kuphela, kodwa futhi nezikhalazo oye wahlupheka ngazo, ukunqoba, izingxabano - konke okubi kufanelwe ukulahlwa. Futhi ungesabi umuntu noma wena ngokwakho ngezinkinga zesikhathi esizayo, ukwehluleka nokuhluleka. Lesi simo sokuphila esingalungile. Uzobe usuhle, uziphindisele ngokwakho njalo ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi kungcono kakhulu ukukhuluma ngalokhu hhayi esikhathini esizayo, kodwa okwamanje: Ngiyajabula!
Ngomunye umbusi kaSolomoni ohlakaniphileyo, le nkulumo ibhalwe: "Futhi kuyodlula." Yenza le nkulumo ibe ngumhlahlandlela wakho. Ukulwa nokucindezeleka, ngoba kukhona njalo indlela.