Wayekhathazeka lapho umtshela kubazali bakho nalapho uhlangana naye. Ube nobulili obukhulu, okwenza inhliziyo yakho ihlehlise lapho ukhumbula ngakho. Uma uhlala ndawonye, mhlawumbe ukhumbule ukuthi wenze izinto kanjani futhi uhlele indlu. Futhi emva kwesikhashana uyaqaphela ukuthi awunaso uthando olwalukhona ngaphambili, futhi uma efika ekhaya evela emsebenzini noma efundweni, utshela indlela akhathele ngayo, uthatha imizuzu emihlanu i-borsch ephekwe nguwe, owachitha isigamu sosuku, susa amasokisi bese uyalala kodwa ungaboni ngisho nesigqoko sakho esisha sokugqoka futhi ungakhathazeki ukuthi usuku lwakho luhambe kanjani. Uyakuncipha kancane futhi akuthinte, futhi uthi uyakuthanda, ukuthi konke kufana nokuqala. Uyakhathazeka, futhi uziphakamise ngokwakho, ukuthi wayeka ukuthanda, uhlela izigcawu zakhe, futhi ungaxabana, noma nje ushiye inkinga, ngaphandle kokuthola lutho. Uma umuntu engakunaki, ungakhathazeki - cishe, konke akukubi njengoba ucabanga.
Uyakudinga
Uyakuthanda ngempela, uma edla i-borsch yakho ngenjabulo futhi usesehlangene. Uma ungamthandi umfana, wayevele ekushiye. Mayelana nanoma iyiphi inzuzo yenkulumo ayikwazi ngisho nokuhamba-kuyinto evamile ukuba abesifazane bathole okufunwa ngazo zonke izindlela ezingenzeka futhi ezingenakwenzeka. Uma efika ekhaya ekhathele ngempela emva komsebenzi, umsebenzi wakho awukona nje ukupha futhi ukwanelise kuphela, kodwa futhi ukumlalela, ukuzisola, ukuzwelana nokudunyiswa ngalokho akuzama wena nakho ubudlelwano. Msize agxeke, ambeke embhedeni futhi aqhube ingubo. Ukwesaba ukubonakala sengathi "Mama"? Kulungile, ngoba abantu - izingane ezifanayo eziza ekhaya zifuna ukuzizwa zodwa zithandwa, zidinga ukunakekelwa nokuqonda, futhi ngubani, uma engeyona intombi, angaqonda lokhu ubuthakathaka babo. Umvuzo kuwe lokhu kuyoba yinhliziyo yakhe yangempela, okuzocabanga ukuthi uyamthanda ngendlela engekho omunye umuntu ongayithandayo.
Uthulile nje
Iqiniso lokuthi akasakunikezi izipho kodwa uzama ukusindisa ku-microwave yakho akusho ukuthi usehlile. Uthi uyakuthanda, futhi yilokho okufunayo. Vele uqonde ukuthi manje ususuke esikhathini "se-candy-bouquet", esibonisa ukuzilibazisa okulula nokuthanda. Kulesi sigaba sobuhlobo, leyo mizwa yenziwa ukuthi kuyoba isisekelo sokuphila kwakho kwesikhathi esizayo ndawonye: ukuzethemba, ukwethemba, isithakazelo, ukusondelana, njll. Ubuhlobo bakho buhleli, futhi manje uhlela ikusasa lakho langempela elihlangene, ukuthola indlela enengqondo yalokhu. Kuye, manje into eyinhloko akuyona into ethandekayo yokuzikhandla futhi akusiyo isimemezelo sothando njalo, usuyazi kakade ukuthi uyakuthanda, nokuthi lokhu kuhlangene. Futhi akadingi ukulalela njalo. Futhi une-contraindication yokumhlambalaza, ngoba lokhu kungalimaza ukuzethemba kwakhe nokuthi uyamqonda ngempela. Ungakujabulela yini uma ethi uyangabaza imizwa yakho? Ngakho esikhundleni sokumangalela ngokumangazayo kuye, uhle ukukhetha imodeli ye-microwave ndawonye, kukusiza kakhulu kunokuba ibhere le-teddy liphonswe ebhokisini elide.
Mhlawumbe nguwe?
Uma umuntu eyeka ukukunaka, bheka wena ohlangothini. Mhlawumbe, maduzane usuke ungenangqondo kakhulu, ufune futhi noma ugobe okuncane? Ngaphezu kobuhlobo odinga ukusebenza ngokuqhubekayo, kodwa yini oyitshala yona ngokuqondile? Amadoda awakwazi ukuma uma "ubuchopho". Uma kukhona okungahambisani nawe, zama ukukhuluma naye ngokuthula futhi ngokunethezeka, kodwa ukuze izimangalo zakho zingaphenduki. Mtshele ukuthi uyakuthanda uma ewanga, futhi ungamsoli ngokuba ngumuntu oshayayo, akasithandi futhi akafuni ukukuanga. Amadoda afanelekayo angaphuzi, angabethi, angabhemi, anike izimbali namadayimane, asebenze, agqoke, abuyele esikhwameni - alas, akekho. Kanye nabafazi abahle. Ngakho-ke ngiyaphinda - ngaphambi kokumsola, yibala.
Ukuzihlonipha kwakhe
Bheka eduze naye. Uma umuntu eyeka ukunakekelwa, uhamba ngezinsuku ezimbalwa ngokulandelana, efakwa ngaphakathi kuye, kufanele ukhulume naye ngomusa futhi uthole isizathu. Mhlawumbe unenkathazo ethile emsebenzini, noma ngeqembu, kodwa yena ngokwakhe akayikuvuma kuwe, ngoba uyinkosi yokudla, inhloko yomndeni nodonga lwakho lwamatshe. Kodwa ingabe lolu donga lungavuma kuwe ukuthi konke akusibushezi? Uthatha imisebenzi yakhe ngokungathí sina, kanti uma kungenjalo okungahambisani nomgomo wakhe, uyakhungatheka, kodwa akakwazi ukukutshela ngokukhululekile - ukuqhosha kwamadoda nokuziqhenya kwakhe akuvumeli. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma uhlangene, lokhu kuyinselelo yakho emphakathini kumuntu okungenani abazali bakho. Wazithembisa yena, futhi kubo, ngisho nangasese, ukuthi yini ezokunikeza wena kanye nawe, ukuthi usuvele uzimele futhi uvuthiwe, futhi uzokwazi ukukupha ukudlala. Ngisho noma usebenza, ezimweni eziningi lihlala liwumthombo oyinhloko wemali engenayo, yilokho obangela ukuchuma kanye nesimo. Futhi wena-ngenxa yomkhathi nenduduzo endlini. Chaza kuye - uma uhlangene, unenkinga evamile, futhi lokho ngokubili uzothola indlela yokuphuma. Lokhu kuzomvumela ukuba aphule kancane futhi akucabangi nje ukuthi ungumpheki nenkosikazi, kodwa futhi ungumngane weqiniso nomlingani weqiniso.
Ngezinye izikhathi sikhohlwe ukuthi ukugcina ubuhlobo kuwumsebenzi onzima, lapho ungayeka futhi uvele wenqabe. Mhlawumbe ngezinye izikhathi, sithandana nabantu abangalungile, ungabethembi labo nethemba labo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi isiphetho sinengxenye ezandleni zethu, udinga nje ukuba uqaphele labo abaseduze.