Ngakho-ke, isimo: lo mfana waphonsa, kodwa akanawo intombazane: kunezizathu eziningana zalokhu. Ukuzithola, udinga ukuhlaziya ngokuphelele ubuhlobo bakho muva nje. Awukho ngoba akushiye, ukuthi konke kwakumangalisa futhi kungenasici? Ake ucabange kanjalo-kodwa akufakazeli ukuthi insizwa yakho icabanga ngendlela efanayo.
Khumbula: mhlawumbe, eminyakeni yamuva, into eyamcasula kakhulu kuwe? Futhi awuzange unake, wavuka "e-pos" futhi wamemeza ngokuklabalaza ukuthi akaqondi lutho, kodwa awuhlosi ukushintsha noma yini? Cha, akudingekile ukukhala, akunjalo, akunjalo ngempela - kwanele nje ukuqhuma ama-scandals ukuze wenze umfana ekhathele ubuhlobo. Phela, amadoda adinga ukuthula nokuzwana, futhi thina besifazane kufanele sibe abahlakaniphile futhi sibanike okudingayo. Lokhu akukona ukuzinikela okugcwele nobugqila - lokhu kungukukhathazeka okungazizwa ngisho emehlweni. Kodwa-ke, lokhu kunakekelwa akufanele kube yinto eyodwa - futhi kuyaqondakala, lo mfana kufanele akhombise imizwa yakhe yesethenda. Phela, kwenzeka njalo ukuthi umuntu, ekutshele ngothando, njengokungathi ukhohlwa la magama amathathu alula futhi akakwazi ukuwakhumbula ngaphambi kwesenzakalo noma umcimbi obalulekile. Futhi akusilo ngalutho abakushoyo ukuthi abesifazane bathanda ngezindlebe zabo - kukhona iqiniso kulokhu, sidinga ukuzwa amazwi ngothando, kudingeka siqiniseke nsuku zonke - bese sizobe silungele ukuguqula izintaba ngenxa yendoda yethu ethandekayo! Ngisho noma izintaba zamasokisi angcolile ...
Uma uhlaziya isimo sakho futhi usuphethweni sokuthi kwakungekho neze amahlazo okuhlukumeza okwenzako, ngakho-ke kuhlukile. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi, lapho sinqobe inhliziyo yomuntu othandekayo, sinciphisa futhi sikhohlwe into esemqoka - ukuthi singabesifazane. Futhi uma ungakaze uhlangane nomfana uchithe amahora esibukweni, efuna ukwakheka okuhle nesembatho, manje ungakwazi ukuphuma esithende bese uya ezitsheni, ngisho nokuphonsa isikhwama sokuqhayisa ngaphandle kokubona. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi ukhohliwe ukugeza izinwele zakho - akukho lutho, lo mthandi uzokubekezelela futhi ngalesi sila esinamafutha - emva kwakho konke, wabona ukuthi ubuhle obungaba kanjani! Mhlawumbe lo mkhuba wokuziphatha uyiphutha kakhulu. Ikakhulukazi uma ubuhlobo bakho bungakabi isikhathi eside futhi bubi kakhulu. Mhlawumbe akufanele ukhohlwe ngawe nokubukeka kwakho? Emva kwakho konke, umfana angase abe nombono wakho njengentombazane enhle - futhi manje okwamanje akuhlonishwa kakhulu. Ngakho-ke cabanga: mhlawumbe uqale ngokwakho kangangokuthi umfana usuke ekhathele ngokwenza amaphuzu akhohlisayo ekuthungeni kwakho - futhi wanquma ukuthi esikhathini esizayo kuyoba kubi kakhulu? Awudingi ukuphenduka ube ngumama womkhaya ongenamakhelwane onamapulangwe angunaphakade ekhanda lakho ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Yiqiniso, lokhu sikwedlulele, kodwa okusobala kucacile ...
Izizathu ukuthi lo mfana ngokuzumayo wanquma ukuhlukana nawe, kungaba kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwakho konke okushiwo ngenhla, lapho icala lithinteka ikakhulukazi, abesifazane, kungase kube nezizathu ezibonakalayo kuphela kubantu. Ngempela, kungase kukupholile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kudabukisayo kangakanani. Ngisho nesifiso esinamandla kakhulu asikwazi ukukhula sibe uthando, kodwa kancane kancane siphelile, siphelile futhi siphelile - futhi ngezinye izikhathi akukho lutho olungaluthola, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kangakanani. Mhlawumbe isoka lakho liqaphele ukuthi uhlukile kakhulu, phakathi kobudlelwane bakho, ngokungazelelwe uthole ukuthi wena awunandi kakhulu, ukuthi ingxoxo yakho ayisekho ukugeleza okubushelelezi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kukhona igebe elicasulayo enkulumweni egcwele ukuthula okungaqondakali . Lesi yisibonakaliso sokuqala sokuthi ohlelweni lokuxhumana awuhambisani kahle.
Ngakho sichaza izizathu eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani ungashiya umfana, ngenkathi singakhulumi nenye intombazane. Okufanele ukwenze, indlela ongayenza ngayo nokuthi uziphathe kanjani - kungcono kuwe, ngokusekelwe ekutheni ungumlandu wezo zonke izifo, nokuthi ngabe ufuna ngempela ukuyeka wonke amandla akho nesikhathi sokugcina ubudlelwane obanikeze ukubonakala kwe-crack. Uma uzimisele ukuzidela, ungalindeli kuze kube yilapho kungenakugwema khona futhi amaqabunga omfana - kulula ukuvimbela isiphepho ngokwayo kunemiphumela yaso. Khona-ke awukwazi ukucela ukuthethelelwa. Yenza ngokushesha uma ubona uphawu oluyingozi, uphawu oluthi umfana wakho uphonse ngengozi, ngokushesha uphendule kulo bese uzama ukulinganisa isimo - futhi konke okuqinisekile kuzothuthuka!