Izinganekwane zakudala zesiGreki zithi unkulunkulukazi wempi ehlelekile, isu nokuhlakanipha u-Athenabyl wazalelwa nguyise uZeyus, futhi waphuma ngendlela engavamile kakhulu-ekhanda lakhe. Abadala nabo baphawula ukuthi ubaba ozayo wayezoba "ukhulelwe" ekhanda lakhe. Uma, eqinisweni, ukuqonda, indoda ihlale ihlaselwa umqondo wokuthi maduzane uzoba ngubaba, kepha abesifazane, kaningi, benqaba ukuyiqaphela.
Umthwalo wengqondo ohlukumeza owesifazane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ukhulu kangangokuthi indoda intuitively ithatha ingxenye yezinto ezenzekayo ukuze akwazi ukugxila ngokuphelele izinqubo zokuphila. Ezimweni ezinjalo, amadoda aziphatha ngendlela ehlukile, kodwa-ke, singakwazi ukubona izinhlobo eziningana zokuziphatha ezihlobene ngokuqondile nesimo sabo "esikhulelwe".
I-Psychotype yesilisa "ukukhulelwa" - I-Hermit
"UHermit" uzama ukungazinaki ukukhulelwa kowesifazane wakhe, uya emsebenzini ngekhanda lakhe, i-adoma ngenjabulo ichitha isikhathi ne-TV yakhe noma i-computer ayithandayo. Emndenini wakhe, kwakungokwesiko ukukholelwa ukuthi ukukhulelwa kuyisimo sokumiswa. Usabela kanjani kangcono kulokhu kuziphatha? Ngikhumbule ngokucophelela ukuthi "ukubhala" okushiya ngemuva kwakhe futhi ingane, ngaphandle kokuzalwa, isivele ibonisa izici zobuntu zikayise.
I-Psychotype yesilisa "ukukhulelwa" - Klusha
"Klusha" ukhathalela ngokweqile owesifazane wakhe, uzama ukumvikela ngisho nezenzakalo eziwusizo ekuthuthukiseni ingane. Ekuqaleni, owesifazane onjalo uyakuthanda lolu hlobo lokunakekelwa, kodwa uqala ukucasula. Ekupheleni kokukhulelwa, ukukhathazeka komyeni wakhe kwanda kangangokuthi kungaholela ngisho nasesifo. Umfazi kufanele abe isazi sezengqondo, futhi ngokubekezela futhi kalula uchaze indoda yakhe ukuthi ukukhulelwa kuyimvelo evamile yemvelo, futhi uqaphele isikhundla sakhe.
I-Psychotype yesilisa "ukukhulelwa" - Gulyaka
"Gulyak" ufuna ukuhamba kancane, mhlawumbe uphuza futhi akabonakali ekhaya. Ukwesaba ukuba "ngaphandle kwesihloko", ungabi namandla. Ukwesaba ukuthi akakwazi ukubhekana nendima kayise, uyamxosha ekhaya esuka emphakathini wabangane abaseduze. Kufanele ube nesineke, ngaleyondlela umyeni "uyathwala" ukukhulelwa kwakho. Isiqubulo esithi: "Qaphela, kusho ukuthi -zihlomile" - kufanelekile kule simo wena ngangokunokwenzeka.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiyiphi i-psychotype "yokukhulelwa" indoda yakho, kunezindlela ezijwayelekile - ukumqeqesha, ukumlungiselela esikhundleni sikababa. Amadoda ajwayelekile ngokwemvelo, ngakho-ke indoda ayivumelani ngokushesha ukuthi iqhaza nawe ekufundeni kokubeletha. Xoxa ngezifundo ezimnandi futhi ezithakazelisayo, ngakho-ke ufuna ukwazi kabanzi, bacele ukuba babambe futhi bangalindeli emgodini, kodwa ekilasini lapho amakilasi ehamba khona.
Ososayensi babiza lesi simo somuntu "isifo sozwela". Ikusasa likapapa lingashintsha ngisho namanani amahomoni wesilisa - ngokuvamile abasindile besilisa. Wena, njengomgcini we-hearth, kufanele ukhumbule lokhu kuze kube phakade. Kuphela ngale ndlela uzokwazi ukugcina ubudlelwane obethembayo nomyeni wakho futhi ukwazi kangcono.
Jabulela!