Imindeni engaphelele ibhekene nezinkinga eziningi. Ngokuyinhloko, lokhu kuyinkinga yempahla, ngoba endaweni yabazali bobabili umndeni uphoqeleka ukuba unikeze ngezinto ezibonakalayo kuphela umama. Izingane zizwela kakhulu umahluko emcebweni wezinto ezibonakalayo zomndeni ngaphambi nangemva kokuhlukanisa, futhi kunzima ngokwanele ukubhekana nale nkinga, ukubona ukuthi ezinye izingane ezisemindenini ephelele zingcono kangakanani kunabo. Lokhu kuthinta kabi emqondweni wengane yengane, okwenza umzwelo ube nomona.
Sekuyisikhathi eside odokotela bezingane beqaphela ukuthi izingane ezikhuliswe emindeni engumzali oyedwa zivame ukugula ngezifo ezinzima nezihlala njalo. Okokuqala, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi umama uphoqeleka ukuba asebenze kanzima, anakekele isimo sezimali somndeni, abeke eceleni ukunakekela impilo yezingane ngemuva. Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi ziphakathi kwalabo abakhulela emndenini ongaphelele ukuthi ngokuvamile kuvumelana nemikhuba emibi, kanye nokuhleleka okuphezulu kokufa ebudloveni. Lokhu kungenxa yokuntuleka kokulawulwa ngumzali. Ngemva kwesehlukaniso, izingane zithukuthelela abazali babo, ziqala ukuzibeka icala ngenxa yesehlukaniso, zizizwa zizizwa zodwa futhi zikhathazeka. Konke lokhu, okuholela ekunciphiseni ukusebenza kwesikole, ezinkingeni zokuxhumana nabangane. Njengoba sibona izinkinga eziningi zezingane emindenini engabodwa, zifuna imfundo ehlakaniphile yengqondo.
Ukufundiswa kwengqondo kwabantwana emndenini ongaphelele kufanele kuhloswe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane emndenini onjalo ayizizwa ingathandwa futhi inesizungu. Izingane zihlale zizwela kakhulu uthando nokuthandana. Futhi umzali onesizungu okhulisa izingane kufanele akhumbule lokhu njalo. Azikho izipho ezizothatha indawo yokukhulumisana kwengane nomama, ama-caresses nokuqonda kwakhe. Ukufundiswa kwengqondo kwabantwana emndenini ongaphelele nakho kunikeza umehluko emfundweni yabantwana bezocansi ezahlukene. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, umfana, oshiya ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa nomama wakhe, akufanele abe nomuzwa wokuthi ugcinwe ngokweqile, kungenjalo umuntu uzokhulela kuye, engakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezizimele nokuthembela kakhulu kowesifazane. Intombazane eyashiywe ngaphandle kukayise kayifuni ukusola uyise ngokushada, kungenjalo iyobe isolisa kubo bonke abantu empilweni yakhe esikhathini esizayo. Imfundo efanele engokwengqondo yezingane emndenini ongaphelele ivame ukuvinjelwa isimo somthetho womzali. Umzali onjalo uyabheka imfundo efanele ukuba ilawulwe ngokuqinile ekuphatheni kwengane yakhe.
Umntwana ukhula esatshiswa, ehlushwa futhi kamuva ube nezinkinga ezingokwengqondo nezinye izingane ensimini noma esikoleni. Imfundo efanele yengqondo yabantwana emndenini ongaphelele nayo ingalimazwa ngenye indlela yokubeletha - ukungabakhathaleli kwabazali nokuntuleka kokulawula izingane. Umzali uvumela yonke into ukuba ihambe yodwa, futhi uma izingane zingalawuleki, zihlale zithola izaba kubo. Imfundo yengqondo yabantwana emndenini ongaphelele akufanele ivumele ukwakheka esimweni somntwana weziphambeko ezibangelwa ukungabikho komunye wabazali. Okokuqala, ingane kufanele ihlonishwe ngomuntu. Umama, ukukhulisa izingane, okokuqala kufanele athole igunya lezingane ngokusebenzisa isibonelo sokuziphatha kwakhe nendlela yokuphila. Ukuzikhethela kwengqondo kwengane ukuthi ukulingisa kokubili okuhle nokubi futhi njalo uzimisele ukulandela izibonelo zokuziphatha, hhayi izimfundiso zokuziphatha. Yingakho lapho imfundo yengqondo yengane emndenini ongaphelele ibaluleke kakhulu ekuqapheleni njalo umama (ubaba) ngokuziphatha kwabo nezenzo zabo. Umama, ukuze athole igunya elivela ezinganeni, kumele ahloniphe abantu ababazungezile futhi ahloniphe abazali bawo.
Kufanele alungele njalo ukusiza abantu abaseduze abadinga usizo. Ukufundiswa kwengqondo kwezingane emndenini ongaphelele nakho kusho ukuthi izingane zihlale zihlonipha labo abakulungele ukubalalela nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, ukuqonda nokuza. Ngakho-ke, imfundo yengqondo yabantwana emndenini ongaphelele kufanele inikezwe ukubaluleka okubaluleke kakhulu. Kuphela ngale ndlela, uma engekho omunye wabazali, izingane zithola imfundo egcwele futhi zibe ngabantu abadala, ezinhle kuzo zonke izici.