Amantombazane angashadile avame ukuphupha ukuthi usuku luzofika lapho isikhulu sehhashi elimhlophe (noma embi kunazo zonke, umbhizinisisi omnyama waseMercedes) uzovela ngemuva kwabo, anikele ngesandla sakhe nangenhliziyo futhi amyise embusweni wakhe lapho kungekho khona izinkinga nezinkinga. Kodwa ungayithola kanjani le ndoda enhle kakhulu futhi ekhangayo emhlabeni, uma singazi ukuthi singazi kanjani?
Futhi bheka ngokushesha ukhumbule i-anecdote lapho kusihlwa uMoshashazhdy ebuza uNkulunkulu ngokuwina i-lottery, ekugcineni ephendula ukuthi kuyoba kuhle ukuqala ithikithi le-lottery. Isiphetho esivela kule nhlamba, lapho ihlaya kuphela, kufanele kube kanje: uma ufuna ukudoba inhlanzi enkulu, lungiselela ngaphambi kwegeyimu ezidingekayo.
Kuhle ukukuhlangabeza
Amantombazane yanamuhla, nakuba enenjabulo ebonakalayo, egqoka amabhulukwe namabhabhu amadoda, ahlaziswa yihlelo eligcwele lokusebenzisa izinzuzo zokulingana ezinikeza zona. Ngakho, ukuze uhlangane ngempumelelo namadoda, yenza abangane abaningi, awudingi ukwesaba futhi uhambe nabo kuqala. Khumbula, manje akusona isikhathi lapho uzolahlwa khona ngezenzo ezisebenzayo.
Lapho ungazi khona
Kungenzeka ukuthi uzothola uthando lwakho emetro noma emakethe, ukhethe inyama ye-shish kebabs, kusadingeka ukhumbule ukuthi kufanele ubheke isigamu sesibili ezindaweni ezijwayele kakhulu kuwe. Ingabe ufunda isayensi, uchithe izinsuku zakho emitatsheni ekhethekile, uvame ukuya emininingeni nezinkomfa? Yebo, akukho okulula kunokuba ulungele ukwazi umuntu oyithandayo nokuphelelwa yisikhathi kungaphenduka ukuze uzithole ozakwabo noma nje othandweni ngento eyodwa abantu. Kuzo zonke izimpelasonto ukuchitha kuma-nightclub? Nalapha futhi, kunabantu abanele kakhulu ongakuthola nabo.
Ngakho izindawo ezithandwa kakhulu ukuhlangabezana nazo ziyizikhungo zomphakathi, okungukuthi, iminyuziyamu, imitapo yolwazi, izindawo zekhonsathi, izikhungo zokubukisa, amabhishi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi unesimo sensimu engaziwa, lapho ungaxhumana khona ngokuhlelekile.
Hlela futhi uhlele
Uma usuqume ukuthi ingabe ingxenye yakho yesibili engase ibe khona, kufanelekile ucabange ukuthi uzothola kanjani ingxoxo nokuthi uzoxoxa ngani emaminithini ambalwa okuqala.
Uma uhlelo lokuthandana oluzimele alukho nhlobo, zama ukuthola okuvamile nomuntu oyithandayo-mhlawumbe, bayoba wand-zashchalochkoy yakho. Kodwa-ke, ezimweni ezinjalo, kungcono ukuzibheka, ngaphandle kwalokho kungase kuvele ukuthi umfokazi omuhle uzoholwa umngane wakho omkhulu. Ngokwemvelo, kulokhu, uzohlala ungenalutho. Kodwa noma ngabe ususele usizo lwabangaphandle ukuze uthole ulwazi, landela lokho ukwakha ukuxhumana okwengeziwe ngokwakho.
Yini onayo ngokufanayo?
Ukuze uthole isithakazelo kumngane omusha, kuyadingeka ukuthola isihloko esijwayelekile engxoxweni. Uma uhlangana embukisweni, ungaxoxisana ngemisebenzi evezwe ekubukiselweni, ebhishi noma endaweni yokuhlanzeka kuhle ukuxoxisana nabanye abanye. Uma ungeke ufike ngesihloko esithile, noma ubani ozokwenza.
Indlela enhle kakhulu yokuqala ojwayelene ngenkathi wenza lokhu ukufihla izinhloso zakho. Ngakho-ke, intombazane ingahle ilahle isikhwama sakhe, ikhube, isakaze amaphepha, futhi isikhulu sizojabula ngokunikela ngosizo lwakhe. Khumbula, amadoda afisa ukuzizwa njengamaqhawe futhi angadlala ngempumelelo kulokhu.
Kunzima? Ayikho into enomusa: kukhona imizwa eyanele nokuqiniseka ukuthi konke kuzovela. Futhi okuningi: khumbula ukuthi, obajwayele ngokwengeziwe, kulula ukuxhumana nabantu abasha.