Lesi isinyathelo esibi kakhulu esizoshintsha impilo yakho. Yiqiniso, kuzoba nezinkinga, kodwa ungakwazi ukubhekana nanoma yikuphi ubunzima.
Ungahambisana kanjani nabantu asebekhulile? Ungakugwema kanjani ukungqubuzana, ngaphandle kokushintsha isigqi sempilo yabo futhi ungavumeli abazali ukuba bashintshe kakhulu umbuso wabo? Khumbula, kungcono kuwe ukuthi unqume ukuthi ujabule kanjani ukuphila kwakho kanye nokuphila kwabazali bakho. Ukulandela imithetho embalwa elula echazwe ngezansi, ungakha ubuhlobo obuvamile emndenini omkhulu omusha.
Yakha ingaphakathi lokunethezeka
Ukuya ekugugeni ukucindezeleka kubazali. Kunzima kakhulu ukuba banqume ngesinyathelo esinzima kangaka. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bakwazi ukuzwa ekhaya. Kusobala ukuthi abazali kuzodingeka bahlukane nezinto eziningi ezithandekayo kubo, ezizungezile zonke izimpilo zabo. Umsebenzi wakho ukunikeza igumbi elihlukile futhi ulihlomise ukuze lihle futhi likhululekile. Qinisekisa ukubeka izinto ezibiza kakhulu kubazali ekamelweni, okuzobasiza bazizwe bekhululekile kakhulu.
Chaza ukuthi kungani udinga ushintsho
Ukubambisana ngokuvuselela akufanele ukuwavimbele, noma impilo yakho yangasese. Uma isimiso sosuku ngalunye sabazali bakho singakufanelekile ngempela kuwe, kufanele usichaze ngobumnene ngokubasusa, ubonise ukuthi kungani izinguquko zidingeka futhi uzama ukuthola ukuyekethisa okuzokwakhiwa wonke umuntu. Khumbula, izinguquko ezingalindelekile ngokungazelelwe zicindezela abantu asebekhulile asebekhulile, ngakho baphathe abazali bakho ukubekezela.
Ungazami ukufundisa abazali bakho.
Umuntu omdala angeke afundiswe, futhi kufanele uqonde lokhu. Awudingi ukufundisa asebekhulile. Yiqiniso, indlu ingeyakho, futhi usungula umyalelo. Kodwa uma ukuthula kwabazali bakho kuyithandekayo kuwe, ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukuthula, kunokuba uphazamiseke noma ufunge. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, zama ukukhuluma ngokujwayelekile kubaphenyi, kunokuba ufundise futhi ubonise ukunganeliseki kwabo ngokuqinile.
Abazali akufanele bazizwe benomthwalo
Ukuya ekhaya lezingane, abazali noma ukuqala ukuzwa umthwalo, ngoba bayaqonda ukuthi ukunyakaza kwabo ngandlela-thile kuvimbela inkululeko yezingane esele ikhulile futhi iphila ngokuphila kwayo. Ngakho-ke, abazali abavikelekile kakhulu futhi basengozini, baqala ukuba abangenangqondo nokucasula kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezincane, njengezingane ezincane.
Ungashintsha isimo. Nikeza abazali bakho ithuba lokuzizwa bebalulekile abantu abanenjongo. Kumele babone ukuthi bangasebenzisa abanye, futhi udinga usizo lwabo kanye nokuthi bangabakho. Vumela ukuba benze imisebenzi ethile, isibonelo, ukuya ezitolo, ukulungiselela ukudla, njll. Xhumana nabazali bakho kaningi, wabelane ngempumelelo yakho nabo, njengangaphambili. Ngisho noma iseluleko sabazali sibonakala singenangqondo kuwe, qiniseka ukuthi ulalele ngaphandle kokuzenza sengathi ngeke ucabangele amagama abo.
Nakani abazali bakho
Abazali asebekhulile badinga ukunakwa nokukhathalela. Khumbula, bakunike impilo futhi ubumnandi obuhle, ngakho-ke kufanele ubuyele kubo okungenani othandweni abanike lona.
Ukuphila okuhlangene nabazali kuyisinqumo esibalulekile esizokwenza inkambo yokuphila kwakho kwesikhathi esizayo. Funda ukubuka izinto ezinhle kuzo zonke izinto. Ukuthela komunye nomunye, futhi emndenini wakho omusha uyobusa ukuthula nokuhlonipha.