Wonke umuntu ufuna ukuvela njengoMuntu onenhlamvu enkulu, ngakho-ke, ohlakaniphe kakhulu, ohlakaniphile kakhulu, onokwethenjelwa kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu futhi okuyiyona enhle kunazo zonke. Owesifazane owamnika ithuba elinjalo ngeke akwazi ukunakwa. Ngokuvamile abantu abathandani ukuthi ungubani, kodwa ngubani ongakini. Yenzani ukuze eduze kwakho ubonakale sengathi unkulunkulu. Namuhla sizokhuluma ngezindlela ezi-10 eziphumelelayo zokunqoba inhliziyo yomuntu.
- Indoda kufanele ilalele ngokucophelela, okungcono ngaphandle kokuphazamisa. Kungcono ukulandela inkambo yenkomba futhi, ezindaweni ezifanele, ukugubha, ukugcoba nokugxila, ukulondoloza inkulumo enentshisekelo ebusweni. Hlanganisa engxoxweni bese ubonisa ukuhlakanipha kwakho akufanele, manje umsebenzi wethu ukukwenza ukuze ajabule ukuxhumana nawe. Futhi kufanele ikakhulukazi ukuxhumana. Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukuziphatha njenge-Chinese idiot, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu, akusizi ngalutho ukucabanga ngokucabanga endaweni ethile kude. Amaphuzu ambalwa ahlakaniphile azosiza imbangela, kodwa angasuswa. Noma kunjalo, noma yini abasitshele yona, abathandi abesifazane abahlakaniphile kakhulu.
- Khumbula, ngalesi sigaba ohlakaniphile nguye. Ungakhohlwa ukumtshela ngakho ngaso sonke isikhathi ngangokunokwenzeka. I-flattery ingaba nzima ngangokunokwenzeka, ngokuvamile abantu bakholelwa ngobuqotho ekuqedeni kwabo. Into kuphela - vumela izincomo zakho zibe okungenani ngandlela-thile ngendlela ehambisana ne-essence. Uma engaboni kahle, ungahlabeli izindumiso zokubukeka kwakhe-mhlawumbe ulinganisela ngokucacile le mingcele futhi akakholelwa i-penny. Ngineluleka ukuba ugxile ezimfanelweni zakhe zesilisa, ingqondo nesibindi. Njengomthetho, akekho ozoziphika injabulo yokukholelwa amazwi akho ukuthi ezindabeni zobuningi uyadlula bonke abafowabo.
- Mcele ukuthi akusize, ngoba uhlakaniphe kakhulu, unesibindi, futhi awukwazi ukuzivikela futhi awuhambisani neze nezinkinga zokuphila. Amadoda avame ukusiza nokuzwa imizwa yethando yabesifazane abangenasici. Ungamceli ukuba ambe imibhede embalwa noma athuthe iKhabhinethi enkulu, umthwalo ongokomzimba awukwazi ukumjabulisa. Khetha okuthile okuphephile, okungcono lokho akwenzayo. Mhlawumbe uyinhlakaniphi yekhompyutheni noma umsebenzisi oneminyaka ephakathi? Ake akusize ufake i-Photoshop futhi mhlawumbe uphinde unikeze izifundo ezimbalwa. Ayikho into esondelene nayo njengesikhathi esichitha isikhathi sokuzijabulisa.
- Ngakho uzitholele ukuzilibazisa okufana naye. Uthanda i-poker? Kumele ngifunde, futhi kungcono ngisho ukumcela ukuthi akufundise. Qoqa izinhlamvu zemali? Kakhulu, sekuyisikhathi eside uphuphe ekubeni ngumbalo we-numismatist. Funda izincwadi ezihlokweni, buza imibuzo embalwa, kodwa hhayi ehlakaniphile kakhulu, khetha into engathathi hlangothi ukuze ikwazi ukukhanyisa i-erudition. Ngcono nakakhulu, uma ukuzilibazisa kwakho okuvamile kuzoholela ekungcebelekeni okuhlangene. Into enhle ukuzingela ingcebo. Kuyathandeka kakhulu ukuhamba emvelweni ukucinga izinto zakudala. Ungenza imidlalo efanayo naye, uye ekamelweni elifanayo. Into esemqoka ukuthi wayengathandi ukudoba kweqhwa - hhayi ibhizinisi labesifazane ...
- Mnike inkonzo encane kodwa emnandi. Mhlawumbe uqoqa izitembu, kodwa unezinhlobo ezimbalwa ezingavamile? Ngokuqinisekile uzojabula ngesipho futhi umemeze ukudla kwasekuseni ukuze ubonge. Uma usebenza ndawonye, ​​ungayisekela ngokuziphatha kumklamo olandelayo, noma usize kancane emsebenzini. Kuphela akunjalo okufanele senze lo msebenzi kuye - umsebenzi wethu kuphela ukuthi ube khona ngesikhathi esifanele futhi unikeze ukwesekwa.
- Ngezinye izikhathi indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele ngempela esiswini. Zama ukuthola ukuthi yini oyithandayo isidlo futhi uyampheka. Awudingi ukubonisa ukunakwa kwakho ngokuvulekile, ungakwazi ukupheka bonke osebenza nabo noma abangane, uma uchitha isikhathi eqenjini elilodwa, ulandelele ukuthi akahlali eshiyiwe futhi waphawula ukuthi uyiphunga kanjani okumnandi. Ikakhulukazi, uma othile evela kubangani bakho eyobonga ngokukhululekile amathalenta akho e-culinary.
- Ukusebenza njalo kuyindlela ebizwa ngokuthi "isixuku sabalandeli." Owesifazane ohlakaniphile uyazi ukuthi azungeze kanjani nabalandeli abangenayo i-nonobtrusive noma okungenani akha ukulingiswa kwalesi sixuku. Amakholi ambalwa avela emadodeni ahlukene ebusweni bakhe, izimbali eziningana kanye nemisho embalwa esihlokweni, ehlelwa yizijwayele zakho ezivamile - futhi manje unedumela lomuntu ofunayo. Ngokuqinisekile uzokubuka ngamanye amehlo futhi cishe uzojoyina ukuzingelwa - ngemva kwakho konke, awuzange neze uqiniseke ukuthi uyona ongcono kakhulu. Ukusebenzisa le ndlela, into eyinhloko kufanele ibe ngokulinganisela - ngaphandle kwalokho umuntu angase anqikaze emabuthanweni akhe noma abe nesaba ukulahlekelwa esixukwini.
- Empi njengempi: ngaphambi kokuya ekuhlaselweni kwesitha, udinga ukulinganisa. Ngamanye amazwi, ukuthola ukuthi hlobo luni lwabesifazane ayithandayo? Mhlawumbe uyayithanda uhlobo lukaMarilyn Monroe, futhi wena umude, unobuncane obuncane? Kodwa lokhu akuyona inkinga - nje ukhohlwe ngama-jeans bese ubeka ingubo yebesifazane. Ukushintsha isithombe kuzomheha futhi kumnike ithuba lokukubona ngaphesheya. Yiba njalo ongenakuqondakala, ube yisibonelo sobuhle nobuhle. Indoda ngeke ihambe ngaphandle kokunakekelwa owesifazane ophumelelayo.
- Ungabi "isoka lakho," noma ngabe uwazi omunye nomunye iminyaka eminingi. Owesifazane kufanele abe yimfihlakalo, ake uhambisane nenhlawulo yemfihlakalo. Lokhu kunzima ukufezekisa uma ungabangane abakhulu, kodwa namanje ungakwazi. Balekela kulo, ngisho noma indlela yokujwayeza iphukile kancane. Ingabe uhlale ulungele ukuya naye kubha bese unobhiya? Shintsha indlela evamile - futhi mhlawumbe uzoqonda ukuthi ukhululekile kakhulu kuwe. Khona-ke, emhlanganweni olandelayo, gqoka ingubo enhle, futhi esikhundleni sebhayari, iya endaweni yokudlela ethokomele ukuze uchithe kusihlwa ngengilazi yewayini. Izinguquko ezinjalo ziqinisekile ukumjabulisa.
- Futhi ekugcineni, ungalokothi ulahlekelwe ithemba nokuhle. Amadoda athande abesifazane abanelisekile ngokuphila. Owesifazane onjalo ungemuva onokwethenjelwa kakhulu, uzohlala exhasa futhi esiza uzizwe njengomuntu wangempela.
Manje uyazi izindlela 10 eziphumelelayo zokunqoba inhliziyo yomuntu. Noma ngabe yini oyenzayo ukuze ubhekane nomuntu, khumbula ukuthi into esemqoka ukuhlala ungowesifazane wangempela, bese kuthi indoda yangempela iyoba eceleni kwakho.