Phila uLeonardo da Vinci esikhathini sethu, ngakho isithombe "Madonna and Child" ngokuqinisekileyo bekuyokwazi ukuthola i-laptop, iselula kanye nenqwaba yemibhalo. Iqiniso langempela linamandla kakhulu kangangokuthi abantu abanamandla amakhulu kuphela abangase babe khona ngesigqi salo. Phela, ngemuva kokubeletha, bafunda ukwenza konke kungakapheli amahora angu-24: kokubili ukuhlala nengane bese usebenzela ukwenza. Imfihlo ukuthi ngeke bachithe umzuzu owodwa wokuphila kwabo ngeze.
Ukufuna iphhini
Uma unqume nokuba ngumama osebenzayo, umbuzo wokuqala okufanele uthathe isinqumo: obani ozoshiya umntwana, ngenkathi usenkonzweni? Kunezinketho eziningi. Khetha okulungile.
Ugogo omkhulu
Izihlobo ezinjalo nabathandi, zilungele ukuchitha isikhathi sonke. Yebo, futhi okuhlangenwe nakho kwabazali bakho abanomdlandla, nakakhulu, bakukhuphula! Uma unquma ukwethemba umcebo wakho nabo, sitshele ngemibono yakho ekukhuliseni, ukwethulwa kokudla okuhambisanayo, umbuso. Chaza ukuthi awudingi ukunikeza ingane noma yiliphi ijusi (ngisho nokukhwabanisa ngisho nama-apula aqoqwe ensimini yakho). Ukuziqhenya: izinambuzane azilimazi uma zishintshwa njalo amahora amathathu. Ngikholelwa, ngeke ukhube umama wakho noma umkhwekazi wakho! Izinqumo nje mayelana nezingane kufanele zithathwe wena kuphela nomyeni wakho futhi akekho omunye umuntu.
I-NURSE
Izincomo ezinhle kakhulu nolwazi olwanele - hhayi lonke uhlu lwezidingo zomntwana. Into eyinhloko ukuthi uphatha ingane ngomphefumulo, wayazi indlela yokuthola indlela. Umsebenzi wabesifazane onomntwana kufanele usekelwe ekuqondeni kokubili, hhayi kuphela ekusebenzeni kwemisebenzi yabo yamanje. Bheka ngokucophelela ukuthi imvuthuluka yomuntu omusha ithatha kanjani. Ingabe ziyahlangana ngokumangalisayo phambi kwakho? Bese ushiya kubo isikhathi esingangehora nengxenye. Uma lokhu kuhlolwa kulungile, usuthole umuntu ofanele.
Ngekhefu lesidlo sasemini
Ungasebenza futhi ukondle. Kufanele ucabange ngokusebenzisa uhlelo. Ngakho-ke, uyaqeda ubisi ngaphambi kokuba ushiye umsebenzi. Futhi umntwana uyayiphuza ... nge spoon (noma kusuka ebhodleleni, lapho esikhundleni se-ingono - i-spoon).
Nokho, kukhona enye inketho. Ngesikhathi sokudla kwasemini, hambani nondle futhi nikhulume naye. Ingabe akunjalo? Khona-ke, thola umsebenzi emsebenzini bese udlulisela isikhwama esilindiwe sekhanda ekhaya. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, cela umfana noma ugogo ukuthi alethe umntwana ehhovisi. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu: ngenkathi ekhefu ukuze unakekele ingane, ungaxoshe ukuphasiswa kokuhlwa. Ziwusizo kokubili. Ungasho ukuthi kuhle kanjani!
Injabulo yonke imihlangano
Umama uya emsebenzini, umntwana usezandleni zika-nanny noma ugogo ohamba phambili. Isithombe sihle ... Kodwa asikho. Ngesikhathi sokuqala, mhlawumbe kuzokwenza. Kodwa konke kuzoshintsha. Ingane izokhala, ikubone. Futhi ukuhamba ngasese, phezu kwe-tiptoe ukuze angaboni, noma aphele, ngenkathi elele, akuyona indlela yokuphuma. Ngokuphambene nalokho, izenzo ezinjalo zizokwenza kuphela inkinga. I-crumb nje ngeke ifune ukukuvumela ukuba uhambe. Kuzokwesaba ukuthi ngelinye ilanga umama uzoshona phakade.
"Into enhle ongayenza ukuchaza omncane ukuthi kungani uye kuphi." Futhi phinda izikhathi eziningana ukuthi uzobuya ngokuqinisekile. Vumela ingane ingaqondi amagama, kodwa ukuzethemba kwezwi lakho kuzomqinisekisa ukuthi konke kuyoba kuhle.
- Tshela ingane yakho endala isikhathi lapho uzobuya khona. Njalo gcina izwi elinikezwe indodana noma indodakazi yakho.
- Yebo, kunzima ukuhlukana. Kodwa ungawubonisi obala, ungakhali, ungadabuki. Cabanga ngokuthi usuku luzohamba ngokushesha. Kusihlwa uzohlangana futhi uvumelane ngokuqinile.
Ngaphakathi komthetho
Manje awusona nje isisebenzi - nawe ungumama. Futhi abaphathi kumele bacabange ngalesi simo. Emsebenzini, owesifazane ekuphumeni komzali unelungelo lokuthola izinzuzo ezithile. Isibonelo, kwezinye izinkampani owesifazane unikezwe ukulahlwa kowesifazane ukuze abuyele ekhaya ukuze alungise ingane. Kodwa noma ngabe inhlangano yakho inganikeli izinzuzo ezinjalo, wena njengomama osemncane unamalungelo akhethekile ahlongozwe ngumthetho. Uvunyelwe ukuthatha ikhefu lesigamu samahora amahora amathathu (uma izingane zingamabili, khona-ke umthumeli). Ihhovisi eliseduze nendlu? Bese ukondla umntwana ngesicelo sokuqala. Usuku oluthile lokusebenza lubuye lube nelungelo lakho. Ungashiya umsebenzi ngaphambili: isigamu sehora - nsuku zonke noma amahora amabili nesigamu - ngoLwesihlanu (noma nanoma yiluphi olunye usuku).