Ngisemncane, ngenkathi ngisadlala izidakamizwa zeBarbie, ngigqoke uKen noBarbie wami izingubo zomshado, futhi ngaqala umkhosi. Kusuka kuma-dandelions, ngavula umcibisholo, ngaphansi kwawo kwakukhona i-altare, futhi e-altare ngatshala ibhere le-teddy, elaba ngumpristi. Futhi ngakho, nsuku zonke ngalungiselela imishado. Ngangifisa ukukhula ngokushesha, lokho kwakuzogqoke izingubo eziluhlaza okweqhwa, uye e-altare bese uthi "u-yebo" uyathandekayo. Angicabangi ukuthi bekuzoba yini ngaphambi nangemva komshado, ngicabanga ngengubo emhlophe ngendwangu. Futhi, mhlawumbe nentombazane ngayinye, abacabangi ukuthi kuyoba yini ngaphambi nangemva komshado, sonke sikhathazekile mayelana nenqubo yomshado: izingubo ezimhlophe ezimhlophe, ikhekhe elimnandi kakhulu, i-bouquet bridal, futhi-ke, izipho.
Wonke amantombazane kusukela ebuntwaneni amaphupho ukuthi uzoba nomshado omuhle kunazo zonke emhlabeni , ingubo enhle kunazo zonke kanye nomkhwenyana omuhle kunabo bonke, kodwa akukho mshado omuhle kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu, ayikho iphethini ehleliwe yomshado, okubhekwa njengento enhle kunazo zonke. Kuzo zonke futhi zonke igama elithi "elihle" lisho okuhlukile, futhi lihunyushwa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ngomunye umuntu ubheka kahle iminduze emhlophe, ehlelwe kuzo zonke izingxenye zehholo ledili, lapho kugubha khona umkhosi, futhi umuntu omhle yi-roses ebomvu, emilenzeni ende, emi emasosini amancane amancane. Wonke umuntu ukhetha ukunambitheka kwakhe, kodwa wonke umuntu unokuthanda okuhlukile. Omunye uthanda ukushintsha amasiko, futhi azimise izici zabo ezintsha, futhi kumuntu othile amasiko abaluleke kakhulu, futhi uyawahlonipha, futhi alandela yonke imithetho yesikhathi esedlule.
Indwangu emhlophe, isitimela eside, iveli ebonakalayo ekhanda eliphakeme, elilengekile, idayimani elikhulu emunwe wami, futhi ubaba uholela e-altare, lapho umyeni wesikhathi esizayo nomyeni wangempela balinde ngesineke. Akusilo yini isiko? Elinye igama elithi "yebo" liba ngumngcele empilweni entsha, empilweni, lapho kukhona indoda ethandekayo kanye nezinhlelo ezintsha zokuphila.
Indwangu ebomvu noma eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nesigqoke kakhulu, izinwele ezibomvu noma ezibomvu ziqoqwe esikhwameni esivamile, futhi kule nqwaba kukhona isikhwama esimnyama esimnyama, ukwakheka okukhanyayo, nokuphuma e-altare ngebhayisikili esendaweni ethile ogwini lolwandle. Ukhumbuza isithombe kusuka kumunye umagazini-umagazini. Ubani lokhu okuvelele kobuhle, okuphambene nazo zonke amasiko nemithetho, ukuzwakalisa abantu abakhethekile abangathandi wonke umuntu, ngoba kukhona emishadweni embalwa kulabo abathanda amanoveli ne-avant-garde.
Umshado ngumkhosi obaluleke kunazo zonke ekuphileni, hhayi usuku lokuzalwa hhayi iningi, lutho olungalinganiswa nalolu suku, ngakho-ke ngifuna konke kube kuhle. Futhi noma yikuphi emshadweni, zonke izifiso zakho nezifiso zakho kuzosisiza ukuba uqaphele abahleli bomishado - laba ngabantu abanakho konke okwenzelwe umshado, futhi umshado omuhle kunazo zonke unikezwa wena. Uzosiza ukuhlela iqembu le-bachelorette kanye neqembu lesipiliyoni, futhi uzohlela konke okukuyo. Ngeke ubone noma yikuphi ukucindezeleka, kodwa qaphela ukuthi amapokhethi akho akhishwe, kanti inkokhelo yezinyosi ingafakwa kuze kube unyaka, noma ngaphezulu, noma i-honeymoon ingase ihlehlele ezingeni "kwamanzi, ngendlala ushukela."
Ukuze uhlele umshado, udinga ukukhetha isonto leholidi, lapho uzobeka khona imizwa yakho phambi kukaNkulunkulu. Isonto elinamaqabunga ngamapulangwe namafasitela eglasi elimibalabala, elichaza abafel 'ukholo. Ingoma, okubili kokubili, kusho okuthile, hhayi imakethe ye-Mendelssohn enesithukuthezi. Emabhentshini ahlala eduze kwakho abantu, omunye ukhalela, omunye uyamamatheka ngamazinyo amathathu nambili futhi uyajabula. Wena ngombala omhlophe we-chic ukuhamba ngomculo womculo kumphepheni obomvu, ogcwele ama-rose amacembe amhlophe, futhi ngaphambi kwakho kukhona izingelosi ezincane, ufafaza indlela ngama-rose petals. Futhi ngaphambi kwakhe - ku-tuxedo omnyama, ukulinda ngesineke, futhi manje, ufinyelela e-altare futhi ubambe izandla, usho amazwi esifungo ukuthi wena ubhalele omunye nomunye. Khona-ke usuke uhamba nge-limousine emhlophe ngaphambi kokuqhubekela phambili kweholidi, lapho isimo esingakahlelekile futhi siphile ibandla. Kulapho unikezwa izipho nazo zonke izinkinobho futhi ufisa kuphela umsindo ekhelini lakho. Konke ukunakwa kwakho, lolu suku lungokwenu kokubili. Zonke izitshalo ezizungezile, futhi ziyaqhakaza, izimbali zishaywa nxazonke, futhi amakhandlela ashisa, ekwakheni isimiso somlingo. Umculo othulile, ukugqabisa kwezibuko, izingcingo ze-champagne, ne-rumble of fun nokujabula. Umthwebuli wezithombe uzokuchofoza kuzo zonke izinhlangothi, futhi kusukela kulokhu uzizwa njengenkanyezi yaseHollywood, opharetha uthatha konke okushiwo, urekhoda yonke into oyishoyo. Akuyona yini umshado omuhle kunayo yonke emhlabeni, uma uzizwa unkulunkulukazi, indlovukazi yenqoba, ngakho-ke, wena uyintombazane enhle kunazo zonke emini nangobusuku, ngoba akukho nto efana nentombazane eyingubo yomshado ehlanzekile. Ngakho kwakukhona isiko.
Futhi, kubonakala sengathi, ngenxa yezikhathi ezinjalo kuwufanelekile ukuphila, ngabe yini ozoyikhumbuza konke lokhu, futhi ujabule ngokuthi uphile ngalezi zikhathi nalomuntu ohlala eceleni kwakho futhi ufunde iphephandaba. Futhi wena ngaphakathi kwakho ujabule ngalokhu nsuku zonke, iminyaka eminingi, futhi konke, kubonakala sengathi kwakunguzolo izolo.