Ake siqale ngento enkulu: khohlwa mayelana nezinombolo epasipoti yakho! Isikhathi semvelo asibaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Uma lo mlingani encane kunakho iminyaka emithathu noma ngaphezulu, awuwedwa. Ngokwezibalo zomhlaba, ingxenye yesine yabesifazane ikhetha amadoda amancane kunabo.
Inhlanganisela ephumelelayo.
Ngenxa yokuthi usemncane kakhulu, kunama-pluses amaningi.
1. "Owesifazane iminyaka eminingi njengomthandi wakhe," - kusho isiFulentshi. Futhi kunjalo ngokuphelele. Uma uchitha isikhathi nomngani osemusha, izinqubo zokuguqulwa okuhlobene nomdala emzimbeni wakho ziyashesha.
2. Ngobulili unobunye obuningi: owesifazane uyaqaphela ukunambitheka kwangempela kothando iminyaka engama-30-35, kanti amadoda iminyaka engu-21-25 anesisindo sobulili besilisa.
3. Olunye uhlangothi oluhle - ungaluqonda kalula. Manje usuvele wazi kahle ukuthi ulindeni empilweni nokuthi yini oyithandayo ofuna ukuyibona eduze kwakho. Ngakho akudingeki alalele "ukucwaninga komphefumulo wakho" futhi ulungise ukuguquguquka kwemizwelo. Ngendlela, amadoda ayesaba lokhu njengomlilo.
4. Ekugcineni, ubusha bakhe luyisisusa esihle sokukhula kwakho. Umsebenzi omusha wezemfundo, enye imfundo ephakeme, ukuzilibazisa okungavamile, ukuzalwa kwengane - konke lokhu kuyatholakala uma kunomlingani osebenzayo, oqinile futhi ogcwele.
Ngenisa ukucaca.
Ukuze uthando lwakho lukhule, kuqala uzibuze: Kungani ngidinga lo muntu? Yilungiselele ubunzima obungabhekana nazo.
- Ungaba nemizwa exubene, yothando ngomama futhi ungayiqapheli, uqaphe futhi ubeke "umfana" wakho. Amanye amadoda, ukukhetha abesifazane abadala abadala, uhlale izingane kuze kube yizinwele ezimhlophe. Ingabe udinga umthwalo wempilo yonke impilo yakhe?
- Angeke abonise isisekelo esiqinile sezinto ezibonakalayo: imoto, indlu yakhe, umsebenzi omuhle. Osemncane kunawe, othandekayo angase angakulungeli ukuvela kwezingane. Ngakho-ke, uma udinga ngempela lo muntu, kufanelekile ukukhuluma naye ngokukhululekile mayelana nayo yonke into ejabulisayo yokuphila kwesikhathi.
- Futhi elinye iphuzu elibucayi, kodwa elibaluleke kakhulu: akufanele neze uphelelwe udade wakho othandekayo. Khumbula lokhu! Emandleni akho ukuphunyuka kusuka enkathini yakho, kufanele ubhekane nokubukeka kwakho nsuku zonke, ungabi nobuvila.
Imiyalo emihlanu kuwe.
Qaphela imithetho embalwa elula, uma ufuna ukulondoloza lobu buhlobo. Uma uxabisa umshado wakho ongalingani: umuntu usemncane - ungabi "umama."
1. Ungabi nomhawu.
Noma ngabe yikuphi uhlobo lokubheka elahla emathunjini amancane, wakhetha wena. Futhi kuyoba nawe, uma ungamshayeli ucansi ngesikhwele nangokuhlambalaza.
2. Ungalindi.
Ngandlela-thile waphila iminyaka engu-22 (noma ngaphezulu) ngaphandle kokunakekelwa kwakho okubucayi. Ungambheki edolobheni, uma ethi uzophuza.
3. Ungabheki imali.
Ngisho noma ngabe umfundi useyintandokazi, kumele abambe iqhaza ezindlini ezivamile. Vumela amasheya angalingani. Uzoxazulula izinkinga zezezimali uqobo - uzokhula i-gigolo.
4. Ungakhathazeki.
Uma unamehlo ovuthayo, ke uyini umehluko, uneminyaka emingaki? Ngendlela, abangani bakhe akudingeki bazi kahle ukuthi yini ebhaliwe epasipoti yakho - ukhuluma ulimi olufanayo nabo. Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi bakhononda ngemuva kwakho. Zama ukuhlala unemvelo nobungane. Zibukele: isibalo nesikhumba kufanele zilungiswe kahle. Thatha i-cosmetics eyinkimbinkimbi enhle futhi wenze inothi kwi-yoga nasechibini.
5. Ungaphikisani nabazali bakhe.
Mhlawumbe ngeke bavume ukukhetha komfana wabo. Kodwa akufanele umlwele. Ohlala naye, ukhetha, hhayi ubaba nonina. Ukuziphatha nobude kuzokusiza ukuba ubeke phambili.
Ubuhle be-Hollywood bukhetha ngokuzithandela amadoda amancane kunabo.
Lapho uSusan Sarandon ehlangana noTim Robbins, uneminyaka engu-41 ubudala, uneminyaka engu-29. Lokhu akuzange kuvimbele leveli, isipiliyoni sempilo yabo ndawonye iminyaka engu-19. Manje lo mbhangqwana ukhonjiswe njengesibonelo se "asterisk" ezingenangqondo.
Ukumamatheka uCameron Diaz ukhetha amantombazane amancane. Ubuhlobo obumnene nomculi uJustin Timberlake, oneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye emncane kunalo, uphazamise unina. Ngomngane omusha, u-Rocker John Mayer, akuyona umehluko onjalo eminyakeni - cabanga, eminyakeni emihlanu!
Owesifazane owatshela wonke umhlaba mayelana nezinhlekelele zezintombi ezine edolobheni elikhulu nje akanalo ilungelo lokuba yinkimbinkimbi ngeminyaka yakhe! UCandace Bushnell ubheka okuhle: akekho ozoqagela ukuthi usemdala kunomyeni wakhe, udansa uCharles Asgard, iminyaka eyishumi.