"Ngiyakuthanda kakhulu, kodwa ukuhleleka ..."
Ukuhamba ngezinyathelo zothando, ngokuqinisekile awukubonanga lokho kubo bonke abangane-intombazane ositshela ukuthi ushadile, futhi (ngesikhathi esifanayo) uzibheka ngokuphelele! Kodwa usenxusa ukuthi uyeke umsebenzi wakho futhi uhlale ekhaya nomntanakho ovamile, ngubani ngesizathu esithile engabhalwanga kwisitifiketi sokuzalwa esipapa?
Futhi-ke le ndoda enkulu yomphakathi yathi ungobo bezinwele zezinwele, futhi unobhala wakhe usemncinyane, omuhle futhi ufisa! Wabe uqaphela ukuthi umshado womphakathi - adventure yakho enkulu empilweni, futhi emva - ucabanga ngombuzo - ungabalekela kanjani kumyeni womphakathi.
Ukushiya umyeni womphakathi kungcono kancane. Ngokungazelelwe umyeni wakho wendabuko uhlose ukunciphisa ehhovisi lokubhalisa, ukwamukela ingane, futhi uhlele ama-scandals, ngoba ngezinkinga zomsebenzi? Futhi wazamazama, futhi wanquma ukuthi wanquma ukuphula zonke ubudlelwane. Cha? Uzimisele ngokuqinisekile ukuthi awukho into efanayo, futhi uzimisele ngempela ukusabalalisa? Zama ngokuthula futhi uxoxe ngokuthula ngalesi sihloko nomyeni wakho. Wavuma nawe? Bese ubuza umyeni wakho ukuba ahambe emhlabeni: uyavuma ukuhlanganyela nawe isikhala esiphezulu futhi akhokhe ingane yakho evamile? Cha?
Khona-ke cabanga kuqala lapho wena (nengane yakho, uma unina) uhlala khona? Uma umyeni womphakathi ehlezi endlini yakho futhi engabhaliswanga kuyo - ukuyiveza ngezikhwama ngeke kube nzima. Uma uhlezi endlini yakho futhi ukwazi ukubhalisa - uzodinga ukusola ukukhishwa. Uhlala endlini yakhe? Khona-ke kuzodingeka uthole iseluleko esivela kummeli onolwazi ukuthola ukuthi wena nomntanakho unelungelo yini kulokhu, akunjalo. Isibonelo, uma umyeni wakho ubaba wengane yakho, khona-ke enkantolo kungenzeka ngempela ukufakazela ubuhlobo bakhe futhi uthole ukulingana.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukuthola okungenani izindlu zesikhashana. Ukuqasha igumbi kumakhelwane, ukuthuthela kumama - akunandaba. Ngoba ingxabano yezokwehlulela ayiyona esheshayo, umphumela wabo ungase ube yisisombululo esinganelisekanga kuwe. Futhi isimo esingaphansi kwendlu singashayelwa umkhawulo.
Umzuzwana olandelayo - ngaphambi kokuphumula okukhulu, kufanele uthathe isinqumo ngalokho wena nomntanakho enizohlala khona: ingabe unomsebenzi, uyakhokhela ngokwanele umsebenzi wakho (ngokuthi ungazinakekela wena nomntanakho). Ingabe umyeni wakho womphakathi uzimisele ukukhokhela ukusekelwa kwengane, noma ukukusiza ngesikhathi sokuqala? Uma u-yebo-ungakhohlwa ukusayina zonke izivumelwano ze-notary. Ngoba kusasa unobhala osemusha futhi onesizotha angadinga ukuthanda kwakho ngaphambili, kodwa futhi nomholo. Okuphelele. Futhi, ephuphuthekiswe umuzwa omusha, angavuma. Konke. Ubani ongakusekela kumholo wokuqala, uma owake wangenqaba ukusiza: abangane, abazali? Ake sithi inyanga noma ezimbili kule nzalo ingaphila nogogo - ngokusobala, hhayi ngokulamba futhi ngaphandle kwephahla phezu kwekhanda lakhe ...
Futhi-ke, lapho ekugcineni unquma ngokusebenza kwezindlu, indodana noma indodakazi izobuyela kuwe. Ngokuphathelene nomsebenzi - yiya ku-exchange exchange, i-intanethi, kumasayithi athunyelwe ukuthola umsebenzi, khuluma nabangani. Futhi ngokuzumayo ukhohlwe ukuthi intombi yakho ingumphathi omkhulu ku-ejensi yokuqasha, futhi ingakuthola yini umsebenzi?
Kulungile, ekugcineni othandweni olubulalayo ngesikhathi esilandelayo - ungakhohlwa ukuya ehhovisi lokubhalisa, kahle, noma okungenani ku-notary ukwenza isivumelwano somshado. Wena kanye nezingane zakho ezizalwa ngothando zizovikelwa ngokwengeziwe ezinkambisweni zesikhathi esizayo kanye namantombazane amancane azinxusa. Yebo, ngesikhathi esifanayo, hlola ukungathí sina kwezinhloso zethembekile yakho. Ngokungazelelwe kuye, umshado womphakathi - nje umhlangano? Khona-ke kufanele uphinde unqume ... ukuthi ungaba kanjani umyeni womphakathi.
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