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Bahlangene nomsindo owodwa.
Kodwa sihlangana nomuntu futhi ibanga eliphakathi kwethu linciphisa isinyathelo esisodwa ... Ukubukeka okunye ... Ngesifiso esisodwa ...
Ukuze usondele ...
Sibhekana, sibamba izandla, siphefumula, singacabangi ukuba khona ngaphandle kwalowo owenza inhliziyo ishaye ngokushesha.Kodwa ... Kuthiwani uma lo mzwa ungabuyiselwa, uma uthando lungenakuqhubeka? Isibonelo, i-romantic romance ...
Kanjani ukuphulukisa olunye uthando, olungavumeli ukuphila nokusebenza ngokuthula?
Okokuqala, udinga ukuhlola ngokulinganayo impilo yakho, ikhwalithi yayo. Ungayitholi i-subrogate, kodwa umuzwa wangempela, ugcwalise ngawo ngempilo yakho yonke, nsuku zonke, ngomzuzu. Mhlawumbe - ukuzijabulisa okuthakazelisayo okusha okuzothatha isithakazelo sakho nayo yonke isikhathi sakho samahhala. Yenza njalo ukuthi empilweni yakho akukho ndawo yokukhukhumeza! Vumela empilweni yakho kuyoba nomgomo omusha (noma uzokhumbula odala okhohliwe, enganakwa). Okokugcina, ungazinikela ekuziqaliseni kwakho, ukuzama ukufinyelela ezikhundleni zemisebenzi. Yenza uhlu lwezifiso ezincane nezinkulu, gxila ekusebenzeni kwazo.
Ungakwazi ukuphatha ngokushesha olunye uthando ngezindlela eziningi.
Isibonelo, sibheke ngokucophelela into yokukhanga kwakho. Ukulinganisa zonke izinzuzo nezindleko. Zama ukubheka isimo ngezindlela ezingafani, ngokubukeka okucabangelayo. Khona-ke udinga ukugxila ekutheni, qala ukuziqinisekisa ukuthi lo muntu akafanelekile okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, akufanelekile ukuthi uphule impilo yakho kuye (noma naye).
Essence - udinga ukugcwalisa impilo yakho ngemibono emisha, imizwelo. Khona-ke olunye uthando luzodlula ngokushesha. Awunaso isikhathi 'sokumisa' into yokukhangwa.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi umhlaba mkhulu. Futhi kuyisiphukuphuku ukuchitha sonke isikhathi sakho nokunakekela umuntu oyedwa ongakudingi. Ungahlanganyeli ekukhohliseni kwakho futhi uchithe isikhathi sakho ethembeni nokulindela ukuthi izinto zizoqala ukuqala. Kungcono uzame ukucabanga ukuthi bekuzokwenzekani uma ubuze ukuhlala ndawonye. Lapha, usuku ludlulile, inyanga ... yonyaka ... I-novelty idlulile, izihloko zezingxoxo ziphelile, futhi imigqa emisha eminingi iphinde ivulekele othandekayo bakho, okuzoqala ukucasula nokucasula. Futhi njalo usuku nosuku. Kuletha intukuthelo, akunjalo? Cabanga ukuthi zikhona yini izimfanelo kumuntu ozimisela okwamanje, izimfanelo ongazithandayo iminyaka eminingi, uzokwazi yini ukuvumelanisa okuthile esikhathini esizayo, wenze imibono yakho ihambisane nezinto eziza kuqala ekuphileni? Ingabe ukudlula kwakho okulandelayo kufanelekile kuwe? Akuzona zonke izifiso ezishabalalisa?
Enye indlela enhle yokuphulukisa ngokushesha uthando lwakho ukuhlukanisa amandla othando nokuqondisa, isibonelo, ekudaleni. Dweba, bhala, udale okuthile, ngisho noma ucabanga ukuthi awunawo ithalenta. Kodwa uzoba nomsebenzi omusha, okuzokwenzeka esikhathini esizayo ukuheha uthando lweqiniso kuwe! Futhi mhlawumbe, inoveli owayibhala, echaza okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, iyoba yinto engcono kakhulu yokuthengisa!
Abantu abaningi basizwa izingxoxo, mhlawumbe nomqondo wezengqondo, mhlawumbe nonina, kanti ezinye zilula ukuzambulela umngane ongajwayelekile. Ukumemezela isimo, ukutshela ubuhlobo bakho kusuka ekuthandweni kuze kube manje, ukuveza amazwi okungaqondakali - yilokho okungakusiza!
Kodwa ungazami ukuphunyuka emicabangweni edabukisayo, kusukela ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Ukucindezeleka ezimweni ezinjalo kuvamile! Ukuzama ukufihla kuphela ukwandisa isimo, khulisa imizwa yakho enzima isikhathi eside, ngakho-ke buhlungu, buhlungu kakhulu kaningi nangaphezulu. Futhi ngolunye usuku uzokhathala ngakho.