1. Indoda yakho iguqule isimo sakhe sengqondo ekubukeni. Uma usuchithe isikhathi eside kakhulu ukuba umenze ahlambe nsuku zonke. Futhi manje yena ngokwakhe ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzo zakho nsuku zonke uyazigeza ekuseni futhi ikakhulukazi kusihlwa. Futhi emva kwalokho uthi uzophuza nabangane bakhe.
Uqaphele ukuthi washintsha indlela yakhe yokugqoka futhi waqala ukuvuselela ikhabethe futhi uma uqaphele i-cologne enhle kakhulu eshalofini lakhe. Futhi ngokuzumayo waqala ukuvakashela indawo yokuzivocavoca futhi ujabulela zonke izinhlayiya zamakhilogremu. Lesi yisizathu sokuqala sokuhlubuka kwakhe.
2. Uqaphele ukuthi washintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo ngawe. Ngaphambi kokuba abe nomhawu kuwe ngokuphelele kubo bonke. Uma ngokungazelelwe uhlale emsebenzini, wayehlale ehlela ama-scandals nemibuzo. Kungaba futhi ngenye indlela ezungezile. Uma umuntu wakho ehlale ezolile, kodwa ngokuzumayo, ngaphandle kwesizathu esihle, waqala ukusola ukuthi kukhona ukuhlukumezeka, okwakungenjalo futhi ngeke kube khona.
Uma ngokungazelelwe waqala ukubamba zonke izinto ezincane. Uma esithanda yonke into ngawe ongayenzi, kodwa manje uhlale engajabuli ngakho konke. Futhi ngokuphambene nalokho, uma umuntu wakho ehlala eqinile, futhi ungakaze ubone izipho ezivela kuye, kodwa lapha akucaci ukuthi kungani eqala ukukugcwalisa ngezimbali, zincoma futhi zisho ukuthi uhle kangakanani.
3. Futhi isizathu sokumsola ukuthi uzoba nokuhlukumezeka kungenzeka ukuthi waqala ukusebenzisa isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini. Awunakufinyelela kuye, uhlale ematasa ngezingxoxo kanye nemihlangano. Noma wamane evala ifoni yakhe ephathekayo. Futhi uma ngabe esenomsebenzi ohlangene nohambo lwebhizinisi, futhi waqala ukuhamba kaningi nakakhulu lapho, noma ukuhlala ngemuva kokuhamba kwebhizinisi. Kwaqala ukufika ebusuku
4. Uma uqaphela ukuthi wayenentombi eyayivame ukumbiza, futhi ikuchazela ukuthi ubuhlobo babo bubuhlobo kuphela futhi akukho lutho.
5. Ngokungazelelwe wayeka ukukuyisa emaphoyiseni.
6. Uqaphele ukuthi akasasashiyi ifoni eduze kwakho futhi uhlala ephethe naye.
7. Futhi isizathu sokushintsha kungenzeka ukuthi waqala ukusebenzisa isikhathi esiningi eduze komshini, kodwa uma ufuna ukubona ukuthi wenzani lapho, amaphasiwedi ahlelwe yonke indawo.
8. Uqaphele ukuthi ubulili buye buba yisithukuthezi futhi buhle kakhulu. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi akudingeki ukuba, uma ungathathi isinyathelo ngokwakho.
9. Uma indoda yakho inemali encane yokuletha ekhaya. Kungenzeka ukuthi wayenomuntu ozayo.
10. Eqinisweni, iphuzu lokugcina ukuthi uqaphele umshini womunye umuntu emotweni yakhe, njengoba ethi izinto ezikhohliwe.
Manje uyazi ukuthi ungabona kanjani ukukhishwa komuntu othandekayo.