"Masibize u-Antoshka!" - ukuhlanza, ukulalela ngokucophelela esiswini sakho.
- Aaaa ... Uyakhumbula, uthando lwakho lokuqala. Iqiniso litsheliwe, alibhuli ...
- Yebo, futhi angizange ngisho ngicabange !!!! Vele ufunde: u-Anton-ke, "efika empini," futhi umfana wethu, njengoba eqhuma, isandla sakhe sishaya! - Usheshisa ukuzolalisa abathembekile. - Awu, mhlawumbe u-Alyosha noma u-Kolenka?
- Yebo. Kufana noyihlo, noma yini? Futhi amaKikola avelaphi? Ingabe lokho kufana nomakhelwane wethu?
Yilokho ukuphila komndeni okungenasici okusongela ukuphela ...
Ezinyangeni ezilandelayo uhamba ngokudlulela kuzo zonke amagama aziwayo / angaziwa / asungulwe nje. Futhi uthola ukuvumelana - uLeonid, ngokuhlonipha oshade naye, kunjalo. Kodwa awukakulungeli neze ukuzalwa kwentombazane ... Noma kunjalo, ungakhetha kanjani igama lomntwana ozayo nokuthi yini abazali abazayo okufanele baqondiswe yiyo? Fashion? Ukuhlonipha okhokho noma abangcwele? Noma mhlawumbe nje indlela engavamile yokucabanga?
NAME "ORDIN"
Ukukhethwa kwegama lomntwana kungukuthi abazali bakhe banomthetho. Ngaphansi komthetho waseRussia, "isipho sokuqala" esinjalo yilungelo labo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakhetha igama elilodwa kodwa amagama amabili. Kulokhu, owokuqala kubhekwa njengowokuqala. Ingabe ufuna ukubiza okungajwayelekile? Shayela. Ehhovisi lokubhalisa akulungile ukwenqaba ukwabela igama kumntwana akhethwe ngabazali, ngaphandle uma kungqubuzana nemigomo yokuziphatha komphakathi noma amasiko kazwelonke. Kodwa ungamangali uma isipho "sesipho" singahlonishwa futhi sizoqala ukuvimbezela lokhu kusungulwa nesitatimende esivele mayelana nokushintsha igama elithi "kakhulu" kakhulu.
LOKUPHAKATHI!
"Ungahleka usana nendoda, kodwa awukwazi ukuhleka usulu ngegama lakhe" - wabhala u-Marina Tsvetaeva. Ngendlela, amaRashiya ayaqonda lokhu futhi ayamukele. Kunoma yikuphi, i- "brand" igama elisanda kuzalwa lokuthanda izwe lohlobo lweRussia noma i-Futuristic BOCH rvf 260602, njengalesi simo esisodwa, ungazami. Futhi yonke imizamo yokugwema amagama ahloliwe ikhunjulwa isikhathi eside. Ngakho-ke, ihhovisi laseMoscow lokubhalisa likhumbula ukuthi umfana osanda kuzalwa abazali bafuna ukumbiza kanjani uJesu. Ngaphandle kwalokho, udadewabo wayebizwa ngokuthi ingelosi. Kodwa ngokuyinhloko, amaRussia ayevame ukuqala ukuhlonipha umlando nemithetho yeBhayibheli. Igama lamadoda uMakar, uZakhar, David, Tikhon, Serafim nabesifazane - uMelania, uBarbara, uStephanie, uSofia noma u-Arina abamangalisi abasebenzi behhovisi lokubhalisa. Futhi lokhu kuvela kwenye i-opera. Ama-melodramas angcono kakhulu ... Uma uMarianna noMary beqala ukuhlala ezitokisini zokudla ngisho nangaphambi kwalokho kunezinsipho zokusebenza "U-Maria nje" no "Rich" banemisindo eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Elinye igama kusukela "uchungechunge", noma kunjalo, libhuke kakade - i-Angelica. Ngakho izifiso zesikhashana zomama abaphathekayo zakha umkhuba wokubizwa ngenzalo. Futhi namuhla, uma nje uvele esibukweni somunye "uchungechunge odelele" uchungechunge, njengowesifazane wesimanjemanje, ukushaya isisu sakho, uqala ukuzama ngokujulile egameni lomlingiswa oyinhloko indodakazi yakhe yesikhathi esizayo.
"Ungubani igama lakho?"
- Nikita.
- Futhi mina Nikita! - Ingxoxo evamile e-sandbox yezinhlelo zanamuhla zeminyaka emithathu. Kodwa-ke, uma "i-Sahara yarddi" isayizi ngobukhulu, khona-ke inani le-Nikita elingcolile ngamamitha wendawo yebala lokudlala ngeke nakanjani likhuphuke. Into ethi leli gama liyaziwa kakhulu eminyakeni embalwa edlule. Futhi kwakuyiphi imfashini izolo, izoba nsuku zonke kusasa. Ukulwa noNicita ngenhla evelele kakhulu negama lamadoda aseVladislav. UDarya uhola ubulili obuthakathaka. Izinkampani zenkampani ziyi-Artem no-Anastasia, u-Ivan noSofia, u-Ilya noMaria, uDaniil no-Anna, u-Alexander no-Xenia.
Kuyinto engavamile ngamagama angaphandle. Futhi bayathandwa kokubili phakathi kwalabo abathathe ubuzwe bezakhamuzi zamanye amazwe, naphakathi kwamaRashiya omdabu. Kanye neyodwa engavamile ezweni, u-Inji Elif, hhayi okokuqala ebhalisiwe uNicole, uSimon, u-Esenia, uDominica no-Adele.
UVAN, UNON-MEMBERSHIP OYINGANE ...
Amagama angaphandle. UMichael noma u-Arnold, kanye no-Ivanovich onguchwepheshe abadala hhayi umbhangqwana ovumelanisa kakhulu. Igama elithi "ukungenisa", noma kunjalo, lamukelekile uma umntwana ezalwa emishadweni ehlanganisiwe.
Ngokuvamile abazali bakhohlwa ukuthi yikuphi ukukhetha okungcono okusemandleni eRussia. Isikhundla sezwe lakithi sanikeza abazali izinhlobo ezihlukahlukene zamagama "endabuko". Ngakho-ke, ekilasini elilodwa, umfana ogama lakhe lingu-Andreya, kanye nentombazane enegama lamaRoma Katolika okuthiwa i-Yadvig, lihlala ngokuthula. Kwenzeke ukuthi ngenxa yokuhlala ngokuthula kwe-Orthodoxy kanye neKatolika, kokubili amagama amagama asuselwe ezweni. Isibonelo, uDmitry, Irina, Tatiana, Galina, Veronica - banezimpande zasendulo zesiGreki. Futhi u-Edward, u-Albina, uJadwiga, u-Wanda noma u-Adolf bangamaRoma Katolika. Ngakho, ufakazi omncane lapho ukhetha igama lomntwana ozayo - futhi uhloniphe izwe lakubo, futhi ubonise kuqala!
UKUKHETHA KWAKHIWE
Shayela ngaphandle kokungabaza, uma:
1. Ukuzikhethela kuhileleka kokubili umama nobaba. Izwi likababa livame ukucatshangelwa ngumama ozayo. Futhi kuyize! Phela, kungumphumela we "umsebenzi" ohlangene ozoba yinto ejabulisayo endlebeni kumapapa wesikhathi esizayo. Noma kunjalo-imizamo kapapa nomama. Akufanele udideke nogogo nomkhulu, abazali bakho sebevele bazikhethele ngesikhathi sabo!
2. Uqale wabona ingane futhi ngokushesha wabona ukuthi wayenguSasha. Not Vladimir, njengoba kunqunywe emkhandlwini womndeni izinyanga eziyisithupha edlule, kodwa uSasha, Alexander, Sashenka. Umama kusukela ngosuku lokuqala lokuphila izimpumputhe anganquma isimilo sakhe futhi enze ukhetho olufanele. Futhi azikho izichazamazwi, noma ama-encyclopedias, noma iseluleko esingabajwayele nakakhulu.
3. Igama likhethiwe ngokuvumelana nabangcwele. Futhi ungesabi uhlaka oluncane.
Eqinisweni, ingane ezayo inganikezwa igama ngokuhlonipha ongcwele, inkumbulo yakhe ihambisana (noma izinsuku ezimbalwa kusengaphambili noma emuva) ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa noma ngosuku lokubhapathizwa. Futhi ungakwazi negama lendoda ethile, ohlonishwa emndenini wakho. Kukhona isikhala esikhulu phakathi kosuku lokuzalwa nosuku.
4. Ukukhethwa kwegama kwakhulunywa nayo yonke imithwalo yemfanelo. Awuyena ovilapha kakhulu ukubuka ochazayo amagama. Futhi manje uyazi kahle ukuthi leli noma lelo gama lisho ukuthini. Ukuzuza kwezincwadi zanamuhla kuhle! Ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukubonisana nabasebenzi behhovisi lokubhalisa ngokuthi yiliphi igama elivame kakhulu okwamanje. Ngolunye usuku indodana noma indodakazi izokubonga! Othisha, ngendlela, futhi. Khumbula, ukuthi uthisha wakho wesikole "waqondiswa kanjani" ngokunikezwa ngezibonakaliso ezihlukene zezinhlanu eziyisihlanu noma ezine zeTayard, abafundi esikoleni esisodwa.
5. Igama likuvumela ukuba ubonise yonke imizwelo ebangelwa ingane yakho ethandekayo. Ngakho, kuye ngokuthi imizwa ekhukhulayo, uHelen angabizwa ngokuthi uLenochka, noLenka, no-Alenushka, ngisho noLelka. Kungenzeka ukwakha amafomu we-caress uma ukhetha igama akufanele linikezwe indawo yokugcina.
Cabanga futhi, uma:
1. Umzukulu noma umzukulu wakhe wanquma ukubiza omunye wabazali bakho. Kuyabukeka, kodwa ... Igama alilona isethi elula yezinhlamvu. Kuzozithwala ngokwakho kanye nokukhumbula lomuntu, ngokuhlonipha ukuthi unqume ukuthini igama lomntwana. Futhi, kungenzeka ukuthi kuzokwenzeka ukuthi uzoziqaphela ngokulinganayo umlingiswa, izenzo kanye namakhono alo muntu emvutheni yakho. Futhi kuhle uma isethi yonke ihle ngokwayo. Futhi uma uvele unqotshwe ukwesatshiswa komamazala wakho, okusongela ukukusiza uma wenza isinqumo "esingalungile"? Cabanga ukuthi isikhundla esiqinile, noma uzinikezela emseni womnqobi, ongakwazi ukulwa nokulwa kwempi yomndeni?
2. Ukuze ujwayele ukujwayela amagama, udinge ukuqeqeshwa okuthile. Igama elibunzima liyoba yisithintelo ekuvumelaneni kwezenhlalakahle nokuxhumana. UDale Carnegie ukhulume ngaleli gama kanje: "Igama lomuntu yilona umsindo omuhle kakhulu futhi obaluleke kakhulu kuye nganoma yiluphi ulimi." Kodwa uma ukubiza kwakhe kungabangela izinkinga, khona-ke ukuzwa leli gama elimnandi kumntwana ngeke lenzeke njalo. Ikakhulukazi ebuntwaneni, ngoba ngisho nezwi elithi "inhlanzi" le-crumb elineminyaka emihlanu ubudala lifana nokuthi "ukukhululeka" kwakho.
3. Ekufuneni kokuqala, awuzange ukhumbule i-patronymic kanye nesibongo semvuthuluka.
4. Lapho ukhetha igama lomntwana, uqondiswe ngemfashini, imibono noma nje wanquma ukukhokha umlingisi wakho ozithandayo (umculi, osombusazwe). Uhlelo lwezepolitiki lungashintsha, umlingisi udumalekile, futhi njengoba nje ubukhulu bakhe befashini buhamba kancane, akudingeki ukuba uchaze. Ngaphezu kwalokho, igama alilona uphawu, hhayi i-logo kanye nomkhiqizo ongaziwa!
5. Ukhohliwe ukuthi umfana onesimungulu, onamahloni namuhla ungumuntu kanye nenhloko yomndeni kusasa. I-patronymic eyenziwe ngegama lakhe kufanele ijabulise abazukulu bakho besikhathi esizayo.
Ubani ozobe edala ...
Imfihlo enkulu yenkampani encane ingaba igama lesibili le-crumb. E-Russia kwakukhona inkambiso yasendulo yokunikeza ingane, ngaphandle kwesihloko, futhi negama eliyimfihlo. Kwakukholelwa ukuthi ngaleyo ndlela ungagcina umcibisholo osweni olubi noma ukhohlise imimoya emibi. Ngakho-ke, uma bechitha igama elithi "elisemthethweni," "imfihlo" eyodwa izosindisa ingane. Futhi ngaphambi kwe-christening, okhokho bethu bakholwa, futhi akukho sidingo sokudalula igama kubantu abangabazi.
Kukhona isizathu!
Umkhosi womshado wabazali, izinsuku zokuzalwa zamalungu omndeni. Unyaka Omusha, ngo-Mashi 8 .... Namuhla, uchungechunge lweholide lokuvinjelwa lungancishiswa. Ukuzibiza ngegama kuzokunikeza ukuqala empilweni komunye umkhosi wokuphila komndeni wakho. Yona kanye inqubo yokukhetha igama ibonisa uhlobo lokubhapathizwa emhlabeni. Okokuqala, abazali bazokwaziswa ukuthi yiliphi igama elinikezwe ukuphahlazeka. Bese-ke bazonikeza idokhumenti yokuqala ebonisa ukuthi ingubani ingane. Futhi konke lokhu esimweni esibucayi, nokuba khona komndeni ngokugcwele amandla.
Ngendlela, isimiso sokuqamba amagama akuyona into encane, kodwa okuyingxenye yamaphuzu ohlelweni lukahulumeni ekubunjweni kwamanani omndeni nasekukhuliseni isimo somndeni emphakathini. Ngakho uma umshado wakho udala "uhlabele futhi udansa", khona-ke kukhona indawo yeholidi ehhovisi lokubhalisa lomndeni wakho futhi!
IZINDABA ZOKUQALA
Futhi manje i-crumb kakade ngokuthula igubha emgodini noma isalokhu ingakuqhubeki ngokuthula ngesisu esikhulu. Othile ukhetha, afunde ngokujulile "ngesimo esithakazelisayo", futhi umuntu nezinyanga ezimbili emva kokuzalwa kwemvuthu ngeke kutholakale. Ngakho, ngeviki lama-20 kubonakala sengathi nguGalina kuphela ongathinta ngobumnene - obumnene, ozolile. Kodwa ngamashumi amathathu nesikhombisa uzizwa uhlanganyele empini ngaphandle kwemithetho futhi ucabanga ukuthi: "Ukuba i-Ekaterina, ngokuhlonipha inhloko yomnyango!" Ngomatshumi amathathu nesishiyagalolunye, isithombe sengelosi eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka siletha imicabango kuSvetlana. Kodwa ekuzalweni kwe-brunette enama-brown curly eyehlotsheni, le micabango iqhuma. Lapha futhi kuyadingeka ukubiza ngenkathi indodakazi ethi "ingane yami", "ilanga", ngisho naso sonke "isijeziso sami".
Nokho, kunoma yikuphi, ubuhle begama labo ngeke lithande ingane isikhathi eside. Kodwa kufanele ube nesibopho futhi uqine ngokuthandayo. Igama akumele libe yingozi!