Nika indlela!
Emotweni yomshuwalense ingena intombazane enesisu esikhulu, ibukeka ingasize, kodwa abagibeli bonke balala ngokungazelelwe, noma ngokungafani baphambukisa amehlo abo. Abamama abaningi abazayo bathi akunzima ukuma, kuhlambalaza ukubona ukuthi abanye abantu bakuthinta ngokunganaki. Konke okungajabulisi kakhulu, lapho emnyango wemoto "owesifazane okhulelwe" oqinile enqotshwa abafana abaqinile futhi ewela phansi ngokushesha esihlalweni kanye nohlobo lwabadlali. Ngeshwa, izwe lethu aliphelelanga, futhi uma sidinga usizo, akuwona wonke umuntu oyophendula. Ngisho noma sidinga nje ukumelela umbhangqwana Kulesi simo, kufanele uthathe isinyathelo futhi ubuze umgibeli ukuthi akunike isihlalo - kungcono kunokuma nokuthukuthela ezweni lonke elimhlophe, ufunde ukuthi ungazicela kanjani usizo.Abamama abaningi bekusasa abenqatshelwe ukwenqaba futhi uma kwenzeka lokhu, hamba eceleni isithombe Uma ungaqiniseki ukukhulelwa kwakho, qiniseka ukubonga ngokuhle.
Umyeni Olimazayo
Kukhona amadoda afanelekayo! Futhi baya ezitolo, bese bapheka, futhi bageza izitsha. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi kungenxa yezidakamizwa ezinjalo ngezizathu ezithile ukuthi okuningi kunabanye abavela emkhatsini wabo. Umkami okhulelwe ubheka kuphela ukwehluleka ebuhlotsheni. Ukuzibamba ngokwawo, ekuziphatheni komyeni wakhe, uhlela amakhonsathi kusukela ekuqaleni. Ukuphatha ukuziphatha kowesifazane akulona uhlamvu olubi, kodwa amahomoni. Yena ngokwakhe akajabuli ngokushaywa kwakhe. Ukuze ukwazi ukuzola ungathuthukisa ukuqhosha kwamadoda. Khumbula: konke okushiwo umfazi ngokukrakra nangezinyembezi kubhekiswa ukuqhuma kwama-hormone, hhayi ukuqonda kwakhe. Ngokwehora ngehora, lapho umama ozayo ezolile futhi umhlaba uzomdlala kwezinye imibala, uzoba namahloni ngamazwi ahlabayo. Ubaba ozayo kungcono nje ukumbamba umfazi onzima futhi athi: "Futhi ngisakuthanda." Futhi amafu azoqothula. Omama omama abazayo bafuna ukunakwa nokukhathazeka okwengeziwe, futhi uma bengacabangi ukuthi bayayithola, kunezikhalazo ezikhulayo zibe izingxabano kanye nama-scandal, kodwa awukwazi ukubhala yonke into kuma-hormone.Ukuze uziqonde ngokwakho, hamba kumcwaningi wezengqondo.Kungenzeka ukuthi awunayo ukunakekelwa okwanele kowesifazane, futhi ufuna ukukuthola kumyeni wakhe, ukhathalela "amakhonsathi" anjalo futhi ungafuni ukukhula. Futhi kuthiwani uma umyeni engenzi ngempela umsebenzi omuhle? Isibonelo, ungakhathazeki ukuthi uzizwa kanjani, ungasizi ukuthwala izikhwama ezinzima, ungakhathazeki ngokuzalwa komntwana? Ochwepheshe bayeluleka ukuvusa umthwalo womlingani, ukutshela ubaba esikhathini esizayo mayelana namacala ahlobene nokukhulelwa, ngokuvame ukumvumela ukuba ahambe e-puzik. Myeke isisu sakhe, ukhulume nengane, bese imizwa yobubaba ivuka. Ukukhulumisana okunjalo kubaluleke kakhulu - ngothando lwazalwa. Uma umyeni wakho ethanda ukulala embhedeni, zama ukumshayela esitolo nganoma iyiphi indlela. Ekugcineni, bhala uhlu lokuthenga. Amadoda amaningi alula ukwenza "ngokwemiyalo."
Umama wami wesibili
Yebo, kungenzeka ukuthi uvumelane nomyeni futhi uvumelane kalula. Ngomkhwekazi, isimo sinzima kakhulu. Nakhu okuphazamisayo: abesifazane abaningi baphupha abazukulu babo, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo bazondayo abazondayo labo abanikeza lo mnandi kumalokazana babo. Noma ungafuni ukufaka isikhundla sabo, usizo, ukukhuthaza nokusekela. Uma kwenzeka umamazala futhi, ngempela, i-monster, kungcono, ngempela, ukuhlala ngokuhlukile. Futhi uma kungenjalo kungenzeka, ngakho-ke ungabonakali esimweni, bheka i-rancor, njengokungathi uvela ngaphandle, udla indima yombukeli. Futhi kungcono ukwabelana ngokukhathazeka phakathi kwabo kanye nomuntu ongathathi hlangothi - isazi sengqondo.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ubuhlobo bomalokazana buba bukhulu kakhulu. Umthwalo wokusungula othintana nabo awugcini nje ngokuba "umama wesibili" kodwa futhi nomalokazana. Kumelwe ukhunjulwe ukuthi uma ufika endlini yomunye umuntu, awukwazi ukubeka imithetho yakho, kuzomele ulungiselele imithetho esebenza lapho. umdlalo wokuphila, ukuphikisana komuntu oyedwa.Kungathi futhi, kufanele sikhulume.Kufanelekile ukutshela uninazala ukuthi akalahlekelwa indodana yakhe.Play: Angikhuphiswano nawe, usengumfana wakho.Kuningi, ukuthi izwe libhekene nalo. Izicelo ezivela kumama wendoda zithathwa ngobudlova, kodwa ngokudala umndeni wakho, ugcine imindeni yokuqala, ngakho-ke kudingeka uhloniphe amasiko asungulwe.Shintsha emazwini omamazala (ngisho nabangalungile), zama ukuthula.Khumbula, Ngezinye izikhathi, esikhundleni sokuvikela ngokuqinile isikhundla somuntu, kungcono ukuhleka: "Nonke, Marya Ivanovna, niyazi, kodwa ngitshele, iphi ibhange lejubhisi lokujamu? Masiphuze itiye ndawonye. "Umdlali owaziwayo wanikeza isibonelo esihle sokuthola iresiphi ebuhlotsheni obuhle nomamazala wakhe:" Lapho ngiqala ukuya endlini yomyeni wami, ngabona ukuthi imithwalo igcwele kanjani nokuthi kanjani Uninazala wakubona lokhu wathi: "Ngiyakuthanda." Ngakho ngathola indlela kumama kamyeni wami, futhi saba abangane. "
Izimo kufanele zibekwe icala
Uma zombili umyeni egcina, noninazala igolide, umuntu okhulelwe ongazithandi uzothola ithuba lokuthuka ngezimo ezizungezile noma ukuziphatha kwabanye abantu. Isizathu sokwezinye izinyembezi sizosiza noma yini: ungabizi emsebenzini osebenza nabo abangenandaba nabo, izindlu zincane, isimo sezulu sibi ... Umama nomama wezingane eziyisithupha u-Alena Lebedeva weluleka abesifazane abakhulelwe ... ukuba bangazicabangeli nje kuphela, kodwa ngabanye. Okuthiwa yi-blues yabesifazane abakhulelwe (leli gama elihle - mhlawumbe elivela embukisweni waseMelika ukuzizwa liluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka - libizwa ngokuthi isimo esingenakuqinisekiswa soomama esizayo) akusona isizathu sokuba owesifazane oziqhenyayo ophelele.-- Ukukhulelwa yisikhathi esihle kakhulu ekuphileni kwabesifazane abaningi. Umama ozayo uzoziphatha njengengane, futhi udinga ukunakekelwa, njengendodana encane, kepha abantu abakuzungezile bayamqonda njengomdala futhi bakhulume ngokulingana okulinganayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, bangase babe nabangenangqondo ngempela Ngakolunye uhlangothi, owesifazane okhulelwe kufanele abheke ngaphakathi, athole iziphetho - ukuthi isikhalazo sakhe sinesizathu esihle yini.
Zizinake wena nabathandekayo bakho
Ngokuvamile, ungenzi amaphutha ukuze izinkumbulo ezivela ekukhulelwe kwakho zingcono kuphela! Zizinake wena nabathandekayo bakho. Ukukhulelwa kungukuqala kohambo olude kakhulu okumele uhambe nalo nomntanakho. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuhlangana kanye nokuhamba. Ingabe umama wakhe unika futhi iseluleko esiyingozi futhi uphazamise ibhizinisi lakhe? Funda ukuphendula ngendlela efanele kulo mgwaqo onzima emoyeni ophezulu. Okubizwa ngokuthi, ukuphikisa isitha, injabulo yomama. Ukushintsha isizinda se-hormonal ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kubangela ukukhushulwa okukhudlwana kuzici zangaphandle. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uphuthele kanjani, njalo ucabange ngalokho okubhekana nokucindezeleka kwengqondo, okokuqala wena nomntwana wakho. Zama ukunganaki konke okungabangela imizwelo emibi, futhi uxoxe kabanzi nengane.