Ungamjabulisa kanjani umuntu?

Umqondo wokuba umlingani obaluleke kakhulu engxenyeni yakhe yesibili akazange ashiye izinhloko zabesifazane ngaso sonke isikhathi. Eqinisweni, imfihlo ilula: indoda enelisekile yindoda ephethwe kahle, futhi yonke imiqondo yegama. Yebo, kumele ube ngumthandi othakazelisayo, umama omuhle nomngane onesihawu, ngisho nompheki ophakeme kakhulu ebhodleleni elilodwa! Kodwa-ke, kungenzeka kanjani ukuhlela emva komsebenzi wosuku olukhuni? Ungaphelelwa ithemba ngaphambi kwesikhathi, empeleni, konke akunzima kakhulu - udinga nje ukwazi "amaphuzu" abalulekile azokusiza kule ndaba.

Indlela yokujabulisa indoda: izimfihlo ngaphandle kokusondelana

1. Nondla ngokudla nangothando.

   Ukudla okunomsoco kuyingxenye yohlelo jikelele, ukuthi ungayithokozisa kanjani ngezandla zakho. Futhi hhayi nje isidlo esiphunduwe, kodwa ngomphefumulo ohlasiwe. Abesifazane abaningi banakekele ukulingiswa okuqondile kweresiphi, bekhohlwa ukupheka ngothando. Vumela ukulungiswa kwakho kungabi kuhle kakhulu, kodwa ukudla okuphekwe ngomuzwa njalo kumduduza lo muntu, kubeka umcabango wokuthi uyathandwa. Iqhinga lokunakekelwa okunjalo liqukethe izenzo ezilandelayo:

   
   
   • njalo umboze itafula bese ukhonza izitsha ngokumomotheka;
   • funda izitsha ezintsha;
   • isidlo sothando sabantu ababili singapheli ukuphumelela.
2. Thumela ekamelweni nabangani.

   Ngokungangabazeki, wonke umuntu unomsebenzi wokuzilibazisa ongawamukeli ngaso sonke isikhathi abesifazane - ukudoba, ibhola, ukuzingela, njll. Ukujabulisa kahle othandekayo wakho, ukuyiqoqa imali egculisayo futhi ufisa ukuphumula okuhle. Phela, ngeke azizwe enecala ngalokho. Uzobona, uyojabula. Okokuqala, uzobonisa ukuthi ungumfazi omuhle, futhi okwesibili, kuyisenzakalo sokuba nomona ngabangane.

3. Yinike isikhathi sokuba yedwa.

   Uma ucabanga ngesihloko sokuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani umuntu, ungakhohlwa ukuthi abesifazane, nakuba bethandeka, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izidalwa ezihlaselayo. Ungafaki ukubukela i-movie noma ukuhamba nabangani, vele bahlale bodwa bese becabanga ngamaphepha abo. Noma pheka izinto ezihamba phambili bese ushiya phambi kwe-TV. Ngikholelwa, ngeke kube khona umkhawulo wokumangala komuntu.

   
   

   Ubuseduze, njengendlela yokujabulisa umuntu

   Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, ukukhanya kwemizwa nothando kufaka isimo esimweni somzwelo, futhi uthando lokumthanda luvezwa kulo lonke uhlobo lokuzijabulisa. Kodwa-ke, eminyakeni edlule, izimo ziqala ukuba yisithukuthezi, kanti izikhwama ezinamakhono kufanele zifune izindlela zokushayela ukuletha inothi lokuhlukahluka empilweni esondelene nayo. Ngakho-ke, yiziphi izimfihlo ezizokusiza ukuba ulethe othandekayo wakho injabulo?

   
   
   1. Jabulela embhedeni.
      • Yiba nesithakazelo kulokho akufunayo;
      • umemeza, futhi uhlebezele, uhlasele futhi uhlebe - uma abazali ababili asebekhulile bengalali ngemuva kodonga, indoda yakho iyojabula;
      • ukumangala - yenza okungavunyelwe ngaphambili;
      • shiya ukukhanya - indoda iyajabula ngemifanekiso ebonakalayo.
   2. Letha ihlumela lokuzibonakalisa empilweni yansuku zonke.

      Lapha asikhulumi ngenjabulo yokulala ngesikhathi sokulala ebusuku, okungukuthi ukukhathazeka kokuzijabulisa phakathi nokuphila kwansuku zonke. Ngisho kanye ngesonto, khonza ukudla kwasekuseni ngesineni esilula noma uhlanzeke naye ngomfanekiso wesigqilakazi. Ungaphinde uhambe emasitokisini kanye nasezithende - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhululekile, kodwa ujabulise ngokumangalisayo emehlweni esilisa. Kuhle futhi ukuhlela ukubheka ngokuhlanganyela kwesithombe esithinta isithombe, ividiyo, ukumjabulisa.

   
   
   3. Shiya inothi elihle.

   Amanothi amnandi namathenda - amanothi amfihlo, izifiso, ukudumisa okuncane - lokhu okuyingxenye yokunakwa nomphefumulo ozojabulisa indoda yakho. Futhi makangabi nomuzwa onjalo, futhi angase angavumi ngisho, angikholelwe mina, ukubona ukuthi ukubaluleka kwami ​​kuhlale kujabulisa inhliziyo.