Ubulili? Ayikho inkinga!
Ukunciphisa umnotho, izinkinga ngemali, ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa imisebenzi yabo - kulokhu kucindezeleka, waphelela ngokuphelele isifiso? Cha! Kwakuyinkinga ekugcineni yabonisa amadoda ukuthi kuzodingeka azithuthuke kakhulu ukuze athole okuthile. Futhi lokhu akukhathazi umsebenzi kuphela. Ngokucabangela ukuthi abesifazane sebezimele ngokwengeziwe futhi bezethemba, ubulili obuqinile kufanele bubonise umcabango kanye nendlela engavamile yokusimanga embhedeni. Umbuzo uvela - kuphi ukuphefumlelwa kusuka? Amabhayisikobho e-Porn, omagazini abanobuchopho - ngani? Imibono ehloliwe ngezinye izikhathi ingabangela ukuhlolwa okujabulisayo nokujabulisayo kokubili. Futhi ungesabi ukuthi izidingo zakho ziphakeme kakhulu - injabulo yobulili kufanele itholwe ngabalingani bobabili, ngakho-ke thatha ezandleni zakho bese uyibonisa nokuthi ufuna ukuthi angene kanjani embhedeni. Khona-ke makangenele lesi sinyathelo bese efakazela ukuthi isifundo asizange sibe yize.
Kungcono ndawonye kunekhaya kuphela
Izindaba ezimbi: ngokusho kwezibalo, amadoda angu-63% angaphansi kweminyaka engu-26 ahlala ekhaya namama. Kodwa kukhona okuhle: amadoda angu-46% alungele ukuhlala ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa ngothando lwabo emva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa zokuvakashelwa. Futhi uyojabula ukuzwa ukuthi amadoda amaningi afuna ukuba nendawo yokuphila okungenani i-120 m futhi asebenzise ama-ruble ayizinkulungwane ezingamashumi amane ngonyaka esimweni sekhaya labo-isisombululo esihle kakhulu enkingeni yezindlu, akunjalo?
Ukulingana? Futhi yebo, futhi cha
Abesifazane ababengumengameli, abesifazane abahloniphekile, ngaba u-Alice usazithola e-Land of Wonders, futhi umphakathi wagcina uqaphela ukuthi umqondo wokuthi "ubulili obubuthakathaka" abukho? Ngokusho kocwaningo lweYunivesithi yaseHeidelberg, amadoda amabili kwezintathu afuna ukuba namalungelo alinganayo nabesifazane bawo, kanti kuphela owesithathu wamadoda akholelwa ukuthi umphakathi wethu unqanyuliwe kakhulu. Kodwa lawa onke amagama. Ekuphileni kwangempela, ngokushesha lapho kuphakama izinkinga zansuku zonke ku-ajenda (ngubani ozoshintsha i-diaper yomntwana noma ukupheka isidlo, noma ukugeza phansi), amadoda, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke obaba abashadile bomndeni, abagweme isinqumo sabo, bathole izizathu eziningi nezimpikiswano eziphuthumayo. Njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, ngokuzalwa kwengane yokuqala, ukukhululwa komndeni ngamunye kungapheli. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane banakekele inzalo. Ngandlela-thile, amadoda ashadile, ngokungafani nalabo abahlala ngaphandle kwesitembu kuma-passports abo, bafuna ukubona ukusatshalaliswa kwabo kwendabuko emindenini yabo: umyeni uyisinkwa sokudla kanye nesinkwa sokudla, nomkakhe ungumgcini wendlu.
Umthandi wokukhathazeka
Ubulili ngobusuku obulodwa kuyindlela enhle yokugwema ukucacisa okulukhuni ubudlelwane namadrama. Indoda engashadile yanamuhla ikhetha ubulili obuhlukile ngaphandle kokuzibophezela. Lokhu akusho ukuthi uyashintsha amantombazane njalo ebusuku. Kungokuthi nje ukwakha ubuhlobo bakhe nabesifazane ngendlela engathathi umthwalo wemfanelo futhi ayikhawuli inkululeko yakhe.
Izifiso zakhe
Noma ubani owakusho lutho, kodwa siyazi ngokuqinisekile: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siziphilisa ngokweqile ukuthi izwe lethu elicebile lingaphakathi lethu liyiqiniso elihle, sonke siza njalo njalo eqinisweni lasendulo: indoda, okokuqala, iyayithanda amehlo akhe. Ngakho-ke, awukwazi ukufunda i-Petrarch ekuqaleni, kodwa kufanele ube ne-manicure, i-pedicure, i-epilation ephelele futhi hhayi kuphela.
- Amadoda angu-36% athande uma owesifazane enenwele ende
- Amadoda angu-9 kwabangu-10 afana nezinwele zaseBrazil ezisuswa kumlingani
- Amadoda angu-27% abalandeli bekhanda elibushelelezi futhi balungele ukushefa njalo
- Amaphesenti angu-73 acabangela ukungabi khona kwezinwele esikhumbeni ngokwabo nakwezingcweti zokuhlanzeka
- U-45% ucabange ngalokhu kobulili
- Amaphesenti angama-43 alungele ukwenza i-epilation esifubeni, emuva nangemilenze ngenxa yomlingani
Isikhwama noma impilo?
Ngokwe-poll ka-Emnid, amadoda angu-23% ayenganikela ngonyaka wokuphila kwabo nge-euro eyizigidi. Futhi abesifazane abangu-17% kuphela abangavumelana nalolu daba.
Uphinde uthande i-pyshechki
Ukungahlali okujwayelekile ekugqibeleni kugcina kubangela imibhikisho. Amamodeli, abathwebuli bezithombe nabomagazini balwa ngokuzimisela "ukwesaba okukhulu" futhi bebheja ngesisindo esivamile. Wonke umuntu uthanda ukubuyela kumuntu wesifazane wemvelo. Ngezikhathi ezithile, kumanethiwekhi omphakathi, ngisho namaqembu "abachwepheshe bamafomu amahle" avela. Ngaphandle kokungaxhunyiwe ku-intanethi, ukuthambekela okufanayo kungalandelwa: ekuhlolweni kukaGewis, amadoda angama-70% aqinisekisile ukuthi athanda abesifazane emzimbeni futhi amadoda angama-5 kuphela asekhetha i-hudyshkas. Ngendlela, ngokulandela izibalo ezifanayo, amadoda angama-53% akholelwa ukuthi i-pyschy iyakuthanda kakhulu, futhi 29% baqiniseke ukuthi bayancipha kakhulu. Ukuqeda izinwele emzimbeni, le ndoda ibuye iguquke, njengokuhlela umsebenzi, ukuvumelanisa naye, okungeke kuthiwa ngamantombazane abo alahlekelwa yilapho. Futhi ekugcineni, izindaba ezibaluleke kakhulu - ziveze ubudlelwane obuqondile phakathi kwezinga kanye nesikhathi sokuvuka komuntu ngokucabangela komuntu wesifazane. Kuvela ukuthi izithombe nabanikazi bamafomu amahle zijabulisa amadoda kakhulu futhi, ngokubalulekile, masinyane kunokucatshangelwa kwamantombazane anezibalo zobufana.
Ungasho lutho, othandekayo!
Kukhona izinto azibonanga futhi aziphuthele izindlebe. Isibonelo, indaba yakho mayelana nesigqoko esisha noma indaba yenkonzo yomndeni wakho ugogo. Futhi kukhona into ayifuni ukuzwa kunoma yimuphi owesifazane. Ungalokothi. Nansi ukulinganisa kwezinto ezingathandeki kunazo zonke emabintweni endlebe womuntu ukuthi kungcono ukususa kulesi sichazamazwi sakho: "Angikulungele ubuhlobo", "Masihlale sihlobo", "Akusiwe, kungimi", "Awungilaleli".
Ukudla okunempilo
Borsch kumazambane othosiwe, anyanisi othosiwe okwesibili bese ubeka i-dessert. Kusukela ebuntwaneni besencane sifunda ngokucacile umqondo owodwa olula: "Indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele esiswini sakhe." Ngakho-ke, lapho sesivuthiwe, sizungeze abameleli besonto eliqinile esinomhlangano wethu, sinakekele, sinakekele futhi, kodwa, sizama ukubondla ngokufanele. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abacwaningi baseNtshonalanga nabesifazane basho kanjani, siyazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi isikhundla singase sibe umbala we-colorblind futhi singabe sisabela ezimfweni ezintsha ezibomvu, kodwa ngeke neze akhohlwe amapayipi akhiwe ekhaya. Futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzofika ngempela isithasiselo. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi emhlabeni wonke abantu balwa ne-cholesterol futhi bahola ukuphila okusebenzayo, amadoda aseRussia, injabulo yethu, ngenkathi ehluleka ukunqotshwa nemikhuba yemfashini, futhi umuntu oyedwa kwaba-30 kuphela ongakwazi ukulahla amadokodo asekhaya, ekhetha i-celery juice kanye neqabunga isaladi. Nakuba ezinye izeluleko zabasosayensi baseNtshonalanga kusengcono ukulalela futhi. isibonelo, zama ukufaka ekudleni kwakhe izithelo nemifino esisha (ngaphandle kwe-asparagus, broccoli ne-cauliflower) - zithuthukisa ikhwalithi kanye nokunambitheka kwesidoda, futhi ngokujwayelekile kuhle kumpilo.
Ukuthandwa okungokoqobo
Wonke umuntu wesibili ukholelwa ukuthi umlingani ofanelekayo angatholakala kwi-intanethi, noma ngabe ukucinga kuthatha izinyanga ezingu-19. Kungani isikhathi eside kangaka? Ngesikhathi nje ukuzingela owesifazane oyiphupho kuyi-intanethi, iningi labesilisa liphanga isithunzi sabo, kunokuba ngokushesha likhulume iqiniso. Kodwa, siyavuma, nathi sivame ukwehlisa isisindo sethu.
I-Psychology esebenzisiwe
Ngokusho kwamadoda okucwaninga amaphoyinti okucwaninga amakhono ahlakulela amasu aphelele ukuze aqonde into yezifiso zabo. Abafundi abangu-63% bakholelwa ngokuzikhukhumeza ukuthi ekuboneni kokuqala bangakwazi ukunquma ngokunembile ukuthi babhekene nani - i-princess, i-stocking eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma i-bitch. Ingxenye yamadoda isiqiniseko sokuthi owesifazane uvula ubuso bakhe beqiniso emphakathini uma ebonisa imikhuba yakhe. Ngisho nezinhlelo azibukele ku-TV zingasetshenziswa njengesisekelo seziphetho ezifanele. Futhi aziwa ukuthi yikuphi okungcono - izindaba noma i- "Dom-2". Nokho, isiphetho sokugcina sihlala embhedeni. Wonke umuntu wesihlanu ucabanga ukuthi umuntu angazana omunye nomunye esimweni esiseduze. Futhi lapha ucansi oluphephile luthola incazelo entsha!
Ngokucophelela, ukucabanga okungalungile okukhulu
Iqiniso lokuthi amadoda azinikezela ngokuzithandela umngane wabo omncane amaminithi ambalwa. konke sekuye kwaziwa isikhathi eside. Kodwa iqiniso lokuthi abanandaba nokuvikelwa, kithi izindaba. Ngokwesifundo se-Kinsey Institute, amadoda angama-45% athi awafanelanga amakhondomu ayesebenzisa ezinyangeni ezintathu zokugcina. Lokhu kubunye ubufakazi bokuthi amadoda athengisa amakhondomu ubukhulu obukhulu, ngaphansi kwethempelomu yamafilimu e-pornography kanye nezithombe ezingenangqondo - abazi lutho ngobukhulu beqiniso besithunzi sabo futhi uma bethengisa banikeza ukucabanga okufisa. Imiphumela yokukhohlisa okunjalo iyingozi - amakhondomu awaphelelanga, adiliza noma ahlehlise ngesikhathi esingaphansi kakhulu.