Ungayithola kanjani indawo oya kuyo?

Ungayithola kanjani indawo oya kuyo?

"Angikaze ngithole ikusasa lami kulokhu kuphila," - wonke umuntu omdala wesibili emhlabeni ozisola ngemva kweminyaka engu-40, abacwaningi bathola. Uthola kanjani ikusasa lakho? Nazi izinkomba ezimbalwa zendlela yokwenza lokhu kusuka kuBarbara Cher - isikhulumi esikhuthazayo nomdali weqembu eliphumelelayo elisize ngaphezu kwesigidi esisodwa emhlabeni ukuthola isiphetho sabo futhi sijabule.

Ukuzivocavoca: Amacembe abufihliwe obuchopho

Kukhona ukhiye obaluleke kakhulu uma ufuna indawo. Isihluthulelo ukuthi ukwaneliseka kungakulethela into oyintandokazi kuphela. Indawo ehlala njalo ikhona kulokho othanda ukukwenza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ngokungazelelwe uthathe isinqumo sokuba ngumsizi, khona-ke singakujabulisa: ukwenza ibhizinisi lakho elithandayo ngempela ithuba lokuba umgidi iminyaka emihlanu 50%. Ngenkathi wenza ibhizinisi elingathandeki, ithuba lakho lokuba umgidi kuphela 2%.

Yonke i-mission gurus iyavumelana eyodwa: ukuphishekela okuthandayo kuphela kufanele kube yisisekelo somsebenzi wethu. Ukuze unqume imbangela yokuphila, awukwazi ukuzivimbela. Izinqumo ezifanele kunazo zonke yizo ezivela enhliziyweni. Uma inhliziyo icela ukudansa nenkazimulo, awukwazi ukuyiphika.

Ngakho-ke, ake sicabange nje. Manje zinike amandla okukhululeka ukuze udale umsebenzi omangalisayo kakhulu emhlabeni. Ungazitholi kunoma yini. Ingabe ufuna ukuvula ama-penguin eSouth Pole? Sicela! Ingabe ufuna ukuba yinkanyezi ye-rock? Ayikho inkinga! Ingabe ufuna ukuhlala ehhovisi lakho, uphuze itiye futhi utshele wonke umuntu ukuthi benzeni? Phambili!

Noma ungaba ngamasonto njenge-"turner" yama-penguin, futhi ngempelasonto uthola i-helicopter bese uhamba waya eHollywood ukudubula idokhumenti mayelana nobuciko bomgwaqo nomculi we-Banksy.

Chaza kuphi, kanjani, kanjani, nini, ukuthi uzoba nobani kulo msebenzi. Kuyoba yindlu ehlelekile e-Austria, epulazini elikhulu eKentucky noma emibhoshongweni ephakeme yaseShanghai? Ungesabi ukuthi konke kuzobukeka "kumnandi".

Inhloso yalokhu kuhlola ukubuka emaceleni okufihliwe kunazo zonke zobuchopho bakho, lapho bobabili umama nobaba bekhona, kanye nesimo esiphezulu esindisa umhlaba, kanye nochwepheshe we-neurobiology nomsindisi wamahlathi ashisayo.

Bangobani osebenza nabo kulokhu? Iqembu labantu abane-IQ ngaphezulu kwe-170, noma iqembu lama-postmen, noma ubuntu obungavamile bokudala? Ungacabangi ukuthi yini elungile nalokho okungekho. Uma unenkinga ngalolu hlelo, futhi awukwazi ukukwazi ukukhetha impilo enhle kunazo zonke oyifunayo, bese uqhubeka nokuzivocavoca okulandelayo.

Ukuzivocavoca: Umsebenzi we-Infernal

Ingxenye 1.

Abanye abantu "bangama-zashoreny" emibono yabo mayelana nesidingo sokuzithoba kakhulu, ukuthi abakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wokuqala. Khona-ke ungenza okuphambene. Ake sicabange ukhetho olubi.

Ngakho uyini umsebenzi wakho wesihogo? Yini ongayenza ukuze uthole ubusuku obubi? Mhlawumbe, lokhu kuvivinywa okwenzayo ku "okuhle kakhulu". Mhlawumbe umsebenzi wakho we-hellish ungabonakala kanje: "Ngangihlezi usuku lonke ehhovisi elinyathelisiwe kusukela ngo-9 kuya ku-6. Sivame ukuvalelwa ngaphandle kwesixwayiso. Umphathi wami uyindodana yomqondisi, umuntu ongenhliziyo, ongenamsebenzi, ongenakuqhathanisa ozicabangela yena kunabo bonke abanye. Ngichitha izinsuku ngenza imibiko yokutshala imali engacabangi, engasho lutho nokuthi akudingi muntu. "

Noma umsebenzi wakho wesi-hellish ungase ubheke kanje: "Ngisebenza ehhovisi enkabeni yedolobha. Nsuku zonke uhambo lwami lokuya emsebenzini luvela emahoreni amane. Ngikhathele kakhulu futhi ngikhathele. Imali ikwanele kuphela ukukhokha indawo yokuhlala. Umsebenzi wami ehhovisi ukuhlela umsebenzi wawo. Kodwa kukhona njalo ukushayisana okunjalo kuyo futhi akukho nakancane ukudala. Ngigxile kakhulu emisebenzini yemisebenzi ebuhlungu. "

Ingxenye 2.

Manje, uma Ingxenye 1 iqedile, udinga ukwenza okulandelayo. Thatha wonke amaminithi bese uyishintsha kuzinzuzo. Isibonelo, ubhale "akukho buqili emsebenzini wami wesihogo". Ngakho-ke, ekudaleni kwakho umsebenzi weparadesi kufanele ube. Khona-ke emsebenzini wesihogo unompheki ongewona ochwepheshe. Ngakho-ke, emsebenzini wepharadesi, kufanele ube ngumphathi wakho, noma kufanele ube nomphathi ongamthanda.

Phinda ubhale wonke amaminithi kuzinzuzo. Manje kufanele ube nesithombe sokuthi umsebenzi wakho omuhle ungabonakala kanjani.

Kuhle, kufanele nje uthole!

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