Uthando luyisibusiso, olunikezwa abantu abavela phezulu. Phakathi kwabathandani njalo kunezimo zengqondo ezihlukahlukene kanye nemisindo. Ngisho nokuthinta okuncane kwesandla kungabangela ukuthambekela komusa nokuvusa ngocansi. Umphumela wokwenza ucansi ukwandisa kuphela uma kwenzeka phakathi kwabathandi ababili. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umuzwa wothando uyaphela futhi kukhona umuzwa wokuthandana, noma akukho lutho, ngakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uma ufunda izinzwa ezintsha, akufanele ukhohlwe ukuhlukahluka kobulili. Ungenza kanjani othandekayo wakho abe mnandi ngezocansi? Funda ngalokhu esihlokweni sethu samanje.
Uma umuntu ekhula, unezinguquko zomzimba emzimbeni, kukhona ukukhangwa kobulili obuhlukile. Ngalesi sikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlangabezana nomlingani ohlakaniphile futhi onolwazi oluthe xaxa ozofundisa ubulili obuhle futhi obuphephile, okuyinto esikhathini esizayo okuyokwenza ukuthi kuthathwe ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kwengqondo yomuntu ngamunye.
Ezocansi, konke kubalulekile, futhi uma lo mlingani ethandekayo, imizwa yakhe nemizwa yakhe, kufanele uqaphele yonke into encane. Kulesi sihloko ngingathanda ukucubungula izindaba ezihlobene nocansi ngamehlo owesifazane. Yini okufanele yenziwe ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi umlingani angathola ukwaneliseka okuphelele kakhulu?
Okokuqala, kumelwe silungiselele kusengaphambili le mfihlakalo futhi sicabange ngakho konke okuncane. Qala ngokukhanyisa. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuthi ukujula kuqinisa isifiso. Isigaba esilandelayo ekulungiseleleni yizingubo zangaphansi. Izambatho kufanele zigcizelele zonke izinzuzo futhi zifihle ukungaphumeleli kwesibalo. Isigaba esilandelayo siyakhohlisa futhi lapha wonke owesifazane unezindlela zakhe siqu. Abesifazane abaningi baqeqeshiwe ngokukhethekile ku-striptease, ukudansa kwaseMpumalanga nezinye izindlela zokukhohlisa. Kumele ucabange noma yini encane, ngisho nephunga lomfazi othandekayo lingakhulisa isifiso, ngakho-ke kudingeka usebenzise imimoya efanelekile kuleli phuzu. Ngesikhathi socansi, kufanele usebenzise izimo ezehlukene ezilungile kubalingani. Ngokuvamile, okuvame kakhulu ukuhlelwa kwendabuko "yezithunywa zevangeli", isimo somuntu "ogibelayo" nesikhundla se-"lateral". Ukuze uthole ukuzwa okusha, kufanele usebenzise iziphakamiso ezintsha. Abalingani abaningi bazizwa isidingo sokuthola ukuthintana okuphezulu kwezidumbu nethuba lokubona amehlo omlingani. Ngenxa yalokhu, "isithunywa sevangeli", i-yoga yobulili, kanye nokuma eduze nodonga noma ifenisha, zifanelekile. Ukusebenzisa i-"umgibeli" pose kuvumela abalingani ukuthi bakwazi ukulawula isimo, kepha lapha ungasebenzisa izinketho ezahlukene, ezifana "starfish" noma "boatman". Ukuthuthukisa umphumela, ungasebenzisa izinto ezihlukahlukene, njengebuhlalu obukhulu, amathoyizi avela esitolo socansi kanye nemifino. Kusukela kokuxhumana kwama-knickknacks abandayo kanye nezingxenye zomzimba ezifudumele, lo mlingani uzoqinisa ukukhangwa ngokocansi ngokulandelana kwemibono ehlukile. Ungasebenzisa amakamelo ahlukene ngezocansi, futhi uhlele amageyimu okudlala indima: isibonelo, owesifazane wesifazane wesifazane kwendwangu eyodwa yezingubo zangaphansi, kanti nenkosikazi eyindoda eyathola insizwa "inceku" endlini yokugezela imyisa kumshini wokugeza. Uma kunendaba eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, injabulo abahlanganyeli bayoba nayo. Inendima ebalulekile oxhumana nabo ngokocansi inikezwa izibuko, lapho abathandi bebona ukuthi kwenzekani ohlangothini, okubuye kwandise umphumela. Yingakho kaningi emakamelweni okulala ahlelwe isibuko kanye nokufakwe okwenziwe nge-chrome.
Ngokwazi ezweni lanamuhla, ukulala ngokobulili kubizwa ngokuthi ukwenza uthando. Usengakwazi ukuchaza eziningi zezinto ezihlukahlukene kanye nesicelo sabo, kodwa akufanele neze ukhohlwe ngokuphepha kocansi. Okokuqala, ubulili kufanele bube nomlingani wakho othandekayo. Ezimweni zanamuhla kunezindlela eziningi zokuvimbela ukukhulelwa nokuvikelwa, futhi ukuze ugweme imiphumela engathandeki kungcono ukuyisebenzisa. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, uma ubuhlobo buqala nje kuphela futhi abalingani besaziwa kangako, ungakhohlwa ngezifo ezingabonakala kamuva, ngakho-ke emihlanganweni yokuqala, amakhondomu afaneleke kakhulu.
Kunamathuba amaningi, indlela yokwenza othandekayo wakho ajabule ngocansi, sineluleka ukuba ucabange futhi uvivinye!