Uqinisekile ukuthi isoka lakho alikusebenzisi, kodwa likuthanda? Hlola ...

Lesi sihloko asiqukethe izindaba "ezincane", izitatimende ngomoya wazo "bonke abalimi bembuzi", "alukho uthando" namanye ama-melodrama. Iqiniso olifundayo, sasihlwitha ngenkinga enkulu emlonyeni wezindebe zomuntu izintambo zezindlela ezihlukene nemibuzo ekhohlisayo. Vula ikhalenda! Esifundweni sethu uzofunda ngezimo zangempela: ukuthi ubulili obuqinile busebenzisa kanjani abesifazane. Iqiniso eliphukile, ngobuqili nobuqili ...

Uma umfana esebenzisa wena ngocansi

Kunezibonelo ezimbili zokuziphatha kwabantu, uma bevela entombazaneni badinga ucansi futhi akukho okunye okunye. Okokuqala : ukuthandana okuncane ezinyathelweni zokuqala zokuthandana, kuze kufike kocansi. Okwesibili : ukuziphatha ngokulinganayo okupholile kulo lonke isikhathi sobudlelwane bakho bocansi. Futhi abafana abazami ukuphatha kahle intombazane, thina ngokwethu siza nezizathu ezingenangqondo kumlingani ovela kwinani elithi "akafuni ukukhombisa imizwa yakhe," "lokhu kuyimfanelo yakhe." Zombili lezi zithombe zihlanganiswa uhlelo lokuziphatha lwamadoda. Hlola ngokucophelela imikhuba yomfana: akunjalo?
Ngokomunye wabafana abaxoxwa nabo, kukhona okungafani nemithetho: "Ngiyakwazi ukuhamba naye ngesibambo, hamba ku-bar ne-skating rink, kodwa angimkhathaleli nhlobo. Ayikho imizwa, akukho mzwelo. Yebo, ngingumfana onjalo. Ngithanda kuphela ohlangothini olubonakalayo. Uma intombazane iqala ukukhathazeka noma iqala ukuxubha uthando lwe-boo, ngizomtshela ukuthi ngiyayithanda. "

Uma usetshenziselwa "yimpumelelo yemidlalo"

Ngokuvamile phakathi kwabesilisa abaneminyaka engu-18 kuya kwengu-25 kunombono othi "Nginomdla wakhe wemidlalo: finyelela, ulale futhi uphonse." Isisulu sikhetha okuthandayo:
Umfana onjalo uzokwenza konke ukuze afinyelele umgomo - ukuze amlale. Futhi isikhathi se-candy-bouquet, nokuthandana. Kunzima futhi akunakwenzeka ukuba ungathandi. Ngemuva kokuhlangana nalabo bantu, kukhona ulwandle lwezinyembezi, ubuhlungu nokudumazeka. Ukuthola umfana akunakwenzeka ukusebenza ... Bheka, okokuqala, idumela lakhe. Phinda uhlole ukuthi uhlangane kuphi nokuthi uhlangane kanjani. Izenzo zakhe. Uma kunolwazi olumayelana nomuntu wangaphambili, thola ukuthi ubuhlobo babo baqala kanjani nokuthi kungani bahlukana. Laba bantu basebenza ohlelweni oluqinisekisiwe olusebenza ngempumelelo namantombazane amaningi.

Uma umuntu esebenzisa wena njengomhlobiso

Ngezinye izikhathi amadoda adinga nje ukuba nentombazane ukuba abe. Thatha nawe ezenzakalweni ezibalulekile, emihlanganweni nakusihlwa. Uhlobo lokuziphatha kommeleli wesondo oqinile kule nkinga luhlukahluka ekubunjeni kwesikhwama sakhe. Umfana ocebile uzothola ukunakwa kwakho ngezipho, ngezikhathi ezithile ukushayela ezitolo zokudlela futhi ngesikhathi esifanele uthi "namhlanje siya emhlanganweni / idili." Indoda ephethe isikhwama sayo kuphela ngosuku lokukhokha , iyoba lapho lapho elula futhi engasizi ngalutho ngemali. Ukuziphatha okulandela izimpawu zokuqala zokunakwa - kubiza izinhlanzi, i-pussycat, i-bunny. Ngezinye izikhathi wenza ukuvunyelwa ukuba angakulahleki. Uhlelo lwemihlangano ehlangene lulungiswa ngokwayo. Kungaba yinto embi, kuyadingeka. Uyenqaba ukujwayelana nabazali nabangane abasondelene nalezi zintombazane.

Uma usetshenziswa njengenceku

Ingabe kube khona izimo lapho umuntu emema khona endaweni yakhe, lapho enesitsha sezingcolile ezingcolile, izinto ezingezona ezihlanziwe futhi ezingenalutho esiqandisini? Futhi ngokumomotheka okumnandi, ukumbumbuluza nokushaya ezindebeni, kukucela ukuthi uphume. Uma iphindaphinda njalo, intombazane ibonakala iyinceku, "ilungiselela ukudla, kahle, futhi ungaba nobulili . "

Uma usetshenziswa njengendlela "yokukhetha indawo"

Kwenzeka ukuthi usetshenziswa njengendawo "yezindiza". Futhi akusikho ngocansi. Sichaza isimo. Intombazane ihamba nomfana futhi ibonakala sengathi ibuhlobo obuhle, futhi ngesikhathi esisodwa, i-bang - umfana waya kumuntu owangaphambili, waqala ukuhlangana nomunye noma walala ngaphandle kokulandelela. Ngakho-ke, bathandekayo, wawungumgomo "wokugcina indawo." Izimbangela: Ngokuvamile ezimweni ezinjalo awunjalo. Ubuhlobo bakho busemkhawulweni: babonakala behlangana, kepha kwakungekho isitatimende esisemthethweni. Ngesinye isikhathi wazizwa unyunyana nendoda, kwenye-ngokwayo. Indlela yokunquma? Efihliwe, izindaba zakhe zinyuka, ulwazi lushintsha ngokulungiswa.
Umfana ugwema izindawo ezigcweleyo ngesikhathi sokuhamba ngokuhlanganyela, isibonelo, kuholela echibini. Yini engeyona yothando, hamba endaweni ethule, ehlangene futhi ujabulele ubumfihlo? Uma le ntombazane iphoqelela ukuya endaweni egcwele - i-cafe - umfana uziphatha ngokujabula, ugweme ukuxhumana okude. Ifihla izingcingo kanye nezaziso ezisuka kuzithunywa ezisheshayo. Ubeka ifoni etafuleni ngesikrini phansi noma ebeka ephaketheni lakhe. Ngokuvamile izingcingo phakathi nosuku bese kucacisa: ukuphi, yiziphi izinhlelo kanye nokuthi uya kuphi. Kunoma yikuphi ukungahambisani nawe.

Uma usetshenziselwa indawo yokuhlala

Kunezikhathi lapho abalimi abalawula amandla amakhulu: uhlala ngaphandle kwephahla phezu kwekhanda lakhe noma ngaphandle kwemali. Futhi "ikhanda lakhe elikhanyayo" livakashelwe umqondo wokusebenzisa owesifazane njengendawo yokuhlala yesikhashana. Kusho, ukuhlazisa, ukucasula - kodwa kubalulekile ... Izimpawu zokuziphatha:
Abantu abanjalo banakho konke okungazithola ngokushesha esihlahleni esifudumele ngesikhathi sokurekhoda. Indlela yokuqaphela ? Zama okuningi mayelana nokuchuma kwakhe, umsebenzi lapho ehlala khona. Futhi ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi unendawo yokuhlala, cela ukuthi ahlale izinsuku ezimbalwa ngokulandelana.

Uma usetshenziselwa imali

Amantombazane aphephile futhi aphumelelayo kufanele akhethe ngokucophelela abalingani futhi angaphuthelwa i-gigolo eyaziwayo. Ngokuvamile, bakhetha isisulu salowo ovame ukudumazeka ngamadoda amaningi. Futhi, izivolonti zabonisa ukuthi amadoda aphethe imali enza ngokuvumelana namacebo amabili: Okokuqala . Umfana, obona kuwe isikhwama semali, uzoba kabili futhi abe mnene. Ungumuntu ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni ongenandaba nemali yakho nesimo sakho. Lendlala ngothando nokuthandana kwe-pohlesche nightingale enezinwele ezimnandi. U-Alfonso uphelele kakhulu kangangokuthi uthatha umoya: ukudla kwasekuseni embhedeni, ukuphunga emini emva komsebenzi kanye neqembu lezinto ezincane ezimnandi ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Futhi bazama ukukhombisa ukuthi ubani "oyinkosi endlini," ukulawula owesifazane ophumelelayo endlini yakhe. La madoda anqabile ukukhombisa ubuthakathaka bawo futhi yilokho amantombazane akhangwa khona. Futhi ngenkathi ikhanda lalo wesifazane livuthwe ngothando, le nsizwa icela ngenkani imali encane yokuthuthukiswa kwebhizinisi "jikelele," noma lisondela ngokushesha ngosuku lomshado. Esesibili sibi futhi sisho. Ufuna ingane kuwe. Ukunciphisa okunjalo ukubetha amakhondomu, "ngengozi" asinaso isikhathi sokuphuma. Yenza konke ukwenza intombazane ecebile "ihambe" ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi futhi, sicaphuna amazwi omunye wobulili obunamandla: "Kungani uqamba amanga? Yebo, wonke umuntu okungenani wacabanga ukuthi uzothola owesifazane ocebile futhi ugeze. Khona-ke umshado, nonogogo wakhe ephaketheni lakho. "

Futhi kancane kancane ngamadoda

Lesi yisibonelo sabesilisa abanobugovu nabanobugovu, kodwa namanje kukhona uthando olungenakulinganiswa, amadoda amnandi namadoda abulungele ngempela konke! Kuzo zonke izimangaliso, ukuthi ungajabula. Konke okufanayo, kusale nalabo bantu abazokuthokozisa ngenjongo yokuphila kwakhe. Amahlala namanje labo obamomotheka bakho ebusweni buyabiza kunanoma iyiphi idayimane. Futhi laba bafana bangaphezu kwamapulangwe! Futhi uyini indoda yakho?